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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Here's the marriage+ kids test: Ask potential husband to define and describe the word "parent" as both a noun and a verb.

If the answer is half-assed and his role in it = No Kids OR No Marriage. But only pick one.

If his answer is thoughtful and convincing = Marriage+Kids

Feel free to have one kid without a husband in the picture. Much easier and bypasses the deadweight. [/quote]

Ask her to define/describe "Wife" and if it doesn't include regular sex and staying fit/attractive, she's not marriage material. 
At most, date her then Next her. [/quote]

Ask him to speak on whether he feels entitled to marital rape, and whether he intends to get and maintain a six pack.  If not, dump him. As a female, you'll have no issue finding a replacement.

Preferably young and hot. [/quote]

Overly dramatic language like "he feels entitled to marital rape" reveals your negative views of sex.
Definitely not marriage material.
Next!

If you are into six packs, find a guy with a six pack and tell him it's important to you. 
Totally fair!
[b]But don't marry a beer gut expecting him to change.[/b] [/quote]

I would never do that, yuck.

Only 10/10 men for me. [/quote]

They might date you until your natural sex aversion is revealled. 
Wonder why you ask a 10 if he intends to get a six pack, wouldn't he already have that?

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Yes he would.  [/quote]

Wow then we are in full agreement!
Find somebody hot to whom you are attracted, but test them to them to ensure they don't later on intend to stop putting in the effort to remain hot.
Also make sure your partner isn't going to lose interest in sex down the line, because some people's "sex drive" is actually fake, and once the relationship is perceived as secure they revert to type (low drive) and it's constant rejection. A good indicator of such a sex-negative person would be over-the-top-inflamatory statements like "entitled to marital rape" in reply to a completely reasonable statement of wanting a wife who enjoys "regular sex".

If they fail these tests, they are NO marriage material. Just date them, sleep with them during the early "fun" stage, then move on.[/quote]

This guy gets it.

Most women here would be OK for the short term pump and dump.  [/quote]

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