I have a hall pass

[Anonymous]

Why does his wife deserve better? I don’t get it. There are repercussions in life

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Why does his wife deserve better? I don’t get it. There are repercussions in life

Two wrongs don’t make a right.

[Anonymous]

Full disclosure, OP - I have not read this entire thread but I'll chime-in anyway.

If you use your pass, how will you feel about yourself?

That's all.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Cheating during dating isn't cheating.

If you do this, you'll be cheating for real and it's going to ruin what you have because you'll get away with it and keep doing it until you don't get away with it.

Besides, you said yourself, you want to get even with her. You won't really have that feeling of getting even with her without being able to brag about it, which she's told you you cannot do.

This is all so childish and like 99% of the reason why I'm a lesbian.

So you’re ‘choosing’ to be a lesbian?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:This is 6 pages of really stupid.

+1

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:This is 6 pages of really stupid.

+1

How is it stupid. Different points of views. Some say use it and others say dont

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP

you sound like a loser and not because your wife who was your gf at the time cheated on you.

what "triggered" you to remember this again after being married as long as you have? did you watch a lifetime movie?

your wife seems equally pathetic in that she still understands how butt hurt you are after all these years. if i was in your position and approached my wife about how "hurt" i still am over nonsense she did when we were dating, she would tell me to get the hell over it at this time. heck, if i decided to reveal to her that i cheated on her when we dated (i didnt), she would be more perplexed about why i am telling her this today and not about the cheating itself. im almost married as long as you, by the way.

either go through with it, or dont. whatever happens at this point is irrelevant. you exposed yourself to be an insecure tool who cant let stuff go.

and you are over thinking finding this one night stand which proves how much of a loser you are. either start flirting with someone, hit a bar, go on a business trip, or get an escort. the "challenge" you face finding someone to screw exposes you even more as a sucker.

+1
Pettiness is really ugly on a man.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP

you sound like a loser and not because your wife who was your gf at the time cheated on you.

what "triggered" you to remember this again after being married as long as you have? did you watch a lifetime movie?

your wife seems equally pathetic in that she still understands how butt hurt you are after all these years. if i was in your position and approached my wife about how "hurt" i still am over nonsense she did when we were dating, she would tell me to get the hell over it at this time. heck, if i decided to reveal to her that i cheated on her when we dated (i didnt), she would be more perplexed about why i am telling her this today and not about the cheating itself. im almost married as long as you, by the way.

either go through with it, or dont. whatever happens at this point is irrelevant. you exposed yourself to be an insecure tool who cant let stuff go.

and you are over thinking finding this one night stand which proves how much of a loser you are. either start flirting with someone, hit a bar, go on a business trip, or get an escort. the "challenge" you face finding someone to screw exposes you even more as a sucker.

How is he being petty. She cheated on him and he should be able to do the same. Of course it won’t feel the same
+1
Pettiness is really ugly on a man.

[Anonymous]

If you use the hall pass you lose your moral high ground.

And from what you've posted here, you're not going to be able to handle that.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:NP. Sometimes I really, really want a divorce. And then I read threads like this, and I realize that maybe I don't have it so bad after all.

Me, too. I may not be appreciated (or I may be) and I may not have cheated (or I may have) and DH may be a jerk (or maybe not) but we are completely sane, kind, and still having sex 20 years later. I guess I shouldn't ask for too much more. Maybe a G&T and I'll call it a day?

[Anonymous]

Not gonna gain anything if you use it. You say it was early in the relationship. What was going on witht the two of you

[Anonymous]

Op here.
I discovered it. She changed completely and I had physically and sexually abandoned her since we were close to breaking up. I still get annoyed at how weak she was and want a taste of my own. There’s a cute little blonde that always gives me the eyes.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Op here.
I discovered it. She changed completely and I had physically and sexually abandoned her since we were close to breaking up. I still get annoyed at how weak she was and want a taste of my own. There’s a cute little blonde that always gives me the eyes.

Ah, now we figure out the reason you posted. You want to have an affair, and you want us to agree that you're justified to do it.

No.

Get a divorce first.

P.S. The PPs are right, you sound like a real prince. Abandoning someone and then getting "annoyed" when she moves on. And holding it against her years later. Unbelievable.

[Anonymous]

Troll.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Op here.
I discovered it. She changed completely and I had physically and sexually abandoned her since we were close to breaking up. I still get annoyed at how weak she was and want a taste of my own. There’s a cute little blonde that always gives me the eyes.

Donald?