Just found out that husband is on Only Fans

[Anonymous]

My wife has an account, it’s fun side money. She says the vast majority are married men with menopausal wives or they’re married to women who won’t even think of indulging in their particular mode of arousal. It’s not even close to cheating, she’s got a whole file of pre written responses that she just copies and pastes; sometimes I’ll do it for her when she gets behind.

Let it go OP; he’s not going anywhere and he’s definitely not getting anywhere near an OF girl.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Can we assume OP that you are not having much sex with him these days due to your lack of interest? So I think you should appreciate the fact his alternative source is online and not IRL.

So she's supposed to be grateful that he wants this crap?

Wow. Great way to make excuses for trash behavior, PP. You know he's not going to switch off this stuff the second OP births that baby.

An actually mature, thinking human being with some control over himself and an imagination can manage while waiting for the person he supposedly respects and loves, and without the aid of porn or IRL outside-the-marriage sex. Don't trot out the idiotic "But men are visual creatures and just have to have images for stimulation!" lecture. That makes it sound as if poor little men are such brainless automatons that they just can't function without porn. They can. People like you enable it with your "pregnancy makes it all OK" excuses.

+1. Pregnancy is a temporary situation. Can you imagine if a woman whose husband had, say, cancer said "oh well, guess I gotta go hop on a dating app and flirt with random dudes online since you're too sick for anything! Sorry, but I need nice dates and vacations to get off! You should appreciate it since now you don't have to do it yourself!" She'd be ripped apart.

If you can't deal with setting aside your own needs temporarily due to health reasons, you shouldn't get married.

+1

Honestly, or have kids. Because let's be real, anyone that impulsive and selfish is going to make a really lousy, subpar, stunted parent.

Temporary or not, expectant fathers generally do not just go into "monk mode" for 9 months. So assuming she's not down, that means he must be taking care of business some how. Therefore Yes: she should be grateful about his choice here.

NP here. This makes me think of how Amish men will force their wives to have sex just hours after giving birth, no matter how traumatic it was.

Anyway, I’m sure PP would also advocate for women cheating on their husbands if their husbands are unable to give them an orgasm, right?

You do understand the difference between rape versus not touching the wife but finding some online girl for fun? Kind of like the exact opposite of rape.

As to advocating for women cheating, first I’d want to know why this woman married a man who’s unable to give her an orgasm. That’s pretty stupid of her, no? I mean did she think he was gonna suddenly get good in bed AFTER marriage?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Meh, I'm a woman and while I don't have an only fans account I watch porn and masturbate to it regularly - even with a healthy sex life with my DH. Sometimes I just want to get off alone. I would not pay for it but I wouldn't care if my DH did as long as it wasn't an excessive amount that would cause us financial stress. I think you just let it go and move on.

Hi, I have a question for you. It seems like you are both on board with porn in your marriage. If you DH found, say, “Jessica” on Only Fans and began to regularly set aside time to “meet” with Jessica daily/every other day and pay this specific women to perform certain acts just for him, would you feel differently? I genuinely curious because this app seems different to me than just basic porn. Curious what people think about this scenario since only fans seems to allow users to develop a sort of “relationship” with the content makers by taking request, etc.

Yes. That’s why this site is different than say porn hub or whatever

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Anonymous wrote:Meh, I'm a woman and while I don't have an only fans account I watch porn and masturbate to it regularly - even with a healthy sex life with my DH. Sometimes I just want to get off alone. I would not pay for it but I wouldn't care if my DH did as long as it wasn't an excessive amount that would cause us financial stress. I think you just let it go and move on.

Hi, I have a question for you. It seems like you are both on board with porn in your marriage. If you DH found, say, “Jessica” on Only Fans and began to regularly set aside time to “meet” with Jessica daily/every other day and pay this specific women to perform certain acts just for him, would you feel differently? I genuinely curious because this app seems different to me than just basic porn. Curious what people think about this scenario since only fans seems to allow users to develop a sort of “relationship” with the content makers by taking request, etc.

Yes. That’s why this site is different than say porn hub or whatever

If you think customers can’t request certain content on porn hub you’re delusional. Only fans just gave creators more freedom to control their client base, cash flow, and what they part take in.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Where do we draw the line? That’s why I feel this only fans site is a huge slippery slope for marriages and relationships. When people are seeking out specific contacts and paying them for certain acts, I feel like there’s an emotional component? I don’t mean to judge people or their relationships, but does anyone else (even those who are okay with porn) feel that these types of apps are an entirely different thing? I would be devastated if my partner sought out specific men/women in this way.

Do people here really think the creatives on Only Fans are going to run off with one man? Lol they’re not falling in love with these dopes! They want their money! And if they are providing content what’s the problem?!

Porn sites are so limited these days, I’d rather watch my husband watch a girl do a strip tease for him than, “Teen gets f**** by father and uncle whole mom watches”???!


Pornhub is a creative wasteland

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:My wife has an account, it’s fun side money. She says the vast majority are married men with menopausal wives or they’re married to women who won’t even think of indulging in their particular mode of arousal. It’s not even close to cheating, she’s got a whole file of pre written responses that she just copies and pastes; sometimes I’ll do it for her when she gets behind.

Let it go OP; he’s not going anywhere and he’s definitely not getting anywhere near an OF girl.

OMG what a pathetic cuck...

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Anonymous wrote:Can we assume OP that you are not having much sex with him these days due to your lack of interest? So I think you should appreciate the fact his alternative source is online and not IRL.

So she's supposed to be grateful that he wants this crap?

Wow. Great way to make excuses for trash behavior, PP. You know he's not going to switch off this stuff the second OP births that baby.

An actually mature, thinking human being with some control over himself and an imagination can manage while waiting for the person he supposedly respects and loves, and without the aid of porn or IRL outside-the-marriage sex. Don't trot out the idiotic "But men are visual creatures and just have to have images for stimulation!" lecture. That makes it sound as if poor little men are such brainless automatons that they just can't function without porn. They can. People like you enable it with your "pregnancy makes it all OK" excuses.

+1. Pregnancy is a temporary situation. Can you imagine if a woman whose husband had, say, cancer said "oh well, guess I gotta go hop on a dating app and flirt with random dudes online since you're too sick for anything! Sorry, but I need nice dates and vacations to get off! You should appreciate it since now you don't have to do it yourself!" She'd be ripped apart.

If you can't deal with setting aside your own needs temporarily due to health reasons, you shouldn't get married.

+1

Honestly, or have kids. Because let's be real, anyone that impulsive and selfish is going to make a really lousy, subpar, stunted parent.

Temporary or not, expectant fathers generally do not just go into "monk mode" for 9 months. So assuming she's not down, that means he must be taking care of business some how. Therefore Yes: she should be grateful about his choice here.

This seems like an odd tangent.
Don’t most pregnant women want to have sex all of the time? I know that I did. Amy Schumer has a whole bit about it. Why are we assuming that OP isn’t interested in being intimate with her husband?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Can we assume OP that you are not having much sex with him these days due to your lack of interest? So I think you should appreciate the fact his alternative source is online and not IRL.

So she's supposed to be grateful that he wants this crap?

Wow. Great way to make excuses for trash behavior, PP. You know he's not going to switch off this stuff the second OP births that baby.

An actually mature, thinking human being with some control over himself and an imagination can manage while waiting for the person he supposedly respects and loves, and without the aid of porn or IRL outside-the-marriage sex. Don't trot out the idiotic "But men are visual creatures and just have to have images for stimulation!" lecture. That makes it sound as if poor little men are such brainless automatons that they just can't function without porn. They can. People like you enable it with your "pregnancy makes it all OK" excuses.

+1. Pregnancy is a temporary situation. Can you imagine if a woman whose husband had, say, cancer said "oh well, guess I gotta go hop on a dating app and flirt with random dudes online since you're too sick for anything! Sorry, but I need nice dates and vacations to get off! You should appreciate it since now you don't have to do it yourself!" She'd be ripped apart.

If you can't deal with setting aside your own needs temporarily due to health reasons, you shouldn't get married.

+1

Honestly, or have kids. Because let's be real, anyone that impulsive and selfish is going to make a really lousy, subpar, stunted parent.

Temporary or not, expectant fathers generally do not just go into "monk mode" for 9 months. So assuming she's not down, that means he must be taking care of business some how. Therefore Yes: she should be grateful about his choice here.

NP here. This makes me think of how Amish men will force their wives to have sex just hours after giving birth, no matter how traumatic it was.

Anyway, I’m sure PP would also advocate for women cheating on their husbands if their husbands are unable to give them an orgasm, right?

Um, what?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:My wife has an account, it’s fun side money. She says the vast majority are married men with menopausal wives or they’re married to women who won’t even think of indulging in their particular mode of arousal. It’s not even close to cheating, she’s got a whole file of pre written responses that she just copies and pastes; sometimes I’ll do it for her when she gets behind.

Let it go OP; he’s not going anywhere and he’s definitely not getting anywhere near an OF girl.

post her Of link so we can check her out. Drive some business her way.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:My wife has an account, it’s fun side money. She says the vast majority are married men with menopausal wives or they’re married to women who won’t even think of indulging in their particular mode of arousal. It’s not even close to cheating, she’s got a whole file of pre written responses that she just copies and pastes; sometimes I’ll do it for her when she gets behind.

Let it go OP; he’s not going anywhere and he’s definitely not getting anywhere near an OF girl.

post her Of link so we can check her out. Drive some business her way.

Haha, omg

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:My wife has an account, it’s fun side money. She says the vast majority are married men with menopausal wives or they’re married to women who won’t even think of indulging in their particular mode of arousal. It’s not even close to cheating, she’s got a whole file of pre written responses that she just copies and pastes; sometimes I’ll do it for her when she gets behind.

What content does she post? Does she include her face? How many followers does she have, and how often does she create new content? Is she a 10 or just a cute milf?

If I could actually have some followers without showing my face, I'd consider doing this for side money.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Can we assume OP that you are not having much sex with him these days due to your lack of interest? So I think you should appreciate the fact his alternative source is online and not IRL.

So she's supposed to be grateful that he wants this crap?

Wow. Great way to make excuses for trash behavior, PP. You know he's not going to switch off this stuff the second OP births that baby.

An actually mature, thinking human being with some control over himself and an imagination can manage while waiting for the person he supposedly respects and loves, and without the aid of porn or IRL outside-the-marriage sex. Don't trot out the idiotic "But men are visual creatures and just have to have images for stimulation!" lecture. That makes it sound as if poor little men are such brainless automatons that they just can't function without porn. They can. People like you enable it with your "pregnancy makes it all OK" excuses.

+1. Pregnancy is a temporary situation. Can you imagine if a woman whose husband had, say, cancer said "oh well, guess I gotta go hop on a dating app and flirt with random dudes online since you're too sick for anything! Sorry, but I need nice dates and vacations to get off! You should appreciate it since now you don't have to do it yourself!" She'd be ripped apart.

If you can't deal with setting aside your own needs temporarily due to health reasons, you shouldn't get married.

+1

Honestly, or have kids. Because let's be real, anyone that impulsive and selfish is going to make a really lousy, subpar, stunted parent.

Temporary or not, expectant fathers generally do not just go into "monk mode" for 9 months. So assuming she's not down, that means he must be taking care of business some how. Therefore Yes: she should be grateful about his choice here.

This seems like an odd tangent.
Don’t most pregnant women want to have sex all of the time? I know that I did. Amy Schumer has a whole bit about it. Why are we assuming that OP isn’t interested in being intimate with her husband?

Schumer is repulsive

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Can we assume OP that you are not having much sex with him these days due to your lack of interest? So I think you should appreciate the fact his alternative source is online and not IRL.

So she's supposed to be grateful that he wants this crap?

Wow. Great way to make excuses for trash behavior, PP. You know he's not going to switch off this stuff the second OP births that baby.

An actually mature, thinking human being with some control over himself and an imagination can manage while waiting for the person he supposedly respects and loves, and without the aid of porn or IRL outside-the-marriage sex. Don't trot out the idiotic "But men are visual creatures and just have to have images for stimulation!" lecture. That makes it sound as if poor little men are such brainless automatons that they just can't function without porn. They can. People like you enable it with your "pregnancy makes it all OK" excuses.

+1. Pregnancy is a temporary situation. Can you imagine if a woman whose husband had, say, cancer said "oh well, guess I gotta go hop on a dating app and flirt with random dudes online since you're too sick for anything! Sorry, but I need nice dates and vacations to get off! You should appreciate it since now you don't have to do it yourself!" She'd be ripped apart.

If you can't deal with setting aside your own needs temporarily due to health reasons, you shouldn't get married.

+1

Honestly, or have kids. Because let's be real, anyone that impulsive and selfish is going to make a really lousy, subpar, stunted parent.

Temporary or not, expectant fathers generally do not just go into "monk mode" for 9 months. So assuming she's not down, that means he must be taking care of business some how. Therefore Yes: she should be grateful about his choice here.

This seems like an odd tangent.
Don’t most pregnant women want to have sex all of the time? I know that I did. Amy Schumer has a whole bit about it. Why are we assuming that OP isn’t interested in being intimate with her husband?

she is a woman + she is married + she is pregnant = unlikely to want sex ever
If OP were chasing him down for sex, it is unlikely he would have extra to go looking at Only Fans.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:My wife has an account, it’s fun side money. She says the vast majority are married men with menopausal wives or they’re married to women who won’t even think of indulging in their particular mode of arousal. It’s not even close to cheating, she’s got a whole file of pre written responses that she just copies and pastes; sometimes I’ll do it for her when she gets behind.

What content does she post? Does she include her face? How many followers does she have, and how often does she create new content? Is she a 10 or just a cute milf?

If I could actually have some followers without showing my face, I'd consider doing this for side money.

She doesn’t show her face.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:From what I’m gathering, it’s basically like a paid social media for nudes or videos, with chat etc. Sometimes you know the people, sometimes it’s strangers you engage with

Is that right??

No. Wrong. People open an account and you pay to watch them perform live.