Husband threatening to bail out of summer vacation unless I "make an effort"

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP here. Yes, overall, he's a good man with a good heart. But when he's upset, he overreacts. I should have seen it coming years ago when we were staying together overseas. He wanted to throw away some sausage meat in the fridge because I had forgotten to buy an onion earlier in the day. The plan was to make meatballs

Wait, so he cooks and drives? OP, you need to step up or find someone else to take you to Europe.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP here. Yes, overall, he's a good man with a good heart. But when he's upset, he overreacts. I should have seen it coming years ago when we were staying together overseas. He wanted to throw away some sausage meat in the fridge because I had forgotten to buy an onion earlier in the day. The plan was to make meatballs

Wait, so he cooks and drives? OP, you need to step up or find someone else to take you to Europe.

That was before I took over cooking. I don't need to find anyone to 'take' me to Europe. I'm not cargo please. I can go on my own no problem and have already paid for everything.

[Anonymous]

Call his bluff and go to Europe.

I think it's fine for him to be annoyed that you don't drive, but I don't think it's that big of a deal. I think it's appalling and petty that he is threatening to punish you with this like you are a child.