I have a hall pass

[Anonymous]

I don’t get why you’re asking. Use it when traveling

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Do what you want, just be ready for the repercussions. Find a nice woman at the gym and go for it. I have had the most success there. I’m married now so a I don’t obviously but if I had a hall pass that would be my go to.

Haha, my gym is way too small for that! No way would i do that and risk run ins later.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Not sure whether to use.
Long story short.
In the first couple of years of dating, my wife cheated on me (had sex with someone else) We had a bad relationship and were on the brinks. I then cheated as well (only made out with someone)
We patched things up, became really honest with each other (both had some issues with building barriers) and our relationship flourished since then. That was 9 years ago now. We've been faithful to each other, and have built a good life.
But suddenly her sex with someone else started bothering me. Maybe i got the itch. I told her, and she gave me a hall pass for a ONS (she hates it, and hopes I never use it, and doesn't want to know if it ever happens) She trusts that it won't be emotional etc.

I don't really want to use it, but have thought about it recently. It's just so sleazy. We have a pretty good sex life as well, pretty much daily...no kids.

But I do hate that she did that to me back then and I want to get "even"

What do you think of a hall pass. And please keep the personal attacks to a minimum and also don't tell me to divorce.

You are aware that "hall pass" is a test right? Once you took her back and a couple years passed you lost the right to be butt-hurt.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Not sure whether to use.
Long story short.
In the first couple of years of dating, my wife cheated on me (had sex with someone else) We had a bad relationship and were on the brinks. I then cheated as well (only made out with someone)
We patched things up, became really honest with each other (both had some issues with building barriers) and our relationship flourished since then. That was 9 years ago now. We've been faithful to each other, and have built a good life.
But suddenly her sex with someone else started bothering me. Maybe i got the itch. I told her, and she gave me a hall pass for a ONS (she hates it, and hopes I never use it, and doesn't want to know if it ever happens) She trusts that it won't be emotional etc.

I don't really want to use it, but have thought about it recently. It's just so sleazy. We have a pretty good sex life as well, pretty much daily...no kids.

But I do hate that she did that to me back then and I want to get "even"

What do you think of a hall pass. And please keep the personal attacks to a minimum and also don't tell me to divorce.

Is he butthurt or just wanting to have sex with someone else. I think he's being smart. USe it.

You are aware that "hall pass" is a test right? Once you took her back and a couple years passed you lost the right to be butt-hurt.