Fiancé's ex girlfriend wants to take a bike trip with him

[Anonymous]

Well, OP, there's the timing issue.

She has a 6 month old, which means she conceived around 16 months ago.

Is it possible it is your boyfriends baby, but she didn't tell him?

Putting the paternity aside, as everyone else has suggested, its nuts that she would invite your fiance to take a multi day out of state bike trip when

-she has a 6 month old
-he has a 2 month old
-he has a fiance whom she has never met

This is so weird on so many levels--and the fact that your fiance is asking you/considering it is mind baffling.

Please, start asking some hard questions.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Op here. I'm taking it all in. I don't truly believe he's the father but obviously I don't know for sure.

Hi, OP, I was the one with all the questions earlier. Thanks for answering. Have you talked with him since yesterday? Does he live with you and your child? How are things going with your relationship, in general?

OP, you need to ask him to DNA test that baby.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Op here. He has assured me baby is not his.

I'm sure he did.

Who is going to watch the ex gf's sperm donor baby while she is on this bike ride since there is no dad? You OP? This is nuts, hell to the no to all of it.

One of my favorite expressions and so appropriate for this situation!

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Op here. He has assured me baby is not his.

I'm sure he has. Don't be an idiot. She is leaving her baby to go after your fiance.

I still want to know who is watching the ex girlfriend's no daddy baby while she bikes around?

. She asked my fiancé's mother!

Is this a joke??? So she asked grandma? How sweet. Seriously though, for real?

So you think your future mother-in-law is watching a baby who is not her grandchild for a few days?

You sound seriously naïve.

Your fiancé's ex got pregnant 15m ago. Your fiancé broke up with his ex about a year ago. You have a 2m old so you must have gotten pregnant about 1 year ago, right when he broke up with his ex. So you got pregnant right away after dating this guy.

It is very common for exes to continue having ex sex. He was probably screwing both of you at the same time. I can't believe you think your fiancé is not the father of his ex's baby and your future mother-in-law is babysitting a sperm donor's child. Ridiculous.

[Anonymous]

How long were you dating before you got pregnant?

[Anonymous]

Do you have a relationship with your bf's mother? Maybe you could ask her about the baby.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Do you have a relationship with your bf's mother? Maybe you could ask her about the baby.

And she'll say, "Oh, you mean my granddaughter Larla?"

[Anonymous]

OK, why do I think we should introduce OP to Bobcat girl?

[Anonymous]

OP, you should watch the baby so your child can start to bond with its sibling.

[Anonymous]

OP please give us an update!

[Anonymous]

What to say in response to your fiance's question is the least of your issues OP. Your life (assuming you're not a troll) is a bad reality show.