Are hot women less likely to have solid marriages?

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Anonymous wrote:To be honest, it’s usually the women I hear of cheating in my orbit more than the men. Hot women are also as good as their options.

What is considered hot in the dcum world in the perspective of an actual man not a woman whose responding back?

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Anonymous wrote:People responding that they are pretty and have solid marriages... there is a huge difference between pretty and hot.

Yeah, agreed. And the truth is that "hot" usually fades drastically with age. By the time most hot women are in their 40s and 50s, they are still very pretty but not smoking hot in the same way. Very few women stay truly hot as they age.

Even with gazillions of dollars, doctors, and the best trainers/chefs/stylists at their disposal, it's hard to stay truly hot as you age. Maybe if you are J. Lo but who knows how long even she has left.

My hot friends are still pretty hot and we are 55ish.

It’s almost insane how unbelievably blessed they are with looks and charisma.

Their H’s are a-holes though.

They are hot for their age, but in absolute terms of just being "hot" a hot 55 year old can't compete with a hot 20 year old.

One of mine could beat out any 20yo.

One could best out 80% of them.

The other is weary from the bad marriage.

it's this very type of incorrect, desperate delusion that leads 55 y/o women to do stupid things to try to prove they are still hot like a 20 year old even if they aren't.

A lot of 20 somethings aren't hot most are fat.

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Anonymous wrote:People responding that they are pretty and have solid marriages... there is a huge difference between pretty and hot.

Yeah, agreed. And the truth is that "hot" usually fades drastically with age. By the time most hot women are in their 40s and 50s, they are still very pretty but not smoking hot in the same way. Very few women stay truly hot as they age.

Even with gazillions of dollars, doctors, and the best trainers/chefs/stylists at their disposal, it's hard to stay truly hot as you age. Maybe if you are J. Lo but who knows how long even she has left.

My hot friends are still pretty hot and we are 55ish.

It’s almost insane how unbelievably blessed they are with looks and charisma.

Their H’s are a-holes though.

They are hot for their age, but in absolute terms of just being "hot" a hot 55 year old can't compete with a hot 20 year old.

One of mine could beat out any 20yo.

One could best out 80% of them.

The other is weary from the bad marriage.

it's this very type of incorrect, desperate delusion that leads 55 y/o women to do stupid things to try to prove they are still hot like a 20 year old even if they aren't.

A lot of 20 somethings aren't hot most are fat.

But the very hottest 20 somethings are amazing and better than the very hottest 55 year olds. That is a fact.

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Anonymous wrote:My wife is 46, looks like Jennifer Garner and she has an MBA/JD so she is hot and smart. She is incredibly down to earth and spends little time on her looks with little or any make up and wearing a pony tail or her hair up. But when she glams up she can stop traffic. I’m a decent looking guy running my own pretty successful company so I’m not a loser by any means but I’m sure others wonder what she is doing with me. With three great kids we realize how lucky we are and we have a very solid marriage. FWIW we have a great sex life and I’d be a fool to cheat. I’m quite sure she feels the same way.

What does she do for work? I thought hot women didn't have to work

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Anonymous wrote:People responding that they are pretty and have solid marriages... there is a huge difference between pretty and hot.

Yeah, agreed. And the truth is that "hot" usually fades drastically with age. By the time most hot women are in their 40s and 50s, they are still very pretty but not smoking hot in the same way. Very few women stay truly hot as they age.

Even with gazillions of dollars, doctors, and the best trainers/chefs/stylists at their disposal, it's hard to stay truly hot as you age. Maybe if you are J. Lo but who knows how long even she has left.

My hot friends are still pretty hot and we are 55ish.

It’s almost insane how unbelievably blessed they are with looks and charisma.

Their H’s are a-holes though.

They are hot for their age, but in absolute terms of just being "hot" a hot 55 year old can't compete with a hot 20 year old.

One of mine could beat out any 20yo.

One could best out 80% of them.

The other is weary from the bad marriage.

it's this very type of incorrect, desperate delusion that leads 55 y/o women to do stupid things to try to prove they are still hot like a 20 year old even if they aren't.

A lot of 20 somethings aren't hot most are fat.

But the very hottest 20 somethings are amazing and better than the very hottest 55 year olds. That is a fact.

Okay. Let's take jlo and Angela Bassett and Stacey dash as hot 50 something's. What would a very hot 20 something be? Jennifer Lawrence?

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Anonymous wrote:People responding that they are pretty and have solid marriages... there is a huge difference between pretty and hot.

Yeah, agreed. And the truth is that "hot" usually fades drastically with age. By the time most hot women are in their 40s and 50s, they are still very pretty but not smoking hot in the same way. Very few women stay truly hot as they age.

Even with gazillions of dollars, doctors, and the best trainers/chefs/stylists at their disposal, it's hard to stay truly hot as you age. Maybe if you are J. Lo but who knows how long even she has left.

My hot friends are still pretty hot and we are 55ish.

It’s almost insane how unbelievably blessed they are with looks and charisma.

Their H’s are a-holes though.

They are hot for their age, but in absolute terms of just being "hot" a hot 55 year old can't compete with a hot 20 year old.

One of mine could beat out any 20yo.

One could best out 80% of them.

The other is weary from the bad marriage.

it's this very type of incorrect, desperate delusion that leads 55 y/o women to do stupid things to try to prove they are still hot like a 20 year old even if they aren't.

A lot of 20 somethings aren't hot most are fat.

But the very hottest 20 somethings are amazing and better than the very hottest 55 year olds. That is a fact.

Okay. Let's take jlo and Angela Bassett and Stacey dash as hot 50 something's. What would a very hot 20 something be? Jennifer Lawrence?

Salma Hayak, Nicole Kidman, Diane Lane, Cate Blanchett ...in some ways older women are much sexier than young ones..in a Mrs. Robinson type way. Nobody is saying they look 20--but they exude sex appeal.

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Anonymous wrote:People responding that they are pretty and have solid marriages... there is a huge difference between pretty and hot.

Yeah, agreed. And the truth is that "hot" usually fades drastically with age. By the time most hot women are in their 40s and 50s, they are still very pretty but not smoking hot in the same way. Very few women stay truly hot as they age.

Even with gazillions of dollars, doctors, and the best trainers/chefs/stylists at their disposal, it's hard to stay truly hot as you age. Maybe if you are J. Lo but who knows how long even she has left.

My hot friends are still pretty hot and we are 55ish.

It’s almost insane how unbelievably blessed they are with looks and charisma.

Their H’s are a-holes though.

They are hot for their age, but in absolute terms of just being "hot" a hot 55 year old can't compete with a hot 20 year old.

One of mine could beat out any 20yo.

One could best out 80% of them.

The other is weary from the bad marriage.

it's this very type of incorrect, desperate delusion that leads 55 y/o women to do stupid things to try to prove they are still hot like a 20 year old even if they aren't.

A lot of 20 somethings aren't hot most are fat.

But the very hottest 20 somethings are amazing and better than the very hottest 55 year olds. That is a fact.

Okay. Let's take jlo and Angela Bassett and Stacey dash as hot 50 something's. What would a very hot 20 something be? Jennifer Lawrence?

Salma Hayak, Nicole Kidman, Diane Lane, Cate Blanchett ...in some ways older women are much sexier than young ones..in a Mrs. Robinson type way. Nobody is saying they look 20--but they exude sex appeal.

Kate Beckinsale is turning 47 in a few days and she is always dating 20-year old men. That woman loooks like she is late 20s. I always thought Jennifer Connelly was also amazingly beautiful to this day--49-years old and not a plastic surgery junkie.

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Anonymous wrote:People responding that they are pretty and have solid marriages... there is a huge difference between pretty and hot.

Yeah, agreed. And the truth is that "hot" usually fades drastically with age. By the time most hot women are in their 40s and 50s, they are still very pretty but not smoking hot in the same way. Very few women stay truly hot as they age.

Even with gazillions of dollars, doctors, and the best trainers/chefs/stylists at their disposal, it's hard to stay truly hot as you age. Maybe if you are J. Lo but who knows how long even she has left.

My hot friends are still pretty hot and we are 55ish.

It’s almost insane how unbelievably blessed they are with looks and charisma.

Their H’s are a-holes though.

They are hot for their age, but in absolute terms of just being "hot" a hot 55 year old can't compete with a hot 20 year old.

One of mine could beat out any 20yo.

One could best out 80% of them.

The other is weary from the bad marriage.

it's this very type of incorrect, desperate delusion that leads 55 y/o women to do stupid things to try to prove they are still hot like a 20 year old even if they aren't.

A lot of 20 somethings aren't hot most are fat.

But the very hottest 20 somethings are amazing and better than the very hottest 55 year olds. That is a fact.

Okay. Let's take jlo and Angela Bassett and Stacey dash as hot 50 something's. What would a very hot 20 something be? Jennifer Lawrence?

Okay but do you remember how blazing hot Stacy Dash was when she was 20? Hotter than now.

Jennifer Lawrence isn't super hot for her age group. Look at Miss Universe, Sports Illustrated swim, etc. and those are all hotter 20 somethings.

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Anonymous wrote:People responding that they are pretty and have solid marriages... there is a huge difference between pretty and hot.

Yeah, agreed. And the truth is that "hot" usually fades drastically with age. By the time most hot women are in their 40s and 50s, they are still very pretty but not smoking hot in the same way. Very few women stay truly hot as they age.

Even with gazillions of dollars, doctors, and the best trainers/chefs/stylists at their disposal, it's hard to stay truly hot as you age. Maybe if you are J. Lo but who knows how long even she has left.

My hot friends are still pretty hot and we are 55ish.

It’s almost insane how unbelievably blessed they are with looks and charisma.

Their H’s are a-holes though.

They are hot for their age, but in absolute terms of just being "hot" a hot 55 year old can't compete with a hot 20 year old.

One of mine could beat out any 20yo.

One could best out 80% of them.

The other is weary from the bad marriage.

And here come the delusional posters who think they and their friends still look 18 at 55. Hint: You don't.

I don’t ... but we are not talking about me or average pretty we are talking hot.

You probably just never met one of these women. They run in different circles.

Actually I have met some of the most beautiful 55 y/0s out there. I'm from LA and have friends that work in the business.

BUT here's the thing, in those circles, the 20 year olds are SMOKING. YOU probably have just never met the really hot 20 year olds out there. Not your hot sorority girl here, but Hollywood/Sports Illustrated model hot.

But I have which is why I know 50 yos hotter than most 20 year olds.

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Anonymous wrote:My wife is 46, looks like Jennifer Garner and she has an MBA/JD so she is hot and smart. She is incredibly down to earth and spends little time on her looks with little or any make up and wearing a pony tail or her hair up. But when she glams up she can stop traffic. I’m a decent looking guy running my own pretty successful company so I’m not a loser by any means but I’m sure others wonder what she is doing with me. With three great kids we realize how lucky we are and we have a very solid marriage. FWIW we have a great sex life and I’d be a fool to cheat. I’m quite sure she feels the same way.

What does she do for work? I thought hot women didn't have to work

Dumb hot women don’t want to work.

Intellectually stimulated, smart women raised by parents that didn’t teach getting by on looks—valued hard work, education and ambition to follow something you love work. I live in a neighborhood where both partners make ridiculous income. Some very hot women with PhDs, professional degrees and sound careers.

Trashy dumb suburban housewives don’t work.

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Triple threat: hot, smart/great career and athletic.

Goes for boys sexes.

Wit and great sense of humor is part of the package.

A trophy with personality and drive to match (sits in a shelf/couch) gets old quick.

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Anonymous wrote:Triple threat: hot, smart/great career and athletic.

Goes for boys sexes.

Wit and great sense of humor is part of the package.

A trophy with personality and drive to match (sits in a shelf/couch) gets old quick.

*both sexes

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Anonymous wrote:People responding that they are pretty and have solid marriages... there is a huge difference between pretty and hot.

Yeah, agreed. And the truth is that "hot" usually fades drastically with age. By the time most hot women are in their 40s and 50s, they are still very pretty but not smoking hot in the same way. Very few women stay truly hot as they age.

Even with gazillions of dollars, doctors, and the best trainers/chefs/stylists at their disposal, it's hard to stay truly hot as you age. Maybe if you are J. Lo but who knows how long even she has left.

My hot friends are still pretty hot and we are 55ish.

It’s almost insane how unbelievably blessed they are with looks and charisma.

Their H’s are a-holes though.

They are hot for their age, but in absolute terms of just being "hot" a hot 55 year old can't compete with a hot 20 year old.

One of mine could beat out any 20yo.

One could best out 80% of them.

The other is weary from the bad marriage.

And here come the delusional posters who think they and their friends still look 18 at 55. Hint: You don't.

I don’t ... but we are not talking about me or average pretty we are talking hot.

You probably just never met one of these women. They run in different circles.

Actually I have met some of the most beautiful 55 y/0s out there. I'm from LA and have friends that work in the business.

BUT here's the thing, in those circles, the 20 year olds are SMOKING. YOU probably have just never met the really hot 20 year olds out there. Not your hot sorority girl here, but Hollywood/Sports Illustrated model hot.

But I have which is why I know 50 yos hotter than most 20 year olds.

Most...but not all. Biology is simply working against the 50 year old.

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Anonymous wrote:People responding that they are pretty and have solid marriages... there is a huge difference between pretty and hot.

Yeah, agreed. And the truth is that "hot" usually fades drastically with age. By the time most hot women are in their 40s and 50s, they are still very pretty but not smoking hot in the same way. Very few women stay truly hot as they age.

Even with gazillions of dollars, doctors, and the best trainers/chefs/stylists at their disposal, it's hard to stay truly hot as you age. Maybe if you are J. Lo but who knows how long even she has left.

My hot friends are still pretty hot and we are 55ish.

It’s almost insane how unbelievably blessed they are with looks and charisma.

Their H’s are a-holes though.

They are hot for their age, but in absolute terms of just being "hot" a hot 55 year old can't compete with a hot 20 year old.

One of mine could beat out any 20yo.

One could best out 80% of them.

The other is weary from the bad marriage.

it's this very type of incorrect, desperate delusion that leads 55 y/o women to do stupid things to try to prove they are still hot like a 20 year old even if they aren't.

A lot of 20 somethings aren't hot most are fat.

But the very hottest 20 somethings are amazing and better than the very hottest 55 year olds. That is a fact.

Okay. Let's take jlo and Angela Bassett and Stacey dash as hot 50 something's. What would a very hot 20 something be? Jennifer Lawrence?

Okay but do you remember how blazing hot Stacy Dash was when she was 20? Hotter than now.

Jennifer Lawrence isn't super hot for her age group. Look at Miss Universe, Sports Illustrated swim, etc. and those are all hotter 20 somethings.

Stacey dash was 30 something when she was in clueless!

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Anonymous wrote:My wife is 46, looks like Jennifer Garner and she has an MBA/JD so she is hot and smart. She is incredibly down to earth and spends little time on her looks with little or any make up and wearing a pony tail or her hair up. But when she glams up she can stop traffic. I’m a decent looking guy running my own pretty successful company so I’m not a loser by any means but I’m sure others wonder what she is doing with me. With three great kids we realize how lucky we are and we have a very solid marriage. FWIW we have a great sex life and I’d be a fool to cheat. I’m quite sure she feels the same way.

What does she do for work? I thought hot women didn't have to work

She worked in banking for about ten years and now runs a non profit. Fewer hours, far more gratifying work and she wanted to be closer to our kids when they hit MS. Her better work/life balance has been great for our family.