Naked Photos on DH's phone...WWYD??

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Anonymous wrote:Copyright and breach of privacy come to mind.

I'll add it's kind of similar to leaving you a private voicemail or sending you a private written letter. My intent wasn't for China to hear/see it.

So if I send Aunt Bea a picture of my son in his baseball uniform and Aunt Bea forwards it to her friend and says - "Look how cute Zach is!" - I could sue Aunt Bea for Copyright and breach of privacy? Really?

Or does this Copyright/Breach of privacy just apply when Sexy Suzie sends Hot Howie a nude selfie and Hot Howie forwards the selfie to impress his wingman Dumb Dave?

You can pretty much sue for anything. To actually prevail you would have to prove damages. Obviously, it would be much harder for you to prove damages from
Zach, and Sexy Suzie would have a much easier time proving damages (lost her job, can't find job as direct consequence of Hot Howie forwarding pics etc...)

Suppose Hot Howie only forwarded the pics to Beavis and Butthead and Dumb Dave who will just gawk at them and tell Howie to send more. Maybe Howie also showed a few mutual friends who also knew Suzie socially but had no business dealings with her at all. Suzie would be mortified to know that these people had been gawking at her, but beyond embarrassment/humiliation...what are her damages?

This can go back and forth with endless possibilities to whatever scenario you pitch. Maybe Suzie is now clinically depressed, and has hefty therapy bills not covered by insurance. She's so mortified she can't go to work, and loses her home.

So never mind that it's Suzie's personal responsibility for taking the picture in the first place and sending the picture to Howie. Once received it becomes Howie's responsibility to safeguard the pic and never let another sole see it.....? Maybe Howie is troubled that some chic sent him nudies of herself...

Trust me, I don't agree with what Howie did in sharing those pictures - it was a jerk move. But that doesn't mean that it was smart of Suzie to take those selfies and send them to another person like that.

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Anonymous wrote:Who cares if you can sue? If you don't want your picture distributed, don't send it out. Period. Anyone who has dated in the past ten years knows this is a possibility and protects themselves accordingly. Or not.

I haven't dated in the past 10 years but I think that's good advice.

Go ahead and grab your burka. Great advice, but unrealistic. Most of us dating sext and assume privacy. Welcome to 2015.

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Anonymous wrote:Who cares if you can sue? If you don't want your picture distributed, don't send it out. Period. Anyone who has dated in the past ten years knows this is a possibility and protects themselves accordingly. Or not.

I haven't dated in the past 10 years but I think that's good advice.

Go ahead and grab your burka. Great advice, but unrealistic. Most of us dating sext and assume privacy. Welcome to 2015.

Just because everyone YOU date does this does not mean that everyone does this...I know that I sure as hell wouldn't.

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Anonymous wrote:Who cares if you can sue? If you don't want your picture distributed, don't send it out. Period. Anyone who has dated in the past ten years knows this is a possibility and protects themselves accordingly. Or not.

I haven't dated in the past 10 years but I think that's good advice.

Go ahead and grab your burka. Great advice, but unrealistic. Most of us dating sext and assume privacy. Welcome to 2015.

You assume privacy with your non-exclusive f-buddy? Good luck with that.

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Anonymous wrote:Who cares if you can sue? If you don't want your picture distributed, don't send it out. Period. Anyone who has dated in the past ten years knows this is a possibility and protects themselves accordingly. Or not.

I haven't dated in the past 10 years but I think that's good advice.

Go ahead and grab your burka. Great advice, but unrealistic. Most of us dating sext and assume privacy. Welcome to 2015.

This is depressing. I am a PP and the landscape of current 'dating' is just awful to me. Some people have personal respect and standards that don't involve pictures of private parts, or anything else very private. I don't know who breeds these people that cannot recognize/ respect privacy.

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Anonymous wrote:I am a happily married woman in my 40s and one of my besties is back in the dating game after a divorce.

Men she is dating will send her their "c**k" pics, and she will send it to me asking "what do you think?"

I will then make some suitably inappropriate remark and we will laugh about it.

I do not find OP's husband sketchy in anyway. He is not trying to hide anything, nor he is the one who is getting these pics sent to him by females.

I like you

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Anonymous wrote:Who cares if you can sue? If you don't want your picture distributed, don't send it out. Period. Anyone who has dated in the past ten years knows this is a possibility and protects themselves accordingly. Or not.

I haven't dated in the past 10 years but I think that's good advice.

Go ahead and grab your burka. Great advice, but unrealistic. Most of us dating sext and assume privacy. Welcome to 2015.

You assume privacy with your non-exclusive f-buddy? Good luck with that.

Yes, I would assume some level of privacy. If I go to a party and use the bathroom I assume that there are no hidden cameras filming me. If I go to bed with a guy I assume that he is not videotaping what we're doing without my knowledge and consent. I think that most people would agree that those assumptions are both quite reasonable.

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Anonymous wrote:Who cares if you can sue? If you don't want your picture distributed, don't send it out. Period. Anyone who has dated in the past ten years knows this is a possibility and protects themselves accordingly. Or not.

I haven't dated in the past 10 years but I think that's good advice.

Go ahead and grab your burka. Great advice, but unrealistic. Most of us dating sext and assume privacy. Welcome to 2015.

You assume privacy with your non-exclusive f-buddy? Good luck with that.

Yes, I would assume some level of privacy. If I go to a party and use the bathroom I assume that there are no hidden cameras filming me. If I go to bed with a guy I assume that he is not videotaping what we're doing without my knowledge and consent. I think that most people would agree that those assumptions are both quite reasonable.

We are talking about sending selfies, not being secretly taped.

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Anonymous wrote:Who cares if you can sue? If you don't want your picture distributed, don't send it out. Period. Anyone who has dated in the past ten years knows this is a possibility and protects themselves accordingly. Or not.

I haven't dated in the past 10 years but I think that's good advice.

Go ahead and grab your burka. Great advice, but unrealistic. Most of us dating sext and assume privacy. Welcome to 2015.

You assume privacy with your non-exclusive f-buddy? Good luck with that.

Yes, I would assume some level of privacy. If I go to a party and use the bathroom I assume that there are no hidden cameras filming me. If I go to bed with a guy I assume that he is not videotaping what we're doing without my knowledge and consent. I think that most people would agree that those assumptions are both quite reasonable.

We are talking about sending selfies, not being secretly taped.

Yes. I was just pointing out that we can and do - ALL of us - assume a certain level of privacy in various situations. However, taking a nude selfie and sending it to a guy that I'm having a casual thing with....no. I don't think I can ASSume that he won't show that pic to someone else.

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But that does not mean that the guy is not a jerk for sharing the pic w/o asking me first.

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Anonymous wrote:Who cares if you can sue? If you don't want your picture distributed, don't send it out. Period. Anyone who has dated in the past ten years knows this is a possibility and protects themselves accordingly. Or not.

I haven't dated in the past 10 years but I think that's good advice.

Go ahead and grab your burka. Great advice, but unrealistic. Most of us dating sext and assume privacy. Welcome to 2015.

You assume privacy with your non-exclusive f-buddy? Good luck with that.

Yes, I would assume some level of privacy. If I go to a party and use the bathroom I assume that there are no hidden cameras filming me. If I go to bed with a guy I assume that he is not videotaping what we're doing without my knowledge and consent. I think that most people would agree that those assumptions are both quite reasonable.

We are talking about sending selfies, not being secretly taped.

Yes. I was just pointing out that we can and do - ALL of us - assume a certain level of privacy in various situations. However, taking a nude selfie and sending it to a guy that I'm having a casual thing with....no. I don't think I can ASSume that he won't show that pic to someone else.

Agreed.

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Anonymous wrote:But that does not mean that the guy is not a jerk for sharing the pic w/o asking me first.

Agree with this too.

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Anonymous wrote:Who cares if you can sue? If you don't want your picture distributed, don't send it out. Period. Anyone who has dated in the past ten years knows this is a possibility and protects themselves accordingly. Or not.

I haven't dated in the past 10 years but I think that's good advice.

Go ahead and grab your burka. Great advice, but unrealistic. Most of us dating sext and assume privacy. Welcome to 2015.

You assume privacy with your non-exclusive f-buddy? Good luck with that.

Yes, I would assume some level of privacy. If I go to a party and use the bathroom I assume that there are no hidden cameras filming me. If I go to bed with a guy I assume that he is not videotaping what we're doing without my knowledge and consent. I think that most people would agree that those assumptions are both quite reasonable.

We are talking about sending selfies, not being secretly taped.

Yes. I was just pointing out that we can and do - ALL of us - assume a certain level of privacy in various situations. However, taking a nude selfie and sending it to a guy that I'm having a casual thing with....no. I don't think I can ASSume that he won't show that pic to someone else.

Agreed.

Who raised you?

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Really? Pretty sure if I polled those who send personal texts or pics, it's presumed private. Especially cunt pics.

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Anonymous wrote:Really? Pretty sure if I polled those who send personal texts or pics, it's presumed private. Especially cunt pics.

How does the receiver of a pic like that even know for a fact that the photographed body part actually belongs to the sender of the pic?