Ladies who made it their job to marry a rich man-how did you do it?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Find out within the first couple dates what they do for a living, where they live, what they drive. If it doesn’t meet your standards move on to the next. Never waiting time on someone who doesn’t live a certain life style etc.

SMH. My male friends intentionally play down their wealth initially for this very reason.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Find out within the first couple dates what they do for a living, where they live, what they drive. If it doesn’t meet your standards move on to the next. Never waiting time on someone who doesn’t live a certain life style etc.

SMH. My male friends intentionally play down their wealth initially for this very reason.

Foolish. They would do better embracing what they bring to the table to leverage it for they things they want in a spouse.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:You have to be a certain kind of person. Thin very attractive and kind. You have to get them young. Like in college or grad school. It can be done but it’s a full time job. It helps if you have chops of your own to add. Many rich men praised me for my kindness and soothing voice. Who knew?

Thinness is overstated on this board. Maybe because most people in DC familiar with wealth are speaking from NYC experiences? I’ve dated a number of wealthy men and then married one all while never being thin.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Find out within the first couple dates what they do for a living, where they live, what they drive. If it doesn’t meet your standards move on to the next. Never waiting time on someone who doesn’t live a certain life style etc.

SMH. My male friends intentionally play down their wealth initially for this very reason.

Good. That’s another way to weed them out and see it wouldn’t be a match. It’s not always how much money they make it’s how much they’re willing to give and how they view their role as a man. If two people have different beliefs no need to waste any more time than necessary. On to the next.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Find out within the first couple dates what they do for a living, where they live, what they drive. If it doesn’t meet your standards move on to the next. Never waiting time on someone who doesn’t live a certain life style etc.

SMH. My male friends intentionally play down their wealth initially for this very reason.

+1

My male friends can see through this faaaaaast. They smell the desperation, will use you for sex and then goodbye.

Women who have their pick are desirable, appealing women (judging by what men of that pedigree think, not what women think they should think is attractive) who do not chase men.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Find out within the first couple dates what they do for a living, where they live, what they drive. If it doesn’t meet your standards move on to the next. Never waiting time on someone who doesn’t live a certain life style etc.

SMH. My male friends intentionally play down their wealth initially for this very reason.

Foolish. They would do better embracing what they bring to the table to leverage it for they things they want in a spouse.

Or they went that route with prior relationships and they’re looking for something more substantial.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:You have to be a certain kind of person. Thin very attractive and kind. You have to get them young. Like in college or grad school. It can be done but it’s a full time job. It helps if you have chops of your own to add. Many rich men praised me for my kindness and soothing voice. Who knew?

Thinness is overstated on this board. Maybe because most people in DC familiar with wealth are speaking from NYC experiences? I’ve dated a number of wealthy men and then married one all while never being thin.

You might not be thin, but you’re probably not fat.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:You have to be a certain kind of person. Thin very attractive and kind. You have to get them young. Like in college or grad school. It can be done but it’s a full time job. It helps if you have chops of your own to add. Many rich men praised me for my kindness and soothing voice. Who knew?

Thinness is overstated on this board. Maybe because most people in DC familiar with wealth are speaking from NYC experiences? I’ve dated a number of wealthy men and then married one all while never being thin.

You might not be thin, but you’re probably not fat.

I’m Chicago voluptuous which is NYC obese.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Find out within the first couple dates what they do for a living, where they live, what they drive. If it doesn’t meet your standards move on to the next. Never waiting time on someone who doesn’t live a certain life style etc.

SMH. My male friends intentionally play down their wealth initially for this very reason.

Foolish. They would do better embracing what they bring to the table to leverage it for they things they want in a spouse.

Or they went that route with prior relationships and they’re looking for something more substantial.

Or they don’t really want to get married at all and are making up reasons for why it’s okay to churn & burn women.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Find out within the first couple dates what they do for a living, where they live, what they drive. If it doesn’t meet your standards move on to the next. Never waiting time on someone who doesn’t live a certain life style etc.

SMH. My male friends intentionally play down their wealth initially for this very reason.

Good. That’s another way to weed them out and see it wouldn’t be a match. It’s not always how much money they make it’s how much they’re willing to give and how they view their role as a man. If two people have different beliefs no need to waste any more time than necessary. On to the next.

This exactly. Plenty of wealthy men out there are stingy bastards and/or wary of gold diggers and want to make the women "work for it."

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Find out within the first couple dates what they do for a living, where they live, what they drive. If it doesn’t meet your standards move on to the next. Never waiting time on someone who doesn’t live a certain life style etc.

SMH. My male friends intentionally play down their wealth initially for this very reason.

Good. That’s another way to weed them out and see it wouldn’t be a match. It’s not always how much money they make it’s how much they’re willing to give and how they view their role as a man. If two people have different beliefs no need to waste any more time than necessary. On to the next.

This exactly. Plenty of wealthy men out there are stingy bastards and/or wary of gold diggers and want to make the women "work for it."

I find nothing wrong with it. Men have the right to keep their money close to them. I wouldn’t call it stingy. If you expect to marry a wealthy man and do nothing, why shouldn’t you work for it? You better be damn good in bed if you can’t bring anything else to the table.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Find out within the first couple dates what they do for a living, where they live, what they drive. If it doesn’t meet your standards move on to the next. Never waiting time on someone who doesn’t live a certain life style etc.

I know someone that thought the guy was rich, because he had nice car, dressed well etc. It turned out he had no savings, no assets, and just spent everything on looking the part

[Anonymous]

If you want to marry someone who comes from a wealthy family and will inherit a big fortune, then a top college or top graduate business school is your best bet. The Z list types are there in force, with buildings named after them. I did exactly that, and it was what the previous poster suggested: go to where the rich people are and fall in love. Doing so is probably the best financial decision you will ever have a chance to make.

[Anonymous]

Recognize how vile you sound in asking how to marry rich. That's step 1. Then, if you want money, get your ass in gear and work for it.
-A woman

[Anonymous]

Not to detail this: but the insistence of women that they are ‘good in bed’. You do know that it’s good for men: Everytime.

So a woman being ‘good’ is often just being joyfully available (to borrow from the fundies). That’s the big secret.

So if that’s ‘how you snagged a rich man’, plenty of other women have mastered that same skill set