Just found out that husband is on Only Fans

[Anonymous]

I’m currently 8 months pregnant and I’m in a few pregnancy groups on Fb. There have been several posts over the last month about women finding messages from this site, husbands paying for explicit videos, etc. I had no idea what it was. So my husband is sitting right next to me and we are pretty open with our phones, we’ve never hid anything but I’ve also never looked. So i get his phone and search Only fans And sure enough he got an email confirmation YESTERDAY signing up for this. I didn’t do anymore digging... didn’t look at the app or messages, etc. The app itself didn’t pop up in search so maybe he deleted it (he says he did)

Anyway, I don’t know how to react. I don’t care if he looks at porn. I feel like it’s crossing the line when you are paying and interacting with specific women though. Like, there is a ton of free content out there. Why would he be on this site??

I’m feeling pretty sad 😔

[Anonymous]

From what I’m gathering, it’s basically like a paid social media for nudes or videos, with chat etc. Sometimes you know the people, sometimes it’s strangers you engage with

Is that right??

[Anonymous]

I’m sorry OP. I’d be so upset too. That’s crossing a line and I probably wouldn’t drop it as easily as it seems like you have so props to you for that.

[Anonymous]

I would be mad about wasting money on this as well

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:From what I’m gathering, it’s basically like a paid social media for nudes or videos, with chat etc. Sometimes you know the people, sometimes it’s strangers you engage with

Is that right??

Um... no that's not it.

[Anonymous]

I'm so sorry. That is so disappointing, insulting, and gross.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:From what I’m gathering, it’s basically like a paid social media for nudes or videos, with chat etc. Sometimes you know the people, sometimes it’s strangers you engage with

Is that right??

Um... no that's not it.

Will you please elaborate? I don’t want to get moved to the explicit forum because I want answers, but it’s basically like
Paying for sex videos from regular women? And you can talk to them?

[Anonymous]

Are you sure it's not spam, and that he really did sign up for the site? Kind of like how you read about something on DCUM, then find that the ads all hawk that item or service?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:
Are you sure it's not spam, and that he really did sign up for the site? Kind of like how you read about something on DCUM, then find that the ads all hawk that item or service?

Oh yea he definitely signed up. As soon as I saw it I said something. He looked shocked, told me he was curious but already deleted it, asked me why I was going through his phone and then he started crying apologizing

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:From what I’m gathering, it’s basically like a paid social media for nudes or videos, with chat etc. Sometimes you know the people, sometimes it’s strangers you engage with

Is that right??

Um... no that's not it.

Will you please elaborate? I don’t want to get moved to the explicit forum because I want answers, but it’s basically like
Paying for sex videos from regular women? And you can talk to them?

Ys that's basically it.

[Anonymous]

I'd be upset that I married someone dumb enough to use his regular email for porn sites.

[Anonymous]

I’d go nuclear on him.

I did something similar when my H was being a creep while I was pregnant. We were on vacation, so I packed up, went home, and moved out. Didn’t move back in until I made it very clear that if it ever happened again, he would lose half his money, half his time with his child, and would never see me again.

I know people will say it’s too extreme but I’ve learned that men don’t GAF unless there are severe consequences. Act like a dog, get treated like one.

[Anonymous]

If he's 'chatting' with stars who have 1000s of followers do you really care.

I get if he's having real conversations with women and requesting certain things that they then do...

[Anonymous]

It wouldn’t be a deal breaker for me if I was married, but may be if I was just dating. It’s kind of like cam shows where it crosses a line. Paying/interacting with a woman online is not respectful. There is enough free porn out there.

[Anonymous]

This would be a dealbreaker for me. It's amazing to me how low the bar is for men- apparently now women are okay with them literally paying for sex acts. Pathetic society