Should I reject him or schedule another date?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Why are posters criticizing OP? Men are not told to go on another date 8f they're not physically attracted to a woman, smh.

Exactly!

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Anonymous wrote:Did OP schedule the date?

Must not have been able to take the heat. Still want to know what "way taller" means, how tall she is and the height of the guy. She's abandoned the thread.

I answered the question.

So guy needs to be 10" taller than you. You are into fetish territory.

No need to exaggerate. 5" is fair enough.
What's your stand of women's weight? Heavier than you?

[Anonymous]

Trust your instincts, OP. Too often women ignore their instincts and regret it later. He looks good on paper, but your lizard brain is telling you something is off. Listen!

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Question for OP. Again, I want to know what you consider way taller than you. How tall are you and how tall/short is the guy?

For me way taller would be 6 feet. I’m attracted to men in this range.

I’m 5’2 and the guy is 5’4.

Fair enough, OP. I am 5'4" and have never been out with a man my own height. It's a really unusual height for a man. But I would really try to stop demanding they be 6' because you're missing out on a ton of people. Lots of guys are 5'8" or 5'9" and you could still wear your tallest heels and have him be taller.

[Anonymous]

I think it’s worth a second date. I’ve had first dates like you describe & the second date was WAY better.

[Anonymous]

Is anyone here happily married to someone who they found repulsive on their first date?

Unless someone has personally experienced this, why are people suggesting OP to go ahead further with the guy?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I think it’s worth a second date. I’ve had first dates like you describe & the second date was WAY better.

You had first dates that repulsed you and then you dated them again?

Hon, there are way too many fish on the sea to waste time doing that.

[Anonymous]

OP, if you have to ask DCUM for an answer than you know what you need to do....

Move on. Why settle?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Did OP schedule the date?

Must not have been able to take the heat. Still want to know what "way taller" means, how tall she is and the height of the guy. She's abandoned the thread.

I answered the question.

So guy needs to be 10" taller than you. You are into fetish territory.

No need to exaggerate. 5" is fair enough.
What's your stand of women's weight? Heavier than you?

OP is 5'2 and states a guy must be at least 6'. It was not me exaggerating. She needs someone at least 10" taller. AT LEAST. That is fetish territory. Very weird.
I'm a woman who dates men so I have no stand on how much a woman should weigh in order for me to be attracted.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Did OP schedule the date?

Must not have been able to take the heat. Still want to know what "way taller" means, how tall she is and the height of the guy. She's abandoned the thread.

I answered the question.

So guy needs to be 10" taller than you. You are into fetish territory.

No need to exaggerate. 5" is fair enough.
What's your stand of women's weight? Heavier than you?

OP is 5'2 and states a guy must be at least 6'. It was not me exaggerating. She needs someone at least 10" taller. AT LEAST. That is fetish territory. Very weird.
I'm a woman who dates men so I have no stand on how much a woman should weigh in order for me to be attracted.

DP. It is 100% okay to go for what rings your bell as long as you are honest about it. I like very tall, darker skin AA men. I have been upfront about that. DH is nearly a foot taller than me. I’m 5’5”. I’ve only dated one man shorter than 6’ and most were taller. I grew up with tall men. I get that height forms an irrational part of my sense of masculinity and a bunch of posters will claim that their 5’2” DHs are more manly than my DH will ever be. Good for them! I also get to have what I like if I can get it.

The average American woman is heavy, but we don’t call it a fetish if men say they won’t date a woman who is overweight. We think he’s smart and argue women should lose weight to make themselves more appealing to men who only date the slim.

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Anonymous wrote:Did OP schedule the date?

Must not have been able to take the heat. Still want to know what "way taller" means, how tall she is and the height of the guy. She's abandoned the thread.

I answered the question.

So guy needs to be 10" taller than you. You are into fetish territory.

No need to exaggerate. 5" is fair enough.
What's your stand of women's weight? Heavier than you?

OP is 5'2 and states a guy must be at least 6'. It was not me exaggerating. She needs someone at least 10" taller. AT LEAST. That is fetish territory. Very weird.
I'm a woman who dates men so I have no stand on how much a woman should weigh in order for me to be attracted.

It's a common fetish. I'm 6'5" and have had a number of women, heights of 4'11"-5'2", tell me that they very much prefer someone 6'4" or taller.