How old were you when you first had sex?

Anonymous
15. No. He passed away.
Anonymous
22, and no, she and I didn't keep in touch after breaking up (I'm 36 now).
Anonymous
I was also 27. Not for religious reasons. Just wasn't right before that.
Anonymous

14. Feels weird to type that, given all the other responses. Not in touch at all (but I am not in touch with anyone from high school, other than a few FB friends)
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I'm impressed by those of you who waited so long--until 20s / marriage. Are you religious?


I am not impressed. You guys missed out on some good times!


Along with probably a lot of STDs and emotional trauma! I'm not one of them who waited, but I do admire them very much, especially the ones who waited until marriage or at least until the one they ended up marrying. There's something special about giving yourself completely to each other and nobody else.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:15. No. He passed away.


How?
Anonymous
14, no
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I'm impressed by those of you who waited so long--until 20s / marriage. Are you religious?


I am not impressed. You guys missed out on some good times!


Along with probably a lot of STDs and emotional trauma! I'm not one of them who waited, but I do admire them very much, especially the ones who waited until marriage or at least until the one they ended up marrying. There's something special about giving yourself completely to each other and nobody else.


LOL get real Pollyanna. STDs wash off. A weird, sweaty, nervous, half limp10 second exchange on your wedding night does not.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:I'm impressed by those of you who waited so long--until 20s / marriage. Are you religious?


Perhaps,the opportunity did not present itself, they wanted to make sure it was the right person, they were worried about parents, stressed about STDs, did not feel like it.

Not everyone has sex as early as you did, and that is totally normal. In fact, I'd guess you are in the minority.
Anonymous
13! Heck no!
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I'm impressed by those of you who waited so long--until 20s / marriage. Are you religious?


I am not impressed. You guys missed out on some good times!


Along with probably a lot of STDs and emotional trauma! I'm not one of them who waited, but I do admire them very much, especially the ones who waited until marriage or at least until the one they ended up marrying. There's something special about giving yourself completely to each other and nobody else.


LOL get real Pollyanna. STDs wash off. A weird, sweaty, nervous, half limp10 second exchange on your wedding night does not.



OP here.
Why is there always one who has to derail these threads?

Why does it bother you so much when someone decided to have sex? If they are happy what's it to you?
Anonymous
16 and Facebook friends (he married a woman who looks just like me but 10 years my junior !
Anonymous
17, I didn't want to be the only virgin in college. Stupid, yes, 17 stupid.

Over 40 years ago, not sure I'd recognize him if I saw him today.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:14, no


Wow. That's still a baby. I'm so sorry
Anonymous
16 and we have been together and then married since then.
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