All single men shoudl have to read DCUM for a month before proposing

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Anonymous wrote:Here's the marriage+ kids test: Ask potential husband to define and describe the word "parent" as both a noun and a verb.

If the answer is half-assed and his role in it = No Kids OR No Marriage. But only pick one.

If his answer is thoughtful and convincing = Marriage+Kids

Feel free to have one kid without a husband in the picture. Much easier and bypasses the deadweight.

Ask her to define/describe "Wife" and if it doesn't include regular sex and staying fit/attractive, she's not marriage material.
At most, date her then Next her.

Ask him to speak on whether he feels entitled to marital rape, and whether he intends to get and maintain a six pack. If not, dump him. As a female, you'll have no issue finding a replacement.

Preferably young and hot.

Overly dramatic language like "he feels entitled to marital rape" reveals your negative views of sex.
Definitely not marriage material.
Next!

If you are into six packs, find a guy with a six pack and tell him it's important to you.
Totally fair!
But don't marry a beer gut expecting him to change.

I would never do that, yuck.

Only 10/10 men for me.

They might date you until your natural sex aversion is revealled.
Wonder why you ask a 10 if he intends to get a six pack, wouldn't he already have that?

Yes he would.

Wow then we are in full agreement!
Find somebody hot to whom you are attracted, but test them to them to ensure they don't later on intend to stop putting in the effort to remain hot.
Also make sure your partner isn't going to lose interest in sex down the line, because some people's "sex drive" is actually fake, and once the relationship is perceived as secure they revert to type (low drive) and it's constant rejection. A good indicator of such a sex-negative person would be over-the-top-inflamatory statements like "entitled to marital rape" in reply to a completely reasonable statement of wanting a wife who enjoys "regular sex".

If they fail these tests, they are NO marriage material. Just date them, sleep with them during the early "fun" stage, then move on.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Here's the marriage+ kids test: Ask potential husband to define and describe the word "parent" as both a noun and a verb.

If the answer is half-assed and his role in it = No Kids OR No Marriage. But only pick one.

If his answer is thoughtful and convincing = Marriage+Kids

Feel free to have one kid without a husband in the picture. Much easier and bypasses the deadweight.

Ask her to define/describe "Wife" and if it doesn't include regular sex and staying fit/attractive, she's not marriage material.
At most, date her then Next her.

Ask him to speak on whether he feels entitled to marital rape, and whether he intends to get and maintain a six pack. If not, dump him. As a female, you'll have no issue finding a replacement.

Preferably young and hot.

Overly dramatic language like "he feels entitled to marital rape" reveals your negative views of sex.
Definitely not marriage material.
Next!

If you are into six packs, find a guy with a six pack and tell him it's important to you.
Totally fair!
But don't marry a beer gut expecting him to change.

I would never do that, yuck.

Only 10/10 men for me.

They might date you until your natural sex aversion is revealled.
Wonder why you ask a 10 if he intends to get a six pack, wouldn't he already have that?

Yes he would.

Wow then we are in full agreement!
Find somebody hot to whom you are attracted, but test them to them to ensure they don't later on intend to stop putting in the effort to remain hot.
Also make sure your partner isn't going to lose interest in sex down the line, because some people's "sex drive" is actually fake, and once the relationship is perceived as secure they revert to type (low drive) and it's constant rejection. A good indicator of such a sex-negative person would be over-the-top-inflamatory statements like "entitled to marital rape" in reply to a completely reasonable statement of wanting a wife who enjoys "regular sex".

If they fail these tests, they are NO marriage material. Just date them, sleep with them during the early "fun" stage, then move on.

This guy gets it.

Most women here would be OK for the short term pump and dump.

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Anonymous wrote:I think many men would take a more critical look at the woman they were planning to propose to if they read all of the hate filled posts by the women. I believe the old saying Men thing the woman won't change after the wedding day and Women are certain the men will. I would also encourage men to pay attention to how they are treated during the wedding planning, it is a good preview of married life.

Good idea.

Especially about all the posts that sex ends as women get older, she puts up with it to get married but once she is older NADA nothing

And that women complain about a small penis when they can't get off. Almost as if they never had sex with you before getting married

Guys if you fall for that BS about sex ending as women get older, blame yourself for not keeping on top of your game.
A sexy fit man has infinite options, with or without bothering with a divorce.
Stop being a cry baby, hit the gym, and if she's not up for it, you know what to do.

This. If you're fit, successful and driven there will a tons of options. Your wife can choose to be the premier option or not. If she doesn't, then find what you need. Life doesn't wait up.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I think many men would take a more critical look at the woman they were planning to propose to if they read all of the hate filled posts by the women. I believe the old saying Men thing the woman won't change after the wedding day and Women are certain the men will. I would also encourage men to pay attention to how they are treated during the wedding planning, it is a good preview of married life.

Good idea.

Especially about all the posts that sex ends as women get older, she puts up with it to get married but once she is older NADA nothing

And that women complain about a small penis when they can't get off. Almost as if they never had sex with you before getting married

Guys if you fall for that BS about sex ending as women get older, blame yourself for not keeping on top of your game.
A sexy fit man has infinite options, with or without bothering with a divorce.
Stop being a cry baby, hit the gym, and if she's not up for it, you know what to do.

Not all men want to cheat. Even if they did, getting caught means that no matter how awful your spouse was, she is instantly "Saint Cheated On" and you are the bad guy. Divorce isn't as easy as crazy DCUM posters make it sound, especially if you are the higher earner. The worse case scenario is a low-drive SAHM who basically has you over a barrel no matter what you do.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I think many men would take a more critical look at the woman they were planning to propose to if they read all of the hate filled posts by the women. I believe the old saying Men thing the woman won't change after the wedding day and Women are certain the men will. I would also encourage men to pay attention to how they are treated during the wedding planning, it is a good preview of married life.

Good idea.

Especially about all the posts that sex ends as women get older, she puts up with it to get married but once she is older NADA nothing

And that women complain about a small penis when they can't get off. Almost as if they never had sex with you before getting married

Guys if you fall for that BS about sex ending as women get older, blame yourself for not keeping on top of your game.
A sexy fit man has infinite options, with or without bothering with a divorce.
Stop being a cry baby, hit the gym, and if she's not up for it, you know what to do.

Not all men want to cheat. Even if they did, getting caught means that no matter how awful your spouse was, she is instantly "Saint Cheated On" and you are the bad guy. Divorce isn't as easy as crazy DCUM posters make it sound, especially if you are the higher earner. The worse case scenario is a low-drive SAHM who basically has you over a barrel no matter what you do.

So don't cheat. Instead, simply declare Open Marriage. This is a lifestyle choice that some men make, which unfortunaly some wives dislike but oh well too bad. Just like some wives choose a low sex marriage lifestyle without first asking husband. Equally fair. There is no "getting caught" because you literally tell your celibate spouse not to wait up, you will be out getting some.