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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]PP, I am hot. If you saw me, you'd think my DH was the luckiest guy alive. I am hot and sexy![b] I've been told I look like SJP and Tamara from the OC[/b]. I have natural large tits, that many a man has sucked on. I have a super tight pussy that I keep bare. I love sex. BUT...my DH has zero drive. I think he's always been intimidated by my hotness. Guys send me drinks when I am out with him. It makes him crazy mad.

I am not model-type, as I am too short, but am a size 4. I'm no longer a 1, like I was in my 20s and 30s, but men can smell sex and I have a sexy smell to me.

Reality is, my DH has no drive, has ED, and ignores me as a result. I dress in a way that exentuates my tatas and my legs. I've always had thigh gap - and I've never worked out. And, I do have a post-baby tummy, thus my size 4.

I am not trying to brag or say I'm better. But, believe me, PP, your DH cranes his neck to see me when you are out and about as a couple.

My DH and I went to dinner the other week. I was giving him my full attnetion, but noticed he was not to me. So, I scoped the area, and had eye contact with all 4 guys at one table. Funny thing, their SOs were the ones facing me. These guys were turning around to check out me. I was the only blonde, large-tits, blue-eyes in the place. So, I am sure that helped. But, they did this all night long - about 1 - 1.5 hours that I was there.

SO, guess what, PP. I am hotter and sexier than you may decide to dine at your table next table. You should be nicer.[/quote]

And I guarantee you're not.  I'm 25, a size 2, taller than you, and I get told I look like Isla Fisher and Amy Adams.  Objectively, by any standards, a hell of a lot hotter than fucking Tamra Barney and Sarah Jessica Parker (who- by the way- is famously ugly- maybe people were trying to insult you when they compared you two?  Sorry :( )[/quote]

You both sound gorgeous and confident. If your partners are unresponsive and withholding, it hurts. Period. It's all the more frustrating and brutal because you see the attention you get from other men. I can completely understand how awful this must be. I've been appreciated by lovers and partners, while nowhere near your objective (socially-constructed, normative) hotness. I cannot imagine how...what a gut punch it must be to have the man you chose to build a life with shut down on the intimacy of your marriage. How about we agree on that?

Sharing pain should never result in more pain being piled on. Come on!

My XH enjoyed our sex life, but never valued me as a partner. I remember looking around the room and seeing other couples. It hurt to see "difficult" women being catered to by their husbands in light of my own husband's disregard for me. I was a "good wife" to him. In his eyes, I always fell short. I hope I am afforded the empathy I'm due since this is a site for (when it is at its best) information and support. I certainly hope that each of you two PPs can get past whatever it is that has you snapping at each other and see the pain of the situation. Hot or decidedly not hot, the pain a woman (any person!) feels when left alone in a marriage should be respected. Can we please move on from this?
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