Back on the dating scene. Confused.

[Anonymous]

This thread reeks of lightly fried tuna...

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:This thread reeks of lightly fried tuna...

Sprinkled with antioxidants?

[Anonymous]

ITT
Supposed HBB 8/10 is asking a SAHM forum full of sexless dried up angry women what she should do about beta orbiter who keeps asking her out when she's clearly waiting for someone better.

OP, don't waste your time, just go for the guy who displays the dominate qualities you're apparently seeking. /thread

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Anonymous wrote:Any man contemplating divorce, even casually, should be forced to read this thread. He will run back to his rational DW when he realizes what's swimming around in today's dating pool.

Unless DW is an ice princess. Then he'd be lucky as women are more likely to have sex now.

Sorry, I thought the Ice Princess Exception was implicit. But yes, there is always the Ice Princess Exception.

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Let me get this straight - he's been askin you out a few times, you've flaked on him, and now you are mad he doesn't make plans after you say "sorry I'm busy"?

Wtf - how is he supposed to suggest a different concrete time without knowing your schedule and with you giving a track record of being unavailable?

I told him the day I would get back. Not mad, confused. Like one of the PP said if a guy is really interested he's going to make concrete plans if he knows you're available. I was raised to think the same way so that's why I said I was confused.

This depends. I was also raised with the idea if the guy is interested he will ask you out BUT you have to give him something to work with so he knows you are interested. If you have been the one to have the super busy schedule, how does he know that you are not just stringing him along until something better comes along or you are lukewarm so everything but hair washing will come before him? You do this by being genuinely apologetic when the plans don't work for you and counter with being willing to make the plans that do work for your so you can see him. As I navigate the world of making friends with other mom's (this has been jokingly referred to as mommy dating) the same sort of etiquette rules apply. If you can never make the play dates other people plan, you offer to host and plan for that date that is convenient to you or else how can I tell you aren't trying to either give a hint or "you're just not that into me" either our kids being friends or us being friends?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:This thread reeks of lightly fried tuna...

Sprinkled with antioxidants?

+1. I think you are right. I was going to say that next time he calls for a date she should say she doesn't have time because she is making lightly fried spiced tuna aka #doingGod'swork"

I am way too naive on these boards and give people the benefit of the doubt that they didn't realize that you can't wake up at 7:30 and have time to shower, put on makeup, fry up tuna, commute on Route 66 to be in DC by 8:30am. OR in this case blow someone off multiple times and wonder why he isn't excited to make concrete plans. And of course the threads pull you in and only add in the pertinent details a few pages...

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Anonymous wrote:ITT
Supposed HBB 8/10 is asking a SAHM forum full of sexless dried up angry women what she should do about beta orbiter who keeps asking her out when she's clearly waiting for someone better.

OP, don't waste your time, just go for the guy who displays the dominate qualities you're apparently seeking. /thread

Lol PP is clearly a redpill saddie failure

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:ITT
Supposed HBB 8/10 is asking a SAHM forum full of sexless dried up angry women what she should do about beta orbiter who keeps asking her out when she's clearly waiting for someone better.

OP, don't waste your time, just go for the guy who displays the dominate qualities you're apparently seeking. /thread

Lol PP is clearly a redpill saddie failure

LOL PP actually has this situation called down pat. OP stated earlier she thought it was man's job to solidify plans and that she's likes men to be organizer as if indicates interest. She also indicated she doesn't find his lackluster responses attractive
PP@12:25 is said dried up sexless hag.

OP listen to other PP

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:ITT
Supposed HBB 8/10 is asking a SAHM forum full of sexless dried up angry women what she should do about beta orbiter who keeps asking her out when she's clearly waiting for someone better.

OP, don't waste your time, just go for the guy who displays the dominate qualities you're apparently seeking. /thread

Lol PP is clearly a redpill saddie failure

LOL PP actually has this situation called down pat. OP stated earlier she thought it was man's job to solidify plans and that she's likes men to be organizer as if indicates interest. She also indicated she doesn't find his lackluster responses attractive
PP@12:25 is said dried up sexless hag.

OP listen to other PP

Sure....it goes something like this...I have rejected this guy many times and he keeps calling, but the last time I rejected him he did not take charge. Therefore I do not like him(I just liked the attention). The guy was just wrapping up lose ends. Here is a news flash for you and the OP.....he ended it. He will never call again. LOL

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Anonymous wrote:
She is waiting for me. You might have seen my "how to win over women" dating videos ....Some people call me alpha ...others say I am rapist.

Off topic - but I was watching "Revenge of the Nerds" last night. I was really struck by the scene where Lewis rapes Betty. She's at the kissing booth but is so disgusted by Lewis that she won't even kiss him. Bails out of her kissing booth duties to avoid it. She goes into the fun house after Stan declines her advances. Lewis puts on a mask that makes her think he's Stan, then has sex with her. This would normally be rape or assault but Lewis is so good at sex that instead of being mad, she's now in love with this guy she refused to kiss a few minutes earlier. What. the. Fuck?

Watch an old James Bond with SC. He slaps the woman around and then rapes them.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:ITT
Supposed HBB 8/10 is asking a SAHM forum full of sexless dried up angry women what she should do about beta orbiter who keeps asking her out when she's clearly waiting for someone better.

OP, don't waste your time, just go for the guy who displays the dominate qualities you're apparently seeking. /thread

Lol PP is clearly a redpill saddie failure

LOL PP actually has this situation called down pat. OP stated earlier she thought it was man's job to solidify plans and that she's likes men to be organizer as if indicates interest. She also indicated she doesn't find his lackluster responses attractive
PP@12:25 is said dried up sexless hag.

OP listen to other PP

Sure....it goes something like this...I have rejected this guy many times and he keeps calling, but the last time I rejected him he did not take charge. Therefore I do not like him(I just liked the attention). The guy was just wrapping up lose ends. Here is a news flash for you and the OP.....he ended it. He will never call again. LOL

Here's a news flash for you PP, you're illiterate. OP didn't reject him. She told him when she would be available for dinner (in a few days due to traveling for work).

[Anonymous]

Would it be so difficult to disagree with other PPs without calling them "sexless hags" or "stupid/idiot/illiterate"? Are you posters over the age of 12?

[Anonymous]

Emotional age of 12, real age ~45. He comes around regularly.

[Anonymous]

As a woman, OPs expectations exhaust me. OP-- quit playing games. If you like him, say so and ask him out. Tell him you'll be home on Monday and you'd like to see him for dinner on Tuesday night.

Men-- seriously? Is this the type of crap you have to put up with from women?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:As a woman, OPs expectations exhaust me. OP-- quit playing games. If you like him, say so and ask him out. Tell him you'll be home on Monday and you'd like to see him for dinner on Tuesday night.

Men-- seriously? Is this the type of crap you have to put up with from women?

Yes but the funny thing...the OP will be pissed when this guy moves on. He will be the bad guy.