Just found out that husband is on Only Fans

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Anonymous wrote:This would be a dealbreaker for me. It's amazing to me how low the bar is for men- apparently now women are okay with them literally paying for sex acts. Pathetic society

Same. If you aren't cool with it as a woman you are told there's something wrong with you. I wouldn't be happy with a spouse using money that could be used towards our household, our child towards porn. It would be a deal-breaker for me as well.

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Anonymous wrote:I’d go nuclear on him.

I did something similar when my H was being a creep while I was pregnant. We were on vacation, so I packed up, went home, and moved out. Didn’t move back in until I made it very clear that if it ever happened again, he would lose half his money, half his time with his child, and would never see me again.

I know people will say it’s too extreme but I’ve learned that men don’t GAF unless there are severe consequences. Act like a dog, get treated like one.

+1000

He needs to learn there are consequences

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I must be clueless because I’ve never heard of Only Fans. I’m sure my husband has watched porn because he is a male and has an IPad. But if he is in need of a BJ or other fun things I’m pretty available even when I was pregnant. Maybe even more so then because I was always horny.

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I would be upset that he is paying when there is so much free porn available. Between pornhub and reddit gone wild threads , I don’t know why you need to pay money.

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Anonymous wrote:Meh, I'm a woman and while I don't have an only fans account I watch porn and masturbate to it regularly - even with a healthy sex life with my DH. Sometimes I just want to get off alone. I would not pay for it but I wouldn't care if my DH did as long as it wasn't an excessive amount that would cause us financial stress. I think you just let it go and move on.

Hi, I have a question for you. It seems like you are both on board with porn in your marriage. If you DH found, say, “Jessica” on Only Fans and began to regularly set aside time to “meet” with Jessica daily/every other day and pay this specific women to perform certain acts just for him, would you feel differently? I genuinely curious because this app seems different to me than just basic porn. Curious what people think about this scenario since only fans seems to allow users to develop a sort of “relationship” with the content makers by taking request, etc.

I’m the pp you quoted but at that point it’s an emotional affair and not a porn purchase so the dynamic changes. What the OP found was a porn purchase. You can’t project a future incident and get mad in the present. Deal with what is in front of you in a logical manner.

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Anonymous wrote:My wife has an account, it’s fun side money. She says the vast majority are married men with menopausal wives or they’re married to women who won’t even think of indulging in their particular mode of arousal. It’s not even close to cheating, she’s got a whole file of pre written responses that she just copies and pastes; sometimes I’ll do it for her when she gets behind.

What content does she post? Does she include her face? How many followers does she have, and how often does she create new content? Is she a 10 or just a cute milf?

If I could actually have some followers without showing my face, I'd consider doing this for side money.

About three years ago I told her she had the most beautiful legs I’d ever seen, she didn’t really think so. I took a few pictures and told her to put them up on Instagram under a completely separate account and I bet her that she would have more than 1000 followers by the end of our vacation; by the end of our week she had more than 10,000 followers. She takes pictures once or twice a week, it’s nothing you wouldn’t see if you were out in public or in a bar or restaurant; her shots are all legs, heels, short skirts, stockings, tights etc. but she never shows her face or pretty much anything above her waist, As of right now she has over 190,000 followers on Instagram. Another girl that she’s friendly with who posts the same sort of content has an only fans account and told my wife how easy it was and how quickly you can convert Instagram followers to paying only fans followers. Her conversion from IG to OF hovers right around 2.5%.
She has slightly more than 6400 paying fans and takes in about $35,000 a month from what she was doing for free and just for fun, her followers pay seven bucks a month which isnt going to break anyone’s budget. It isn’t easy, if she has to come up with new and interesting ways to photograph her own legs so all the content is fresh and new but she has a lot of fun doing it and makes a really good pile of cash in between school zooms and regular life.

[Anonymous]

It depends how much money he is spending on it. A few buck, whatever. All men look at porn. More money than that, its taking away family resources.

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Anonymous wrote:
Are you sure it's not spam, and that he really did sign up for the site? Kind of like how you read about something on DCUM, then find that the ads all hawk that item or service?

Oh yea he definitely signed up. As soon as I saw it I said something. He looked shocked, told me he was curious but already deleted it, asked me why I was going through his phone and then he started crying apologizing

Liar. In your OP you said "I don't know how to react" Your post I'm quoting now is how you reacted. TROLL TROLL TROLL

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:My wife has an account, it’s fun side money. She says the vast majority are married men with menopausal wives or they’re married to women who won’t even think of indulging in their particular mode of arousal. It’s not even close to cheating, she’s got a whole file of pre written responses that she just copies and pastes; sometimes I’ll do it for her when she gets behind.

What content does she post? Does she include her face? How many followers does she have, and how often does she create new content? Is she a 10 or just a cute milf?

If I could actually have some followers without showing my face, I'd consider doing this for side money.

About three years ago I told her she had the most beautiful legs I’d ever seen, she didn’t really think so. I took a few pictures and told her to put them up on Instagram under a completely separate account and I bet her that she would have more than 1000 followers by the end of our vacation; by the end of our week she had more than 10,000 followers. She takes pictures once or twice a week, it’s nothing you wouldn’t see if you were out in public or in a bar or restaurant; her shots are all legs, heels, short skirts, stockings, tights etc. but she never shows her face or pretty much anything above her waist, As of right now she has over 190,000 followers on Instagram. Another girl that she’s friendly with who posts the same sort of content has an only fans account and told my wife how easy it was and how quickly you can convert Instagram followers to paying only fans followers. Her conversion from IG to OF hovers right around 2.5%.
She has slightly more than 6400 paying fans and takes in about $35,000 a month from what she was doing for free and just for fun, her followers pay seven bucks a month which isnt going to break anyone’s budget. It isn’t easy, if she has to come up with new and interesting ways to photograph her own legs so all the content is fresh and new but she has a lot of fun doing it and makes a really good pile of cash in between school zooms and regular life.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:This would be a dealbreaker for me. It's amazing to me how low the bar is for men- apparently now women are okay with them literally paying for sex acts. Pathetic society

Lots of wives are more than happy for him to get his rocks of elsewhere. Just one less thing on her todo list, more free time to spend on DCUM.