Are hot women less likely to have solid marriages?

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Anonymous wrote:Yes. My husband is hot.as hell. He’s smart and successful too. Everyone comments on it. Women of all ages, even men. I met him when he was 24. He’s 49 now. I have seen women throw themselves at him throughout our marriage. I’ve seen women that are stuffy, intellectual, prudish turn into stumbling school girls around him.

I am 50. I am the whole package, very smart, great career, Graduate degrees, very athletic, funny, etc. We were told we are the couple everyone wants to swing with because neither partner in the other relationship would be the “loser” (usually one person in the marriage is more attractive and it becomes more apparent over time). I get hit on a lot. I’m told I’m beautiful, etc. I have aged incredibly well. Thank you olive skin and good genetics. I still have a 6-pack after having 2 kids and look great in a bikini, no stretch marks or cellulite.

It’s strange being married to a guy like this because it does keep you on your A game. I have always worked out hard 6 days per week and taken meticulous care of my skin. I’ve always been slightly insecure. I have seen women that are friends flirt shamelessly with my husband. One neighbor texted both of us yesterday to say how great he looked during quarantine. Wtf? Who does that.

He has always made me feel beautiful. He has always done great things for me. We have always had a great sex life, 3-4 times per week.

Midlife he he cheated with some grumpily woman he met on the Internet. She was older and never worked. She was not attractive. What she did do was fawn over him and tell him how handsome and incredible his body was. She had never been with a guy that ripped, muscular and attractive. He’s a narcissist. He needs excessive validation. A lot of really good looking guys are narcissists. This is why their marriages end up having problems. They need that excessive attention. He had a very traumatic childhood. His mother tried to shoot his father. His father was very good looking and a serial cheater, alcoholic. His dad was a malicious narcissist.

I read a study that showed that very attractive men are statistically more likely to cheat. I believe they didn't show the same thing for attractive women.

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Here's really hot C Crawford. She still looks great.
https://youtu.be/sW9cQG0HL1Q

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Anonymous wrote:To be honest, it’s usually the women I hear of cheating in my orbit more than the men. Hot women are also as good as their options.

All women, regardless how hot, have infinite options (in regards to sexual partners).

Women don’t want sexual partners they want respect and stability.

Speak for yourself sister.

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Seriously, it's extremely important.

Sincerely, DW married for 14 years

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Men married to more attractive wives have less successful marriages

https://www.fatherly.com/health-science/why-marrying-out-of-your-league-could-increase-divorce-risk/

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Anonymous wrote:To be honest, it’s usually the women I hear of cheating in my orbit more than the men. Hot women are also as good as their options.

All women, regardless how hot, have infinite options (in regards to sexual partners).

Women don’t want sexual partners they want respect and stability.

Speak for yourself sister.

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Seriously, it's extremely important.

Sincerely, DW married for 14 years

How many sexual partners do you have?

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Anonymous wrote:People responding that they are pretty and have solid marriages... there is a huge difference between pretty and hot.

Yeah, agreed. And the truth is that "hot" usually fades drastically with age. By the time most hot women are in their 40s and 50s, they are still very pretty but not smoking hot in the same way. Very few women stay truly hot as they age.

Even with gazillions of dollars, doctors, and the best trainers/chefs/stylists at their disposal, it's hard to stay truly hot as you age. Maybe if you are J. Lo but who knows how long even she has left.

My hot friends are still pretty hot and we are 55ish.

It’s almost insane how unbelievably blessed they are with looks and charisma.

Their H’s are a-holes though.

They are hot for their age, but in absolute terms of just being "hot" a hot 55 year old can't compete with a hot 20 year old.

One of mine could beat out any 20yo.

One could best out 80% of them.

The other is weary from the bad marriage.

And here come the delusional posters who think they and their friends still look 18 at 55. Hint: You don't.

I don’t ... but we are not talking about me or average pretty we are talking hot.

You probably just never met one of these women. They run in different circles.

Actually I have met some of the most beautiful 55 y/0s out there. I'm from LA and have friends that work in the business.

BUT here's the thing, in those circles, the 20 year olds are SMOKING. YOU probably have just never met the really hot 20 year olds out there. Not your hot sorority girl here, but Hollywood/Sports Illustrated model hot.

But I have which is why I know 50 yos hotter than most 20 year olds.

Most...but not all. Biology is simply working against the 50 year old.

This thread is not about normal 50 year old women.

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Anonymous wrote:Yes. My husband is hot.as hell. He’s smart and successful too. Everyone comments on it. Women of all ages, even men. I met him when he was 24. He’s 49 now. I have seen women throw themselves at him throughout our marriage. I’ve seen women that are stuffy, intellectual, prudish turn into stumbling school girls around him.

I am 50. I am the whole package, very smart, great career, Graduate degrees, very athletic, funny, etc. We were told we are the couple everyone wants to swing with because neither partner in the other relationship would be the “loser” (usually one person in the marriage is more attractive and it becomes more apparent over time). I get hit on a lot. I’m told I’m beautiful, etc. I have aged incredibly well. Thank you olive skin and good genetics. I still have a 6-pack after having 2 kids and look great in a bikini, no stretch marks or cellulite.

It’s strange being married to a guy like this because it does keep you on your A game. I have always worked out hard 6 days per week and taken meticulous care of my skin. I’ve always been slightly insecure. I have seen women that are friends flirt shamelessly with my husband. One neighbor texted both of us yesterday to say how great he looked during quarantine. Wtf? Who does that.

He has always made me feel beautiful. He has always done great things for me. We have always had a great sex life, 3-4 times per week.

Midlife he he cheated with some grumpily woman he met on the Internet. She was older and never worked. She was not attractive. What she did do was fawn over him and tell him how handsome and incredible his body was. She had never been with a guy that ripped, muscular and attractive. He’s a narcissist. He needs excessive validation. A lot of really good looking guys are narcissists. This is why their marriages end up having problems. They need that excessive attention. He had a very traumatic childhood. His mother tried to shoot his father. His father was very good looking and a serial cheater, alcoholic. His dad was a malicious narcissist.

I read a study that showed that very attractive men are statistically more likely to cheat. I believe they didn't show the same thing for attractive women.

No, narcissist men and women are more likely to cheat. Same happened with me that the previous poster was talking about. Guy cheated with women who gave him attention even fat ugly ones. The fat ugly ones were happy to give attention to a rich good looking man.