Are hot women less likely to have solid marriages?

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Highly likely.

Look at the Kardashian beauties.

All of their husbands & boyfriends have been duds, thus the relationships never seem to go the extra mile....
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I'd love to know where all these "hot" people in DC are- I live in NW DC and see nothing but modest, plain, dorky and crunchy.
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Anonymous wrote:People responding that they are pretty and have solid marriages... there is a huge difference between pretty and hot.


Yeah, agreed. And the truth is that "hot" usually fades drastically with age. By the time most hot women are in their 40s and 50s, they are still very pretty but not smoking hot in the same way. Very few women stay truly hot as they age.




Even with gazillions of dollars, doctors, and the best trainers/chefs/stylists at their disposal, it's hard to stay truly hot as you age. Maybe if you are J. Lo but who knows how long even she has left.


My hot friends are still pretty hot and we are 55ish.

It’s almost insane how unbelievably blessed they are with looks and charisma.

Their H’s are a-holes though.


They are hot for their age, but in absolute terms of just being "hot" a hot 55 year old can't compete with a hot 20 year old.


This is the correst answer. Think of the famous actresses and models --- do they look better at 25 or 55?
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They are hot for their age, but in absolute terms of just being "hot" a hot 55 year old can't compete with a hot 20 year old.



25 is the absolute bare minimum for a woman to fully “blossom” into her full potential beauty. There are plenty of 55 year old women that are far sexier than most women in their 20’s. Of course I’m 60, so take that into account.
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They are hot for their age, but in absolute terms of just being "hot" a hot 55 year old can't compete with a hot 20 year old.



25 is the absolute bare minimum for a woman to fully “blossom” into her full potential beauty. There are plenty of 55 year old women that are far sexier than most women in their 20’s. Of course I’m 60, so take that into account.


I was about 37 when I got “remade”. I had all the physical assets to be hot (see bathing suit photos) but I had no feel for fashion, hair, make up just name it. I was perfectly natural and my husband was happy. For my birthday my older sister bought me a remake package which I initially said thanks but no thanks but my husband said what the heck, just do it and have fun. It’s amazing what a fabulous hair cut can do plus a little makeup. Along with better fitting and stylish clothes I looked like a whole new person. When I got home my husband’s eyes popped out. Once I got comfortable with the new look I definitely got more attention with plenty of it unwanted but nothing obnoxious. I’m now 42 and I think I can hold my own with a 25 year old but it does take a bit more work! They haven’t given birth to three big babies!
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No. Mine is great! But I also have a brain so I guess that helps.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Hot women are given a pass for almost everything from the moment they are introduced to society. Pre-school, school, friend and family give them tons of attention.

It's good and bad, they often don't form normal coping skills or skills at all, since they can pretty much skate by on looks.

Eventually it is time to date and nice guys do not hit on hot chicks either because they think they are out of their league or the assume she is already spoken for.

Only arrogant a-holes hit on hot chicks, hot chicks start to think something is wrong with them since the nice guys never ask them out, they settle for a-hols and life is usually not as charmed.

That is for UMC white 45+ women.

The new generation is a little different, girls can be hot and smart too. It will be nice to see a change.


I think a lot of this is true.

Narcissistic men tend to look for hot women. Normal women see these guys for the assholes they are, but if a woman already has some issues, being attractive only compounds them.
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Wtf?? Girls were hot AND smart throughout the 80s/90s. You should have sat in my microbiology and genetics labs. Girls were also hot and star athletes.

Not sure where you grew up. Our homecoming court was filled with girls that went to Ivies ...and also were athletic.
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Anonymous wrote:Highly likely.

Look at the Kardashian beauties.

All of their husbands & boyfriends have been duds, thus the relationships never seem to go the extra mile....


Lol beauties? They all spent thousands on plastic surgery to morph into wide hipped big lipped skinny women.
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I'd love to know where all these "hot" people in DC are- I live in NW DC and see nothing but modest, plain, dorky and crunchy.


Same lol oompa loompa and barrel shape are the most common type of woman.
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I know a really hot successful woman married to a super ugly successful man. That seems way more plausible in DC. I meet very few hot, successful men.
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Anonymous wrote:People responding that they are pretty and have solid marriages... there is a huge difference between pretty and hot.


Yeah, agreed. And the truth is that "hot" usually fades drastically with age. By the time most hot women are in their 40s and 50s, they are still very pretty but not smoking hot in the same way. Very few women stay truly hot as they age.




Even with gazillions of dollars, doctors, and the best trainers/chefs/stylists at their disposal, it's hard to stay truly hot as you age. Maybe if you are J. Lo but who knows how long even she has left.


My hot friends are still pretty hot and we are 55ish.

It’s almost insane how unbelievably blessed they are with looks and charisma.

Their H’s are a-holes though.


They are hot for their age, but in absolute terms of just being "hot" a hot 55 year old can't compete with a hot 20 year old.


This is the correst answer. Think of the famous actresses and models --- do they look better at 25 or 55?


Salma Hayek looks better now than her Desperado days. She's in her 50s.
Sofia Vergara was a cute skinny girl at 20 but she is so voluptuous now. I guess for most women past 21 plastic surgery improves assets.
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Anonymous wrote:I know a really hot successful woman married to a super ugly successful man. That seems way more plausible in DC. I meet very few hot, successful men.


Hot is in the eye of the beholder mostly. My ex was very successful PhD own business successful business investments abroad. He was tall thin attractive and ready to retire in his mid 30s. I left him after 6 yrs because of cheating and narcissism. After that I didn't see him as hot anymore. Women still flock and don't care he cheated. Women are easy.
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Anonymous wrote:Highly likely.

Look at the Kardashian beauties.

All of their husbands & boyfriends have been duds, thus the relationships never seem to go the extra mile....


Lol beauties? They all spent thousands on plastic surgery to morph into wide hipped big lipped skinny women.


This is very true.

The only true beauty was Kim.
Even before surgery, she had the authentic birthright of genuine beauty.

But Khloé + Kylie have had so much surgery since their show started that they look nothing like their true, original selves.
They pose and smile for the cameras, showing off their manufactured beauty so they do not count in this.

Only Kourtney & Kendall are surgery-free.....
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Anonymous wrote:Highly likely.

Look at the Kardashian beauties.

All of their husbands & boyfriends have been duds, thus the relationships never seem to go the extra mile....


Lol beauties? They all spent thousands on plastic surgery to morph into wide hipped big lipped skinny women.


This is very true.

The only true beauty was Kim.
Even before surgery, she had the authentic birthright of genuine beauty.

But Khloé + Kylie have had so much surgery since their show started that they look nothing like their true, original selves.
They pose and smile for the cameras, showing off their manufactured beauty so they do not count in this.

Only Kourtney & Kendall are surgery-free.....


Kourtney has a boobjob but its a good size. Idk about kendall.
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