All single men shoudl have to read DCUM for a month before proposing

[Anonymous]

OP here, this topic alone would prevent many men (and women) from ever getting married. Thanks everyone for proving my point by trying to tell me how wrong I was for posting this topic. I may print this one out to share with my son when he thinks he has met Miss Right.

I will say that my DH and I got a great deal out of our premarital counseling. And we have always worked together to divvy up the chores.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I want to thank DCUM for convincing me, a young single woman, that I never, EVER want to get married. The ticket is having a one night stand, getting knocked up, and raising that kid by yourself without ever having him know his dad, who could then sue for visitation and parental rights. Way of the future. Men are being phased out.

That's the way to do it. Nothing makes the DCUM male losers (and they are losers, hanging out on a women's parenting forum) than this. Virtual high five.

This is DC Urban Moms and Dads right?

Yes. And it's also a relationship forum. Not parenting. She clicked the wrong thread

The entire site is a parenting forum. You must be new.

I can't decide if you really are that dumb or just trolling

Brain damage and social issues will do that to you.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP here, this topic alone would prevent many men (and women) from ever getting married. Thanks everyone for proving my point by trying to tell me how wrong I was for posting this topic. I may print this one out to share with my son when he thinks he has met Miss Right.

I will say that my DH and I got a great deal out of our premarital counseling. And we have always worked together to divvy up the chores.

OP you sound deranged. I'm sure many will use this thread to point to how bat*** insane men are.

(And... I hate to be the bearer of bad news, but no one believes you're a lady.)

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Anonymous wrote:I want to thank DCUM for convincing me, a young single woman, that I never, EVER want to get married. The ticket is having a one night stand, getting knocked up, and raising that kid by yourself without ever having him know his dad, who could then sue for visitation and parental rights. Way of the future. Men are being phased out.

That's the way to do it. Nothing makes the DCUM male losers (and they are losers, hanging out on a women's parenting forum) than this. Virtual high five.

This is DC Urban Moms and Dads right?

Yes. And it's also a relationship forum. Not parenting. She clicked the wrong thread

The entire site is a parenting forum. You must be new.

Nope. Isn't this about the point where you start throwing a tantrum and start spewing MRA and misogyny?

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Anonymous wrote:I want to thank DCUM for convincing me, a young single woman, that I never, EVER want to get married. The ticket is having a one night stand, getting knocked up, and raising that kid by yourself without ever having him know his dad, who could then sue for visitation and parental rights. Way of the future. Men are being phased out.

That's the way to do it. Nothing makes the DCUM male losers (and they are losers, hanging out on a women's parenting forum) than this. Virtual high five.

This is DC Urban Moms and Dads right?

The "Dads" is in subscript. Did you think the forum was nicknamed DCUMAD?

Well of course Dads are useless other than for financial support. It is the only reason I stay married to my DH, that and his is oblivious that I have an AP.

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Anonymous wrote:I want to thank DCUM for convincing me, a young single woman, that I never, EVER want to get married. The ticket is having a one night stand, getting knocked up, and raising that kid by yourself without ever having him know his dad, who could then sue for visitation and parental rights. Way of the future. Men are being phased out.

That's the way to do it. Nothing makes the DCUM male losers (and they are losers, hanging out on a women's parenting forum) than this. Virtual high five.

This is DC Urban Moms and Dads right?

Yes. And it's also a relationship forum. Not parenting. She clicked the wrong thread

The entire site is a parenting forum. You must be new.

I can't decide if you really are that dumb or just trolling

Brain damage and social issues will do that to you.

Well then I'm sorry. I didn't realize you were handicapped. I apologize

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Anonymous wrote:I want to thank DCUM for convincing me, a young single woman, that I never, EVER want to get married. The ticket is having a one night stand, getting knocked up, and raising that kid by yourself without ever having him know his dad, who could then sue for visitation and parental rights. Way of the future. Men are being phased out.

That's the way to do it. Nothing makes the DCUM male losers (and they are losers, hanging out on a women's parenting forum) than this. Virtual high five.

This is DC Urban Moms and Dads right?

Yes. And it's also a relationship forum. Not parenting. She clicked the wrong thread

The entire site is a parenting forum. You must be new.

I can't decide if you really are that dumb or just trolling

Brain damage and social issues will do that to you.

Well then I'm sorry. I didn't realize you were handicapped. I apologize

Uh oh. Your brain damage is flaring up again. Nurse!

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Anonymous wrote:I want to thank DCUM for convincing me, a young single woman, that I never, EVER want to get married. The ticket is having a one night stand, getting knocked up, and raising that kid by yourself without ever having him know his dad, who could then sue for visitation and parental rights. Way of the future. Men are being phased out.

That's the way to do it. Nothing makes the DCUM male losers (and they are losers, hanging out on a women's parenting forum) than this. Virtual high five.

This is DC Urban Moms and Dads right?

The "Dads" is in subscript. Did you think the forum was nicknamed DCUMAD?

Well of course Dads are useless other than for financial support. It is the only reason I stay married to my DH, that and his is oblivious that I have an AP.

Good for you.

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Anonymous wrote:I want to thank DCUM for convincing me, a young single woman, that I never, EVER want to get married. The ticket is having a one night stand, getting knocked up, and raising that kid by yourself without ever having him know his dad, who could then sue for visitation and parental rights. Way of the future. Men are being phased out.

That's the way to do it. Nothing makes the DCUM male losers (and they are losers, hanging out on a women's parenting forum) than this. Virtual high five.

This is DC Urban Moms and Dads right?

Yes. And it's also a relationship forum. Not parenting. She clicked the wrong thread

The entire site is a parenting forum. You must be new.

Nope. Isn't this about the point where you start throwing a tantrum and start spewing MRA and misogyny?

I thought that was your bag?

[Anonymous]

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Did you ever consider that you men ruin us?

Nope, I didn't ruin you. Don't know you, don't care to. You're not a martyr.

Just mow the yard and then grill me a steak!

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I want to thank DCUM for convincing me, a young single woman, that I never, EVER want to get married. The ticket is having a one night stand, getting knocked up, and raising that kid by yourself without ever having him know his dad, who could then sue for visitation and parental rights. Way of the future. Men are being phased out.

You can join fat cat lady and life a life of hate together. Unfortunately your kid is going to be a mess line you, but if it means you're not making any men miserable it's a risk the gene pool at large is willing to take

Dude your spelling is SO BAD, we can tell it's you on over half of these posts. Stop being such a loser haha. Sorry some girl hurt you but...time to man up and deal with your life

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:So let me get this straight- if men choose not to marry, they are smart because women are shrill harpies. But if women choose not to marry, they are bitter old cat ladies.

I really do feel bad for the guys who think this way. I know a lot of it comes from an inability to relate to women- or even people in general- due to being special needs and growing up in a time where SN wasn't recognized and help wasn't available. I have family members like that, and while the things they say about women are truly disgusting, I know they are also in a lot of pain and struggling to make it through each day.

Help is available. There's no shame in seeking therapy.

+1000

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP here, this topic alone would prevent many men (and women) from ever getting married. Thanks everyone for proving my point by trying to tell me how wrong I was for posting this topic. I may print this one out to share with my son when he thinks he has met Miss Right.

I will say that my DH and I got a great deal out of our premarital counseling. And we have always worked together to divvy up the chores.

Hahahaha oh god. DREAM future inlaw right here folks! (Fact: you will rarely see your son, and have no relationship with your grandchildren)

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP here, this topic alone would prevent many men (and women) from ever getting married. Thanks everyone for proving my point by trying to tell me how wrong I was for posting this topic. I may print this one out to share with my son when he thinks he has met Miss Right.

I will say that my DH and I got a great deal out of our premarital counseling. And we have always worked together to divvy up the chores.

Anything to make sure he never gets married and no one ever takes your place as #1, right?

[Anonymous]

Here's the marriage+ kids test: Ask potential husband to define and describe the word "parent" as both a noun and a verb.

If the answer is half-assed and his role in it = No Kids OR No Marriage. But only pick one.

If his answer is thoughtful and convincing = Marriage+Kids

Feel free to have one kid without a husband in the picture. Much easier and bypasses the deadweight.