All single men shoudl have to read DCUM for a month before proposing

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:You know, a good counselor goes over all these issues before marriage. We had 6 sessions and they were extremely beneficial.

I still wish DH was more involved with his parents, called them and spoke to them about plans. All of that has fallen to me and there's constant annoyance from my inlaws about this and they direct it at me. For instance, we're going on vacation this weekend with inlaws and DH hasn't yet figured out what day we're going, the address of the house rental or whether any reservations or plans have been made for the weekend. And I'm not about to add it to my mountain of to-do s.

And? If I want something done the way I want it I make the plans. Otherwise don't agree to go. Stop harping.

Post that on the thread with the husband whining about how he wants his wife to call a gardener so he doesn't have to do any work. He needs to stop harping.

[Anonymous]

Who the hell gets married anymore?
So 20th century...

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:You know, a good counselor goes over all these issues before marriage. We had 6 sessions and they were extremely beneficial.

I still wish DH was more involved with his parents, called them and spoke to them about plans. All of that has fallen to me and there's constant annoyance from my inlaws about this and they direct it at me. For instance, we're going on vacation this weekend with inlaws and DH hasn't yet figured out what day we're going, the address of the house rental or whether any reservations or plans have been made for the weekend. And I'm not about to add it to my mountain of to-do s.

And? If I want something done the way I want it I make the plans. Otherwise don't agree to go. Stop harping.

A. I'm not harping
B. We'd never, ever see my inlaws if I needed plans in advance or a schedule. It just wouldn't happen. DH can't do that. I'm sure there are plans, but DH can't communicate with his parents enough to get them.

[Anonymous]

seriously, no guys would get married.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Most of the DCUM harpies are bitter dried up divorced women who can't find another man or overweight tumblrinas with cats as companions as they can't find a male to put up with their garbage. Oh, it's the guys fault he doesn't want to date their bitter angry asses...

I agree, it's incite into the most bitter and contemptuous group of woman in the area.

I think every single guy should read it and see if they notice similar traits in the women they're dating. If you see any similarities - run run run.

There are good women in the area. Plenty of them.

Oh cheeto fingers. I guess no one liked your post so you have to reply to yourself.

I wish we could take all your posts and make a list out of them to warn women who might be thinking about marriage. It would be helpful if you could register.

Time for you to change out your kitty litter and pop a Xanax as you contemplate the Realization you'll be alone forever.

PROTIP: it's you're bad attitude and purple hair...

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I think many men would take a more critical look at the woman they were planning to propose to if they read all of the hate filled posts by the women. I believe the old saying Men thing the woman won't change after the wedding day and Women are certain the men will. I would also encourage men to pay attention to how they are treated during the wedding planning, it is a good preview of married life.

You bet.

And I also think working with a full time career should also read DCUM/archives for a month so they don't marry a ManChild with ADHD.

[Anonymous]

You bet.

And I also think working women with a full time career should also read DCUM/archives for a month so they don't marry a ManChild with ADHD.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Most of the DCUM harpies are bitter dried up divorced women who can't find another man or overweight tumblrinas with cats as companions as they can't find a male to put up with their garbage. Oh, it's the guys fault he doesn't want to date their bitter angry asses...

I agree, it's incite into the most bitter and contemptuous group of woman in the area.

I think every single guy should read it and see if they notice similar traits in the women they're dating. If you see any similarities - run run run.

There are good women in the area. Plenty of them.

Oh cheeto fingers. I guess no one liked your post so you have to reply to yourself.

I wish we could take all your posts and make a list out of them to warn women who might be thinking about marriage. It would be helpful if you could register.

Time for you to change out your kitty litter and pop a Xanax as you contemplate the Realization you'll be alone forever.

PROTIP: it's you're bad attitude and purple hair...

Time for you to wash your flashlight and pop the anti-psychotic as you realize your Waifu cutout isn't actually real.

PROTIP: it's your greasy unwashed body and poor social skills...

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Most of the DCUM harpies are bitter dried up divorced women who can't find another man or overweight tumblrinas with cats as companions as they can't find a male to put up with their garbage. Oh, it's the guys fault he doesn't want to date their bitter angry asses...

I agree, it's incite into the most bitter and contemptuous group of woman in the area.

I think every single guy should read it and see if they notice similar traits in the women they're dating. If you see any similarities - run run run.

There are good women in the area. Plenty of them.

Oh cheeto fingers. I guess no one liked your post so you have to reply to yourself.

I wish we could take all your posts and make a list out of them to warn women who might be thinking about marriage. It would be helpful if you could register.

Clearly your DH is one lucky guy.

As is your (nonexistent) DW.

I am a DW.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:You know, a good counselor goes over all these issues before marriage. We had 6 sessions and they were extremely beneficial.

I still wish DH was more involved with his parents, called them and spoke to them about plans. All of that has fallen to me and there's constant annoyance from my inlaws about this and they direct it at me. For instance, we're going on vacation this weekend with inlaws and DH hasn't yet figured out what day we're going, the address of the house rental or whether any reservations or plans have been made for the weekend. And I'm not about to add it to my mountain of to-do s[u].

And? If I want something done the way I want it I make the plans. Otherwise don't agree to go. Stop harping.

Post that on the thread with the husband whining about how he wants his wife to call a gardener so he doesn't have to do any work. He needs to stop harping.

Don't. Don't do your husband's basic tasks and Don't worry about his parents. His mother ABSOLUTELY knows her son is unorganized, can't plan, and doesn't keep track of details. Deep down she is very happy he even managed to get married and she hopes he stays that way so someone can take care of him while he focuses on his studies, I mean office work.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Most of the DCUM harpies are bitter dried up divorced women who can't find another man or overweight tumblrinas with cats as companions as they can't find a male to put up with their garbage. Oh, it's the guys fault he doesn't want to date their bitter angry asses...

I agree, it's incite into the most bitter and contemptuous group of woman in the area.

I think every single guy should read it and see if they notice similar traits in the women they're dating. If you see any similarities - run run run.

There are good women in the area. Plenty of them.

Oh cheeto fingers. I guess no one liked your post so you have to reply to yourself.

I wish we could take all your posts and make a list out of them to warn women who might be thinking about marriage. It would be helpful if you could register.

Clearly your DH is one lucky guy.

As is your (nonexistent) DW.

I am a DW.

And I am a DH.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:You know, a good counselor goes over all these issues before marriage. We had 6 sessions and they were extremely beneficial.

I still wish DH was more involved with his parents, called them and spoke to them about plans. All of that has fallen to me and there's constant annoyance from my inlaws about this and they direct it at me. For instance, we're going on vacation this weekend with inlaws and DH hasn't yet figured out what day we're going, the address of the house rental or whether any reservations or plans have been made for the weekend. And I'm not about to add it to my mountain of to-do s[u].

And? If I want something done the way I want it I make the plans. Otherwise don't agree to go. Stop harping.

Post that on the thread with the husband whining about how he wants his wife to call a gardener so he doesn't have to do any work. He needs to stop harping.

Don't. Don't do your husband's basic tasks and Don't worry about his parents. His mother ABSOLUTELY knows her son is unorganized, can't plan, and doesn't keep track of details. Deep down she is very happy he even managed to get married and she hopes he stays that way so someone can take care of him while he focuses on his studies, I mean office work.

+1000

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Most of the DCUM harpies are bitter dried up divorced women who can't find another man or overweight tumblrinas with cats as companions as they can't find a male to put up with their garbage. Oh, it's the guys fault he doesn't want to date their bitter angry asses...

I agree, it's incite into the most bitter and contemptuous group of woman in the area.

I think every single guy should read it and see if they notice similar traits in the women they're dating. If you see any similarities - run run run.

There are good women in the area. Plenty of them.

Oh cheeto fingers. I guess no one liked your post so you have to reply to yourself.

I wish we could take all your posts and make a list out of them to warn women who might be thinking about marriage. It would be helpful if you could register.

Time for you to change out your kitty litter and pop a Xanax as you contemplate the Realization you'll be alone forever.

PROTIP: it's you're bad attitude and purple hair...

Time for you to wash your flashlight and pop the anti-psychotic as you realize your Waifu cutout isn't actually real.

PROTIP: it's your greasy unwashed body and poor social skills...

"Poker social skill"

Says the overweight cat lady...

Move your therapy appointment up to twice a week lady - try to remember there's people who love you. No men of course - you repulse them - but someone.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Most of the DCUM harpies are bitter dried up divorced women who can't find another man or overweight tumblrinas with cats as companions as they can't find a male to put up with their garbage. Oh, it's the guys fault he doesn't want to date their bitter angry asses...

I agree, it's incite into the most bitter and contemptuous group of woman in the area.

I think every single guy should read it and see if they notice similar traits in the women they're dating. If you see any similarities - run run run.

There are good women in the area. Plenty of them.

Did you ever consider that you men ruin us? We give you the best years of our lives, bear your children, take your crap and nurse you through countless bouts of man flu and you can't mow the f&$@king yard?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:You know, a good counselor goes over all these issues before marriage. We had 6 sessions and they were extremely beneficial.

I still wish DH was more involved with his parents, called them and spoke to them about plans. All of that has fallen to me and there's constant annoyance from my inlaws about this and they direct it at me. For instance, we're going on vacation this weekend with inlaws and DH hasn't yet figured out what day we're going, the address of the house rental or whether any reservations or plans have been made for the weekend. And I'm not about to add it to my mountain of to-do s.

And? If I want something done the way I want it I make the plans. Otherwise don't agree to go. Stop harping.

Post that on the thread with the husband whining about how he wants his wife to call a gardener so he doesn't have to do any work. He needs to stop harping.

You mean the military guy that has been deployed and wife wants him to do stuff from overseas? Yeah that guy is completely unreasonable for not doing the yard work.