How old were you when you first had sex?

[Anonymous]

12 and yes, still friends.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:15. No. He passed away.

How?

He committed suicide at age 23 because he thought he was in legal trouble.

Because he had sex with you when he was 23 and you were 15, making it statutory rape OR something unrelated to you?

Was the sex consensual?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:15. No. He passed away.

How?

He committed suicide at age 23 because he thought he was in legal trouble.

Because he had sex with you when he was 23 and you were 15, making it statutory rape OR something unrelated to you?

Was the sex consensual?

I think this poster was 15 when she had sex but he died years later at age 23.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:25 late bloomer. However I am very religious. We are Facebook friends

You can't be that religious if you had sex outside of marriage

Just because I committed a sin doesn't mean I'm not that religious. I'm perfectly aware that I could burn in hell for what I did. I still believe in God. Just because I make mistakes doesn't mean I stop believing in my religion.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:13! Heck no!

Slut much?

Asshole much? You have no idea about this person's circumstances.

Don't take the bait PP. Anyone who would say "slut much?" to someone who said 13 is an insecure, unhappy person who gets their jollies being mean or trying to get reactions on anonymous message boards. Think about how pathetic it is, and don't get upset when you see stuff like that. It just plays right into their sad little hands.

I am a pp, had sex at 15. I was an insecure, unhappy person with zero self-esteem. My father was absent and my mother was not much of a parent. I would describe myself as a "slut" - as in, having sex with guys outside of the context of a relationship or very early in a relationship. Teen girls who are promiscuous (sluts) usually behave this way because they lack self-esteem. They don't value themselves - probably because they are not valued by their parents. This is not something to criticize, judge or make fun of. It is sad. Do better for your daughters so that they don't disrespect themselves.
Sorry. Lecture over.

I agree with your overall point PP. I also had sex at 15 but I didn't have any of the issues yu described; I wanted to have sex and was ready so I did. Just want to point out that the circumstances don't always have to be less than ideal for a girl to choose to have sex relatively young. Slut shaming is not needed under any circumstances.

[Anonymous]

I'd just turned 18, in a car with plush velour reclining seats. And nope.

[Anonymous]

19 and married to him now.

[Anonymous]

15 still friends. Dated for 6 years 13-19 - I'm actually friends with all of my longer term exs

[Anonymous]

I was 14 and a freshman in high school. "Friends" with him on Facebook and he turned into a total loser. He's currently 29 and has two kids with an ex and a new baby with another girl. Friends with his ex on Facebook too and get to constantly see her posts about what a deadbeat he is.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:15. No. He passed away.

How?

He committed suicide at age 23 because he thought he was in legal trouble.

Because he had sex with you when he was 23 and you were 15, making it statutory rape OR something unrelated to you?

Was the sex consensual?

I was 15 he was 17. He tried to make his death look like some one killed him. Something like he tried to shoot himself. He was 23 when he died.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:25 late bloomer. However I am very religious. We are Facebook friends

You can't be that religious if you had sex outside of marriage

Just because I committed a sin doesn't mean I'm not that religious. I'm perfectly aware that I could burn in hell for what I did. I still believe in God. Just because I make mistakes doesn't mean I stop believing in my religion.

I would relax about the whole "burning in hell" thing if I were you. I don't mean to mock your religion, but it is a bit childish.

[Anonymous]

DH was 8, and said the girl was 12 or 13. Next encounter was years later. I've always felt uncomfortable about this. Is it molestation when there are two under aged children, but one significantly more mature than the other?

[Anonymous]

17 and not friends with him for many, many years. I recently discovered he's living in Paris.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:DH was 8, and said the girl was 12 or 13. Next encounter was years later. I've always felt uncomfortable about this. Is it molestation when there are two under aged children, but one significantly more mature than the other?

8? Is that even physically possible?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:DH was 8, and said the girl was 12 or 13. Next encounter was years later. I've always felt uncomfortable about this. Is it molestation when there are two under aged children, but one significantly more mature than the other?

Yes. Absolutely. I'm sorry.