How old were you when you first had sex?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:30. It was our wedding night, and yes, we're still together (and married). I don't regret waiting that long.

Was he a virgin too?

How long were you together before getting married?

Hed had one other partner and we'd dated 14 months. Married 14 years, so it's stuck so far.

[Anonymous]

26 with my husband on our wedding night

[Anonymous]

14. I regret it so much. Not the guy, he was great and we were together for a few years, but in hindsight, I was so freaking young.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I'm impressed by those of you who waited so long--until 20s / marriage. Are you religious?

I was 29 and engaged now married 20+ years. Not religious in the sense that that was why I waited. Religous in that I have a strong faith, actively practice that faith and bring my children up in that faith. Plus, I didn't really wait. DH was the first opportunity.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:14. I regret it so much. Not the guy, he was great and we were together for a few years, but in hindsight, I was so freaking young.

I guess this depends on the person. I fell in love for the first time when I was 14. It was a big deal. I could have totally done it, but he was older and wouldn't touch me with a six-foot pole LOL

I don't think I'd regret it. Of course, there's no way to know.

[Anonymous]

33.

Yikes.

And no, happily married to someone else.

[Anonymous]

24 for me with a fellow 25 year old virgin.

Losing it together as FWB seemed sensible, but he turned into a HUGE asshole over it.

[Anonymous]

17 and no--other than FB

I'm genuinely surprised by the number of late-bloomers posting here.

[Anonymous]

15 and no. She was a ditz.

[Anonymous]

19.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:32 and he's my DH. I was a VERY late bloomer, very shy, and didn't date much until I got older and broke out if my shell. I don't know anyone who was older than me when they 1st had sex or even over 30 for that matter!

I was 30. Maybe even 30.5. Married him.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:17 and no--other than FB

I'm genuinely surprised by the number of late-bloomers posting here.

Having sex later doesn't make one a late bloomer.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:17 and no--other than FB

I'm genuinely surprised by the number of late-bloomers posting here.

Having sex later doesn't make one a late bloomer.

Unless it was for religious reasons I would say it's a good definition of late bloomer.

[Anonymous]

21, not together but was my first real relationship and were together for like 2 years.

Not religious, just kind of an awkward nerd in my teenage years.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:21, not together but was my first real relationship and were together for like 2 years.

Not religious, just kind of an awkward nerd in my teenage years.

We don't talk anymore. It was an intense relationship and he started contacting me more when I got married so I cut him off.