So why not get a divorce if you're so unhappy with your spouse that you can't sleep with him or her? |
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Bahahaha. You have a face like SARAH JESSICA PARKER? Is this you, PP? ![]() |
And I guarantee you're not. I'm 25, a size 2, taller than you, and I get told I look like Isla Fisher and Amy Adams. Objectively, by any standards, a hell of a lot hotter than fucking Tamra Barney and Sarah Jessica Parker (who- by the way- is famously ugly- maybe people were trying to insult you when they compared you two? Sorry ![]() |
I believe the correct citation is:
http://sarahjessicaparkerlookslikeahorse.com |
You both sound gorgeous and confident. If your partners are unresponsive and withholding, it hurts. Period. It's all the more frustrating and brutal because you see the attention you get from other men. I can completely understand how awful this must be. I've been appreciated by lovers and partners, while nowhere near your objective (socially-constructed, normative) hotness. I cannot imagine how...what a gut punch it must be to have the man you chose to build a life with shut down on the intimacy of your marriage. How about we agree on that? Sharing pain should never result in more pain being piled on. Come on! My XH enjoyed our sex life, but never valued me as a partner. I remember looking around the room and seeing other couples. It hurt to see "difficult" women being catered to by their husbands in light of my own husband's disregard for me. I was a "good wife" to him. In his eyes, I always fell short. I hope I am afforded the empathy I'm due since this is a site for (when it is at its best) information and support. I certainly hope that each of you two PPs can get past whatever it is that has you snapping at each other and see the pain of the situation. Hot or decidedly not hot, the pain a woman (any person!) feels when left alone in a marriage should be respected. Can we please move on from this? |
Do you think there's a good enough reason to not speak to your spouse for a few years? |
Lol the tone of this post and the other pp is what makes me less sympathetic to you. You seem to just want to be a victim. Why on earth would you stay married to someone who hadn't spoken to you for years? Of course that extreme situation is terrible. But you want to reduce the spouse to someone who just "won't talk" "won't have sex" "won't give affection." No speculating why, no acknowledgement of how you might have contributed to the situation or at least passively contributed to the neglect of the relationship. Reducing any human behavior as you have is just not reflective of what humans and relationships are. Unless of course you're the unfortunate random person who married a crazy sociopath. |
I think the point went over your head. There's no reason to stay married in those cases. It's never ok to do either to your spouse. There's nothing that justifies it. It is grounds for divorce. |
DWs who go without need to post pics, especially if they brag about how hot they are. |
Thank you for posting this. There is nothing more ugly than posters tearing down women whose husbands abandon them sexually by implying they are being abandoned because they are ugly. |
Also ugly: the posts where it is implied that the wives who abandon their husbands sexually are probably doing so because the husbands are lazy. |