Why do men pick ditzy women sometimes?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Agree with all the PPs criticizing you OP. So you're surprised a great "catch" likes a very pretty, sexually experienced, nice person who is willing to settle down and be serious for the right person? Good luck to her! You on the other hand...

Is sexually experienced code for drunken slut?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Agree with all the PPs criticizing you OP. So you're surprised a great "catch" likes a very pretty, sexually experienced, nice person who is willing to settle down and be serious for the right person? Good luck to her! You on the other hand...

Is sexually experienced code for drunken slut?

Only if you're a misogynistic slut shamer. A woman should have as many sexual partners as she damn well pleases.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Agree with all the PPs criticizing you OP. So you're surprised a great "catch" likes a very pretty, sexually experienced, nice person who is willing to settle down and be serious for the right person? Good luck to her! You on the other hand...

Is sexually experienced code for drunken slut?

Only if you're a misogynistic slut shamer. A woman should have as many sexual partners as she damn well pleases.

I am a woman and a sexy one at that but it is obvious the PPP meant sexually experienced for her partygirl drunken sleeps with anyone image that brings.

[Anonymous]

I agree with this. OP -- are you for real? I can't imagine a "friend" talking about one of their "friends" like you have. Men can smell jealousy a mile away. Be yourself and see where that takes you. Stop trying to worry or being jealous about everyone else.

Anonymous wrote:OP, it's not how you dress or do your hair. You have an ugly attitude and men can smell an uptight high maintenance bitch from a mile away. Just read your post, do you talk like this IRL? This girl was never your friend, she was a trainwreck who you loved to gossip about and would love to see her fail. How dare she attract a guy who is a catch! You are trash.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Op I have a cousin who was a partygirl too and know plenty of club girls who married had a kid but then they felt the urge to party irresponsibility and selfishness of dating around again and cheated on their bf or husband. If the sap ends up marrying the partygirl well he's a stupid sap because only later on will he find out how or who she banged on a drunken night and how many. Also a beauty with a goofy smile? What's her age and what's yours? Does she resemble Anne hathaway

LOl that is so random. WTF does Anne Hathaway have to do with anything?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:
Guy here. I have female friends who speak like this. None of them are the catch they think they are.

They never are. "Put together," "following 'The Rules' (lol), "preppy," "well-groomed." No guy worth a shit gives a fuck about any of this.

Look good
put out
shut up

It's that simple.

I married a ditz. I just googled "The Rules" and Wikipedia mentioned playing hard to get. My ditz didn't do that. She wanted certain things in life and she said what she wanted.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Op I have a cousin who was a partygirl too and know plenty of club girls who married had a kid but then they felt the urge to party irresponsibility and selfishness of dating around again and cheated on their bf or husband. If the sap ends up marrying the partygirl well he's a stupid sap because only later on will he find out how or who she banged on a drunken night and how many. Also a beauty with a goofy smile? What's her age and what's yours? Does she resemble Anne hathaway

LOl that is so random. WTF does Anne Hathaway have to do with anything?

She has a big goofy smile