Fiancé's ex girlfriend wants to take a bike trip with him

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Anonymous wrote:How come you couldn't get it together enough to get married before you had your baby?

Ignorant comment

No. Smart comment.

Don't tell me you are still falling for the modern family B.S that it's so chic to have a kid or two before getting engaged.

I doubt they are engaged. More like "yea of course I'm thinking about marriage honey".

This I agree with. Two people with a baby who intend to get married will be married unless someone is still legally married to someone else. He's not a fiancé, she just thinks that sounds better than boyfriend.

He's definitely the dad of the other baby either way.

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I wouldn't be comfortable w/it at all.

And I think it is considerate of your fiancé to decline her invitation if you feel the same way as I would.

It is kind of rude of her to invite your fiancé to socialize w/her....Knowing full well that he is engaged w/an infant.

Do you think she still has feelings for him??
And why are they still in contact??

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:this has spiraled into a horrible train wreck ... this is fake or Jerry Springer type shit.

Jerry Springer was faked. They paid people to act crazy scenarios. This thread is fake too but OP isn't getting paid.

[Anonymous]

OP while he's gone on his bike trip, you might as well pack your stuff.

There is something very strange going on here.

[Anonymous]

You should go along. Maybe you two will hit it off? You could become sister wives!

[Anonymous]

The risk you run by confronting this is his going back to the ex and leaving you in your 40's with a tiny baby. But, whether or not you soft step this it will be what it will be so at the very least pursue the truth. I think you will feel better in the long run regardless of the outcome with him.

[Anonymous]

NO!. Are you a moron? He should be at home helping you.

[Anonymous]

OP can have her own opinion, but the decision is the fiance's. He can and will go if he wants. Get used to it, OP.

[Anonymous]

Where did OP go? Curious to know what happened.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Where did OP go? Curious to know what happened.

I think it only yesterday occurred to her how very likely her boyfriend is the other baby's dad.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Where did OP go? Curious to know what happened.

I think it only yesterday occurred to her how very likely her boyfriend is the other baby's dad.

Technically, it was donated sperm. It just was a known donor. Who happens to be the dad of two kids born 4 months apart.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Are you sure the sperm donor to the 6 month old is not your fiance?

WTF is that dancing monster doing here

[Anonymous]

Op here. I'm taking it all in. I don't truly believe he's the father but obviously I don't know for sure.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Op here. I'm taking it all in. I don't truly believe he's the father but obviously I don't know for sure.

Cmon op, don't stick your head in the sand. What are the odds that they broke up and she immediately found some random now nowhere to be found "sperm donor" vs him being the dad? Horses not zebras.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Op here. I'm taking it all in. I don't truly believe he's the father but obviously I don't know for sure.

Hi, OP, I was the one with all the questions earlier. Thanks for answering. Have you talked with him since yesterday? Does he live with you and your child? How are things going with your relationship, in general?