How old were you when you first had sex?

[Anonymous]

18. Looking at kids now I think that I was pretty lucky 17-18 seems to be a real sweet spot for it. I really don't think of myself as a woman at 14 or 15. It was kind of that turning point age, which is nice.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:17 and no--other than FB

I'm genuinely surprised by the number of late-bloomers posting here.

Having sex later doesn't make one a late bloomer.

Unless it was for religious reasons I would say it's a good definition of late bloomer.

Ah, I waited for religious reasons, so I guess I was biased there. I wasn't a late bloomer.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:32 and he's my DH. I was a VERY late bloomer, very shy, and didn't date much until I got older and broke out if my shell. I don't know anyone who was older than me when they 1st had sex or even over 30 for that matter!

Was your DH a virgin as well?


How long were you together when it happened?


How long have you guys been married?


Sorry for the personal questions- I'll be 32 this fall and I'm like you described yourself.

NP. One more data point for you. I was 31. Waited until I knew I was with "the one." Got married a few months later, and we've been married for 15 years. I wasn't a shy person like the PP, but I was waiting for the right person. My mom waited until she got married (albeit at 21), so I guess I just thought that was the right thing to do. We're not religious. Husband was not a virgin.

[Anonymous]

16. Turns out he was gay, found out on facebook. Not friends.

[Anonymous]

18 yep def not in contact now, total douche

[Anonymous]

18. Married him. Never been with any other.

Going on 40 years.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:18. Married him. Never been with any other.

Going on 40 years.

Wow!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I'm impressed by those of you who waited so long--until 20s / marriage. Are you religious?

19. At the time I was religious. Then I met my DW at 23, and we've been together ever since, but I'm no longer religious. Some things last, others fade.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:17 and no--other than FB

I'm genuinely surprised by the number of late-bloomers posting here.

Having sex later doesn't make one a late bloomer.

Unless it was for religious reasons I would say it's a good definition of late bloomer.

Different poster here:
As another who was religious at the time, it doesn't mean that I didn't date. I just didn't have sex with those dates until I was older.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:15. No. He passed away.

Sorry about that.

[Anonymous]

16
and 31 years later, still friends, yes.

[Anonymous]

Was 20, she was 18, we are FB friends married to other people. It was her first time as well.

[Anonymous]

23 and now have been married to him for 20 years. I was not religious but very socially conservative.

[Anonymous]

I posted a while back that I was almost 21 when I lost my virginity. Definitely not religiously motivated! I was "friend zoned" by a lot of guys, starting very young, and going pretty much through college. I was totally fine with that for the most part, because it meant I could be myself and have fun with guys without potentially scary or negative outcomes. Of course, I found out from many of these friends--some of whom I had crushes on--years later that they had liked me, but didn't want to ruin our friendship. Ah well.

Fortunately, I slept with one of those friends when we were 23. (After having a couple of other relationships.) He proposed when we were 26, and we've been married for 10 years.

[Anonymous]

14. Not in touch with him because he moved overseas a few years later and doesn't use social media, but we stayed friends until that happened. I married the second guy I slept with (at age 16) after college graduation.