How old were you when you first had sex?

[Anonymous]

19. I was ready, he was very into me and it was fine.

[Anonymous]

I got 2 friends that are in their 40's and hasn't done the deed, and it is for religious reasons.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:13! Heck no!

Slut much?

[Anonymous]

My childhoods friends and I made up a group of 4. They all lost their virginity at around 12. Their horror stories (including pregnancy and miscarriage) all scared me off sex for a while. I think that is a big reasons I waited into my 20s.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:13! Heck no!

Slut much?

Asshole much? You have no idea about this person's circumstances.

[Anonymous]

15. I was too young. He was 18 I think, maybe 19. We were sort of seeing each other but he didn't seem to like me so much. Or maybe he was just not a nice guy. It was not the kind of relationship I would want for my daughter, if that means anything. I have no idea what my distinction was.
I haven't seen him since we broke up after a few months of "dating" (which mostly consisted of hanging out, him drinking beer while I kept him company and the occasional horrible sexual encounters).
Years later my mom told me that he called HER (drunk) and asked her out a couple of times after we broke up.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:13! Heck no!

Slut much?

Asshole much? You have no idea about this person's circumstances.

Don't take the bait PP. Anyone who would say "slut much?" to someone who said 13 is an insecure, unhappy person who gets their jollies being mean or trying to get reactions on anonymous message boards. Think about how pathetic it is, and don't get upset when you see stuff like that. It just plays right into their sad little hands.

[Anonymous]

19, freshman year

[Anonymous]

24. Ugh, that sounds old. I waited because I am a prude.

[Anonymous]

19, my second semester of college and now years later I look back on it and cant even consider it sex. he knew i was a virgin and just wanted to get off.
then that summer I hooked up with a major league baseball player, and thats who I consider to be my first. Still wasnt great sex but way better than the first

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Anonymous wrote:25 late bloomer. However I am very religious. We are Facebook friends

You can't be that religious if you had sex outside of marriage

Not every religion forbids sex outside of marriage. And who are you to tell someone how religious they are?

[Anonymous]

20, we're married (i'm now 31). I was kinda religious then, not at all now.

[Anonymous]

32 and he's my DH. I was a VERY late bloomer, very shy, and didn't date much until I got older and broke out if my shell. I don't know anyone who was older than me when they 1st had sex or even over 30 for that matter!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:13! Heck no!

Slut much?

Asshole much? You have no idea about this person's circumstances.

Don't take the bait PP. Anyone who would say "slut much?" to someone who said 13 is an insecure, unhappy person who gets their jollies being mean or trying to get reactions on anonymous message boards. Think about how pathetic it is, and don't get upset when you see stuff like that. It just plays right into their sad little hands.

I am a pp, had sex at 15. I was an insecure, unhappy person with zero self-esteem. My father was absent and my mother was not much of a parent. I would describe myself as a "slut" - as in, having sex with guys outside of the context of a relationship or very early in a relationship. Teen girls who are promiscuous (sluts) usually behave this way because they lack self-esteem. They don't value themselves - probably because they are not valued by their parents. This is not something to criticize, judge or make fun of. It is sad. Do better for your daughters so that they don't disrespect themselves.
Sorry. Lecture over.

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Anonymous wrote:6. No, I thankfully haven't seen him --or my mother, who is still married to him -- since I was 12.5.

Yikes, sorry to hear this.

No no no that is not sex. That is assault. I am so sorry pp. this makes me cry.