Teacher shot at Newport News elementary school

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Anonymous wrote:Why is everyone blaming the mom and not the dad also? It takes two to have a baby people.

I blame the dad for also having the baby but how is he responsible for the mother’s drug problems, poor decision making, bad parenting, buying guns and leaving them around? Huh?

If you were co-parenting and your child's other parent had all of these issues, what would you do? Clutch your pearls and say "oh well, nothing I can do." Of course not! You'd be calling CPS. You'd be seeking full custody of your child. If the dad was MIA, that is inexcusable also. I am so tired of society blaming women for having babies (it takes two people to make a baby) they're not prepared to care for, for blaming women when children have behavior problems (where is the dad in all of this). I'm not in any way trying to excuse this mother's poor decision making (and that may be an under statement). I'm simply saying she isn't the only parent responsible for a child this young having the issues this child had, but she is the only parent getting the blame here. Ejaculate responsibly.

She is 100% responsible for being on drugs, basically being a drug dealer, buying guns, leaving them unsecured around her violent young child.

WTAF is wrong with you PP? Your apologist attitude is part of the problem.

Again, she isn't the only parent responsible for a child this young having the issues this child had, but she is the only parent getting the blame here.

It was her gun, they were her drugs, it was her drug scale, she was driving her car. GMAFB already with your babble.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Why is everyone blaming the mom and not the dad also? It takes two to have a baby people.

I blame the dad for also having the baby but how is he responsible for the mother’s drug problems, poor decision making, bad parenting, buying guns and leaving them around? Huh?

If you were co-parenting and your child's other parent had all of these issues, what would you do? Clutch your pearls and say "oh well, nothing I can do." Of course not! You'd be calling CPS. You'd be seeking full custody of your child. If the dad was MIA, that is inexcusable also. I am so tired of society blaming women for having babies (it takes two people to make a baby) they're not prepared to care for, for blaming women when children have behavior problems (where is the dad in all of this). I'm not in any way trying to excuse this mother's poor decision making (and that may be an under statement). I'm simply saying she isn't the only parent responsible for a child this young having the issues this child had, but she is the only parent getting the blame here. Ejaculate responsibly.

She is 100% responsible for being on drugs, basically being a drug dealer, buying guns, leaving them unsecured around her violent young child.

WTAF is wrong with you PP? Your apologist attitude is part of the problem.

Again, she isn't the only parent responsible for a child this young having the issues this child had, but she is the only parent getting the blame here.

It was her gun, they were her drugs, it was her drug scale, she was driving her car. GMAFB already with your babble.

Can’t see the forest for the trees, can you?

[Anonymous]

Anyone get the feeling that she may have been dealing to the school admins, hence an explanation why they went along with such asinine arrangements?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Why is everyone blaming the mom and not the dad also? It takes two to have a baby people.

I blame the dad for also having the baby but how is he responsible for the mother’s drug problems, poor decision making, bad parenting, buying guns and leaving them around? Huh?

If you were co-parenting and your child's other parent had all of these issues, what would you do? Clutch your pearls and say "oh well, nothing I can do." Of course not! You'd be calling CPS. You'd be seeking full custody of your child. If the dad was MIA, that is inexcusable also. I am so tired of society blaming women for having babies (it takes two people to make a baby) they're not prepared to care for, for blaming women when children have behavior problems (where is the dad in all of this). I'm not in any way trying to excuse this mother's poor decision making (and that may be an under statement). I'm simply saying she isn't the only parent responsible for a child this young having the issues this child had, but she is the only parent getting the blame here. Ejaculate responsibly.

She is 100% responsible for being on drugs, basically being a drug dealer, buying guns, leaving them unsecured around her violent young child.

WTAF is wrong with you PP? Your apologist attitude is part of the problem.

Again, she isn't the only parent responsible for a child this young having the issues this child had, but she is the only parent getting the blame here.

It takes 2 to make a child, but it took one to provide the kid with a gun.

Without additional info about the dad, the mom is clearly way, WAY more culpable here.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I fully admit that this is an awful thing to say ... but that woman should have gotten an abortion. She was a pregnant 19 year with a drug habit that had absolutely no business raising a child.

My post will probably be deleted, but the Roe vs. Wade reversal is going to unleash a whole lot more of this in 5 to 7 years.

+1 I completely agree

+2 it might be an awful situation but it’s not awful to accurately identify such situations. The only benefit to curtailed abortions will be if people like this get Nexplanon in their arms.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Why is everyone blaming the mom and not the dad also? It takes two to have a baby people.

I blame the dad for also having the baby but how is he responsible for the mother’s drug problems, poor decision making, bad parenting, buying guns and leaving them around? Huh?

If you were co-parenting and your child's other parent had all of these issues, what would you do? Clutch your pearls and say "oh well, nothing I can do." Of course not! You'd be calling CPS. You'd be seeking full custody of your child. If the dad was MIA, that is inexcusable also. I am so tired of society blaming women for having babies (it takes two people to make a baby) they're not prepared to care for, for blaming women when children have behavior problems (where is the dad in all of this). I'm not in any way trying to excuse this mother's poor decision making (and that may be an under statement). I'm simply saying she isn't the only parent responsible for a child this young having the issues this child had, but she is the only parent getting the blame here. Ejaculate responsibly.

She is 100% responsible for being on drugs, basically being a drug dealer, buying guns, leaving them unsecured around her violent young child.

WTAF is wrong with you PP? Your apologist attitude is part of the problem.

Again, she isn't the only parent responsible for a child this young having the issues this child had, but she is the only parent getting the blame here.

It was her gun, they were her drugs, it was her drug scale, she was driving her car. GMAFB already with your babble.

Can’t see the forest for the trees, can you?

Get help.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Anyone get the feeling that she may have been dealing to the school admins, hence an explanation why they went along with such asinine arrangements?

Glad I’m not the only one who had that thought – alternately, i wonder if they knew she was an unsavory drug dealer and didn’t want to get on the wrong side of her.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Why is everyone blaming the mom and not the dad also? It takes two to have a baby people.

I blame the dad for also having the baby but how is he responsible for the mother’s drug problems, poor decision making, bad parenting, buying guns and leaving them around? Huh?

If you were co-parenting and your child's other parent had all of these issues, what would you do? Clutch your pearls and say "oh well, nothing I can do." Of course not! You'd be calling CPS. You'd be seeking full custody of your child. If the dad was MIA, that is inexcusable also. I am so tired of society blaming women for having babies (it takes two people to make a baby) they're not prepared to care for, for blaming women when children have behavior problems (where is the dad in all of this). I'm not in any way trying to excuse this mother's poor decision making (and that may be an under statement). I'm simply saying she isn't the only parent responsible for a child this young having the issues this child had, but she is the only parent getting the blame here. Ejaculate responsibly.

She is 100% responsible for being on drugs, basically being a drug dealer, buying guns, leaving them unsecured around her violent young child.

WTAF is wrong with you PP? Your apologist attitude is part of the problem.

Again, she isn't the only parent responsible for a child this young having the issues this child had, but she is the only parent getting the blame here.

It takes 2 to make a child, but it took one to provide the kid with a gun.

Without additional info about the dad, the mom is clearly way, WAY more culpable here.

For the access to the gun, sure. But I’m talking about the bigger picture of a the child’s history of violent and disturbing behavior. Society needs to stop making excuses for men and letting them off the hook because they are acting irresponsibly and being uninvolved in the lives of their children (which itself is irresponsible). The term I would use for men like this is negligent, failure to use reasonable care. My point continues to be that while there is plenty to blame the mom for, there is a man somewhere who is also should also be held responsible for this child.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Why is everyone blaming the mom and not the dad also? It takes two to have a baby people.

I blame the dad for also having the baby but how is he responsible for the mother’s drug problems, poor decision making, bad parenting, buying guns and leaving them around? Huh?

If you were co-parenting and your child's other parent had all of these issues, what would you do? Clutch your pearls and say "oh well, nothing I can do." Of course not! You'd be calling CPS. You'd be seeking full custody of your child. If the dad was MIA, that is inexcusable also. I am so tired of society blaming women for having babies (it takes two people to make a baby) they're not prepared to care for, for blaming women when children have behavior problems (where is the dad in all of this). I'm not in any way trying to excuse this mother's poor decision making (and that may be an under statement). I'm simply saying she isn't the only parent responsible for a child this young having the issues this child had, but she is the only parent getting the blame here. Ejaculate responsibly.

She is 100% responsible for being on drugs, basically being a drug dealer, buying guns, leaving them unsecured around her violent young child.

WTAF is wrong with you PP? Your apologist attitude is part of the problem.

Again, she isn't the only parent responsible for a child this young having the issues this child had, but she is the only parent getting the blame here.

It takes 2 to make a child, but it took one to provide the kid with a gun.

Without additional info about the dad, the mom is clearly way, WAY more culpable here.

For the access to the gun, sure. But I’m talking about the bigger picture of a the child’s history of violent and disturbing behavior. Society needs to stop making excuses for men and letting them off the hook because they are acting irresponsibly and being uninvolved in the lives of their children (which itself is irresponsible). The term I would use for men like this is negligent, failure to use reasonable care. My point continues to be that while there is plenty to blame the mom for, there is a man somewhere who is also should also be held responsible for this child.

Correct, but the biological fact is that only one sex carries and delivers babies. It is incumbent upon that one sex to be a tiny bit smarter than the other.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Why is everyone blaming the mom and not the dad also? It takes two to have a baby people.

I blame the dad for also having the baby but how is he responsible for the mother’s drug problems, poor decision making, bad parenting, buying guns and leaving them around? Huh?

If you were co-parenting and your child's other parent had all of these issues, what would you do? Clutch your pearls and say "oh well, nothing I can do." Of course not! You'd be calling CPS. You'd be seeking full custody of your child. If the dad was MIA, that is inexcusable also. I am so tired of society blaming women for having babies (it takes two people to make a baby) they're not prepared to care for, for blaming women when children have behavior problems (where is the dad in all of this). I'm not in any way trying to excuse this mother's poor decision making (and that may be an under statement). I'm simply saying she isn't the only parent responsible for a child this young having the issues this child had, but she is the only parent getting the blame here. Ejaculate responsibly.

She is 100% responsible for being on drugs, basically being a drug dealer, buying guns, leaving them unsecured around her violent young child.

WTAF is wrong with you PP? Your apologist attitude is part of the problem.

Again, she isn't the only parent responsible for a child this young having the issues this child had, but she is the only parent getting the blame here.

It takes 2 to make a child, but it took one to provide the kid with a gun.

Without additional info about the dad, the mom is clearly way, WAY more culpable here.

For the access to the gun, sure. But I’m talking about the bigger picture of a the child’s history of violent and disturbing behavior. Society needs to stop making excuses for men and letting them off the hook because they are acting irresponsibly and being uninvolved in the lives of their children (which itself is irresponsible). The term I would use for men like this is negligent, failure to use reasonable care. My point continues to be that while there is plenty to blame the mom for, there is a man somewhere who is also should also be held responsible for this child.

Correct, but the biological fact is that only one sex carries and delivers babies. It is incumbent upon that one sex to be a tiny bit smarter than the other.

The misogyny in your statement underpins so much of what is wrong with society.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Why is everyone blaming the mom and not the dad also? It takes two to have a baby people.

I blame the dad for also having the baby but how is he responsible for the mother’s drug problems, poor decision making, bad parenting, buying guns and leaving them around? Huh?

If you were co-parenting and your child's other parent had all of these issues, what would you do? Clutch your pearls and say "oh well, nothing I can do." Of course not! You'd be calling CPS. You'd be seeking full custody of your child. If the dad was MIA, that is inexcusable also. I am so tired of society blaming women for having babies (it takes two people to make a baby) they're not prepared to care for, for blaming women when children have behavior problems (where is the dad in all of this). I'm not in any way trying to excuse this mother's poor decision making (and that may be an under statement). I'm simply saying she isn't the only parent responsible for a child this young having the issues this child had, but she is the only parent getting the blame here. Ejaculate responsibly.

She is 100% responsible for being on drugs, basically being a drug dealer, buying guns, leaving them unsecured around her violent young child.

WTAF is wrong with you PP? Your apologist attitude is part of the problem.

Again, she isn't the only parent responsible for a child this young having the issues this child had, but she is the only parent getting the blame here.

It takes 2 to make a child, but it took one to provide the kid with a gun.

Without additional info about the dad, the mom is clearly way, WAY more culpable here.

For the access to the gun, sure. But I’m talking about the bigger picture of a the child’s history of violent and disturbing behavior. Society needs to stop making excuses for men and letting them off the hook because they are acting irresponsibly and being uninvolved in the lives of their children (which itself is irresponsible). The term I would use for men like this is negligent, failure to use reasonable care. My point continues to be that while there is plenty to blame the mom for, there is a man somewhere who is also should also be held responsible for this child.

Correct, but the biological fact is that only one sex carries and delivers babies. It is incumbent upon that one sex to be a tiny bit smarter than the other.

The misogyny in your statement underpins so much of what is wrong with society.

I am not a misogynist. I’m a woman who wants to be in charge my own body. If you were in control, it also carries a teeny tiny bit of responsibility. 🙄

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Why is everyone blaming the mom and not the dad also? It takes two to have a baby people.

I blame the dad for also having the baby but how is he responsible for the mother’s drug problems, poor decision making, bad parenting, buying guns and leaving them around? Huh?

If you were co-parenting and your child's other parent had all of these issues, what would you do? Clutch your pearls and say "oh well, nothing I can do." Of course not! You'd be calling CPS. You'd be seeking full custody of your child. If the dad was MIA, that is inexcusable also. I am so tired of society blaming women for having babies (it takes two people to make a baby) they're not prepared to care for, for blaming women when children have behavior problems (where is the dad in all of this). I'm not in any way trying to excuse this mother's poor decision making (and that may be an under statement). I'm simply saying she isn't the only parent responsible for a child this young having the issues this child had, but she is the only parent getting the blame here. Ejaculate responsibly.

She is 100% responsible for being on drugs, basically being a drug dealer, buying guns, leaving them unsecured around her violent young child.

WTAF is wrong with you PP? Your apologist attitude is part of the problem.

Again, she isn't the only parent responsible for a child this young having the issues this child had, but she is the only parent getting the blame here.

It takes 2 to make a child, but it took one to provide the kid with a gun.

Without additional info about the dad, the mom is clearly way, WAY more culpable here.

For the access to the gun, sure. But I’m talking about the bigger picture of a the child’s history of violent and disturbing behavior. Society needs to stop making excuses for men and letting them off the hook because they are acting irresponsibly and being uninvolved in the lives of their children (which itself is irresponsible). The term I would use for men like this is negligent, failure to use reasonable care. My point continues to be that while there is plenty to blame the mom for, there is a man somewhere who is also should also be held responsible for this child.

Correct, but the biological fact is that only one sex carries and delivers babies. It is incumbent upon that one sex to be a tiny bit smarter than the other.

The misogyny in your statement underpins so much of what is wrong with society.

I am not a misogynist. I’m a woman who wants to be in charge my own body. If you were in control, it also carries a teeny tiny bit of responsibility. 🙄

Correcting the auto correct: if one wants control….

[Anonymous]

Stop hijacking the thread.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I fully admit that this is an awful thing to say ... but that woman should have gotten an abortion. She was a pregnant 19 year with a drug habit that had absolutely no business raising a child.

My post will probably be deleted, but the Roe vs. Wade reversal is going to unleash a whole lot more of this in 5 to 7 years.

+1 I completely agree

+2 it might be an awful situation but it’s not awful to accurately identify such situations. The only benefit to curtailed abortions will be if people like this get Nexplanon in their arms.

This.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Why is everyone blaming the mom and not the dad also? It takes two to have a baby people.

I blame the dad for also having the baby but how is he responsible for the mother’s drug problems, poor decision making, bad parenting, buying guns and leaving them around? Huh?

If you were co-parenting and your child's other parent had all of these issues, what would you do? Clutch your pearls and say "oh well, nothing I can do." Of course not! You'd be calling CPS. You'd be seeking full custody of your child. If the dad was MIA, that is inexcusable also. I am so tired of society blaming women for having babies (it takes two people to make a baby) they're not prepared to care for, for blaming women when children have behavior problems (where is the dad in all of this). I'm not in any way trying to excuse this mother's poor decision making (and that may be an under statement). I'm simply saying she isn't the only parent responsible for a child this young having the issues this child had, but she is the only parent getting the blame here. Ejaculate responsibly.

She is 100% responsible for being on drugs, basically being a drug dealer, buying guns, leaving them unsecured around her violent young child.

WTAF is wrong with you PP? Your apologist attitude is part of the problem.

Again, she isn't the only parent responsible for a child this young having the issues this child had, but she is the only parent getting the blame here.

It takes 2 to make a child, but it took one to provide the kid with a gun.

Without additional info about the dad, the mom is clearly way, WAY more culpable here.

For the access to the gun, sure. But I’m talking about the bigger picture of a the child’s history of violent and disturbing behavior. Society needs to stop making excuses for men and letting them off the hook because they are acting irresponsibly and being uninvolved in the lives of their children (which itself is irresponsible). The term I would use for men like this is negligent, failure to use reasonable care. My point continues to be that while there is plenty to blame the mom for, there is a man somewhere who is also should also be held responsible for this child.

Correct, but the biological fact is that only one sex carries and delivers babies. It is incumbent upon that one sex to be a tiny bit smarter than the other.

The misogyny in your statement underpins so much of what is wrong with society.

I am not a misogynist. I’m a woman who wants to be in charge my own body. If you were in control, it also carries a teeny tiny bit of responsibility. 🙄

Correcting the auto correct: if one wants control….

Great. Be in control of your body. Men should also be in control of their bodies and ejaculate responsibly.