Is it possible to cheat and not get caught?

[Anonymous]

Can you get away with it? Absolutely.

But you seemed so concerned about the divorce and the impact on your kids that it doesn't seem worth the risk. Seems that the damage done if you're discovered would outweigh a divorce, so I'm not sure it'd be worth it for me. I'd always be waiting to get caught and the anxiety would drive me.mad

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote: I've had an affair without getting caught. 10/10 would recommend.

I didn't actually care if he caught me, I planned on divorcing him anyway. I'm now in my second marriage and much happier so I won't be cheating on this huaband.

You sound like a real gem.

+1 Sounds like the two of them are a perfect match and have much in common.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote: I've had an affair without getting caught. 10/10 would recommend.

I didn't actually care if he caught me, I planned on divorcing him anyway. I'm now in my second marriage and much happier so I won't be cheating on this huaband.

You sound like a real gem.

+1 Sounds like the two of them are a perfect match and have much in common.

+1.... She will either get bored and cheat again or karma will find her and she will be cheated on

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:But they see the hardness on your face and the changing nature of your inner being as you go through the motions of lying and covering up.

I’ve had many affairs and I do look different now - younger and happier. Friends have commented on my glow. It’s because I’m happier now. I have the strut of a woman that’s sexually satisfied. Plus I like having a naughty secret.

As far as not getting caught - never text on iPhone Bc the messages sync to all Apple devices. Use a secret phone app to communicate with APs, and delete the app whenever you’re around spouse. Reinstall when you’re apart.

Have self control, don’t check your app when spouse is home. Do not start angling your phone away from them, or hiding out in the bathroom texting. I make point of leaving my phone unlocked around DH.

Save naughty pics on Dropbox, never on your phone. Don’t follow AP on social media. I like younger single guys, and I usually block them on social media so that if they go crazy later, they won’t be able to blow up my spot.

Don’t be obvious and jump into the shower as soon as you get home from seeing AP. You have to have nerves of steel. I clean myself up at APs place, then come home and kiss my partner on the cheek. Smelling freshly showered is a dead giveaway. So is shying away from spouse.

I’ve cheated so much that it’s my norm. The only time I start acting anxious is when I go too long without seeing AP. I don’t have a guilty conscience at all. Whenever my heart starts pounding on the way home, I take a deep breath and remind myself that I deserve pleasure. Then I push the events from my mind by visualizing myself doing whatever my cover story was.

There are also apps that change time and location on pics. Have a couple selfies ready that fit your cover story, and send them to your spouse.

Damn- you are like a professional.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:But they see the hardness on your face and the changing nature of your inner being as you go through the motions of lying and covering up.

I’ve had many affairs and I do look different now - younger and happier. Friends have commented on my glow. It’s because I’m happier now. I have the strut of a woman that’s sexually satisfied. Plus I like having a naughty secret.

As far as not getting caught - never text on iPhone Bc the messages sync to all Apple devices. Use a secret phone app to communicate with APs, and delete the app whenever you’re around spouse. Reinstall when you’re apart.

Have self control, don’t check your app when spouse is home. Do not start angling your phone away from them, or hiding out in the bathroom texting. I make point of leaving my phone unlocked around DH.

Save naughty pics on Dropbox, never on your phone. Don’t follow AP on social media. I like younger single guys, and I usually block them on social media so that if they go crazy later, they won’t be able to blow up my spot.

Don’t be obvious and jump into the shower as soon as you get home from seeing AP. You have to have nerves of steel. I clean myself up at APs place, then come home and kiss my partner on the cheek. Smelling freshly showered is a dead giveaway. So is shying away from spouse.

I’ve cheated so much that it’s my norm. The only time I start acting anxious is when I go too long without seeing AP. I don’t have a guilty conscience at all. Whenever my heart starts pounding on the way home, I take a deep breath and remind myself that I deserve pleasure. Then I push the events from my mind by visualizing myself doing whatever my cover story was.

There are also apps that change time and location on pics. Have a couple selfies ready that fit your cover story, and send them to your spouse.

Damn- you are like a professional.

a professional to the core

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote: I've had an affair without getting caught. 10/10 would recommend.

I didn't actually care if he caught me, I planned on divorcing him anyway. I'm now in my second marriage and much happier so I won't be cheating on this huaband.

You sound like a real gem.

+1 Sounds like the two of them are a perfect match and have much in common.

+1.... She will either get bored and cheat again or karma will find her and she will be cheated on

You want to believe in it, don't you? Not everyone has your perfect marriage with amazing sex life. When your spouse becomes nothing but another child to take of, you make new choices.

[Anonymous]

I’ll never forgive my cheating parent.
Both my sibling and I married people who turned out to be cheaters, too. Coincidence?

Now all grandkids are children of divorce too.

Don’t do it.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote: I've had an affair without getting caught. 10/10 would recommend.

I didn't actually care if he caught me, I planned on divorcing him anyway. I'm now in my second marriage and much happier so I won't be cheating on this huaband.

You sound like a real gem.

+1 Sounds like the two of them are a perfect match and have much in common.

+1.... She will either get bored and cheat again or karma will find her and she will be cheated on

You want to believe in it, don't you? Not everyone has your perfect marriage with amazing sex life. When your spouse becomes nothing but another child to take of, you make new choices.

Yes, some do.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:But they see the hardness on your face and the changing nature of your inner being as you go through the motions of lying and covering up.

I’ve had many affairs and I do look different now - younger and happier. Friends have commented on my glow. It’s because I’m happier now. I have the strut of a woman that’s sexually satisfied. Plus I like having a naughty secret.

As far as not getting caught - never text on iPhone Bc the messages sync to all Apple devices. Use a secret phone app to communicate with APs, and delete the app whenever you’re around spouse. Reinstall when you’re apart.

Have self control, don’t check your app when spouse is home. Do not start angling your phone away from them, or hiding out in the bathroom texting. I make point of leaving my phone unlocked around DH.

Save naughty pics on Dropbox, never on your phone. Don’t follow AP on social media. I like younger single guys, and I usually block them on social media so that if they go crazy later, they won’t be able to blow up my spot.

Don’t be obvious and jump into the shower as soon as you get home from seeing AP. You have to have nerves of steel. I clean myself up at APs place, then come home and kiss my partner on the cheek. Smelling freshly showered is a dead giveaway. So is shying away from spouse.

I’ve cheated so much that it’s my norm. The only time I start acting anxious is when I go too long without seeing AP. I don’t have a guilty conscience at all. Whenever my heart starts pounding on the way home, I take a deep breath and remind myself that I deserve pleasure. Then I push the events from my mind by visualizing myself doing whatever my cover story was.

There are also apps that change time and location on pics. Have a couple selfies ready that fit your cover story, and send them to your spouse.

Damn- you are like a professional.

Evidently, the majority of that person's time is spent sneaking around for sex and covering up tracks.

[Anonymous]

NP here. Honestly reading through the strategies here makes me think it's wayyyyy too much trouble FWIW.

[Anonymous]

The key is making not getting caught the priority. Once the AP becomes the priority or the obsession, trouble is just around the corner.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:But they see the hardness on your face and the changing nature of your inner being as you go through the motions of lying and covering up.

I’ve had many affairs and I do look different now - younger and happier. Friends have commented on my glow. It’s because I’m happier now. I have the strut of a woman that’s sexually satisfied. Plus I like having a naughty secret.

As far as not getting caught - never text on iPhone Bc the messages sync to all Apple devices. Use a secret phone app to communicate with APs, and delete the app whenever you’re around spouse. Reinstall when you’re apart.

Have self control, don’t check your app when spouse is home. Do not start angling your phone away from them, or hiding out in the bathroom texting. I make point of leaving my phone unlocked around DH.

Save naughty pics on Dropbox, never on your phone. Don’t follow AP on social media. I like younger single guys, and I usually block them on social media so that if they go crazy later, they won’t be able to blow up my spot.

Don’t be obvious and jump into the shower as soon as you get home from seeing AP. You have to have nerves of steel. I clean myself up at APs place, then come home and kiss my partner on the cheek. Smelling freshly showered is a dead giveaway. So is shying away from spouse.

I’ve cheated so much that it’s my norm. The only time I start acting anxious is when I go too long without seeing AP. I don’t have a guilty conscience at all. Whenever my heart starts pounding on the way home, I take a deep breath and remind myself that I deserve pleasure. Then I push the events from my mind by visualizing myself doing whatever my cover story was.

There are also apps that change time and location on pics. Have a couple selfies ready that fit your cover story, and send them to your spouse.

Damn- you are like a professional.

Sort of perfects the whoring around thing.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:The key is making not getting caught the priority. Once the AP becomes the priority or the obsession, trouble is just around the corner.

If not getting caught for deception becomes the focus of anyone's personal and/or business life, it's not much of a life.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Wow Rhee are some terrible terrible cheaters on here. How do you sleep at night? You say you’re happy, but deep, deep down inside you’re a wreck, a basket case.

Eventually it will catch up with you. Karma is a bitch. Sometimes her bill comes due immediately, sometimes she holds off on the bill so it accrues Interest.

It’s awful to think there are so many of you in this world. You all need help.

Wow, there really are some terrible psychics on here. How do you stay in business as a psychic?

You say you know what total strangers are thinking, but deep, deep down inside you're clueless, and projecting.

Eventually it will catch up with you. Reality is a bitch.

I believe we have found a serial cheater who “justifies” in her own mind her rampant cheating.

Good luck, one day your conscious will catch up to you no matter how well you hide from yourself and those who love you.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:NP here. Honestly reading through the strategies here makes me think it's wayyyyy too much trouble FWIW.

It’s not hard and doesn’t take much time. Only takes a poker face and a bit of planning.