Naked Photos on DH's phone...WWYD??

[Anonymous]

Nothing to see here OP, move along...

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I'd be very bothered by him saying 'send more'... mostly because you can be reasonably certain that the woman did not consent to having her pic shared. That's a dick move on the friend's part. I'd be bothered if my DH didn't put the kibosh on that.

And 40 year old men have no business acting like sex-crazed teenagers. Grow the fuck up already.

Exactly.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I'd be very bothered by him saying 'send more'... mostly because you can be reasonably certain that the woman did not consent to having her pic shared. That's a dick move on the friend's part. I'd be bothered if my DH didn't put the kibosh on that.

And 40 year old men have no business acting like sex-crazed teenagers. Grow the fuck up already.

chill the fuck out already

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:If a woman doesn't want her picture shared she should take care not to send it, especially to someone who only rises to the fuck buddy category.

Who said she sent it? The guy probably took pics of her with his phone and she's clueless he's shopping them around.

That's actually less likely than her sending the risque shots herself. And unless the guy is her boyfriend (doesn't sound like it) or husband, she should know better. You can tell when a picture is a selfie vs taken of someone unawares. If you didn't date while cell phone cameras were prevalent you won't quite get this phenomenon (and I'm not saying that as a slam, it's just a thing).

She could be very well aware he took the pictures of her, but not aware that he's sharing them with God and country.

[Anonymous]

Uh, this would be a game changer for me. You need to talk.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:is your marriage strong? is your sex life good or better? if yes to both those questions, let it go.

men, even in their 40s, still behave like sex-crazed teenagers. you DH is just getting caught up in the hoopla around his current friend's fuck buddy.

your truly, a 40+ y.o man

Agreed. My husband would be showing me and commenting about whether he thought she was hot or not.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:is your marriage strong? is your sex life good or better? if yes to both those questions, let it go.

men, even in their 40s, still behave like sex-crazed teenagers. you DH is just getting caught up in the hoopla around his current friend's fuck buddy.

your truly, a 40+ y.o man

Agreed. My husband would be showing me and commenting about whether he thought she was hot or not.

Well aren't you cool?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:is your marriage strong? is your sex life good or better? if yes to both those questions, let it go.

men, even in their 40s, still behave like sex-crazed teenagers. you DH is just getting caught up in the hoopla around his current friend's fuck buddy.

your truly, a 40+ y.o man

Agreed. My husband would be showing me and commenting about whether he thought she was hot or not.

Well aren't you cool?

Cool? No. This just doesn't make my head spin. It's guys sharing shit. It happens.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:is your marriage strong? is your sex life good or better? if yes to both those questions, let it go.

men, even in their 40s, still behave like sex-crazed teenagers. you DH is just getting caught up in the hoopla around his current friend's fuck buddy.

your truly, a 40+ y.o man

Agreed. My husband would be showing me and commenting about whether he thought she was hot or not.

Well aren't you cool?

Both of you violating her privacy. Good for you pp.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I'd be very bothered by him saying 'send more'... mostly because you can be reasonably certain that the woman did not consent to having her pic shared. That's a dick move on the friend's part. I'd be bothered if my DH didn't put the kibosh on that.

And 40 year old men have no business acting like sex-crazed teenagers. Grow the fuck up already.

chill the fuck out already

You've got to be kidding. You're not so completely depraved that you don't see there's a serious problem with her husband's behavior, are you? This isn't a "chill" issue, it's a basic "humanity" issue.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:is your marriage strong? is your sex life good or better? if yes to both those questions, let it go.

men, even in their 40s, still behave like sex-crazed teenagers. you DH is just getting caught up in the hoopla around his current friend's fuck buddy.

your truly, a 40+ y.o man

Agreed. My husband would be showing me and commenting about whether he thought she was hot or not.

Well aren't you cool?

Cool? No. This just doesn't make my head spin. It's creeps sharing shit. It happens.

Fixed that for you. And by "creeps," of course, we're talking about the husbands, and the previous posters: the stupid "yours truly, a 40+ y.o. man" and the brainless wife, aka "my husband would be showing me."

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:is your marriage strong? is your sex life good or better? if yes to both those questions, let it go.

men, even in their 40s, still behave like sex-crazed teenagers. you DH is just getting caught up in the hoopla around his current friend's fuck buddy.

your truly, a 40+ y.o man

Agreed. My husband would be showing me and commenting about whether he thought she was hot or not.

Well aren't you cool?

Cool? No. This just doesn't make my head spin. It's creeps sharing shit. It happens.

Fixed that for you. And by "creeps," of course, we're talking about the husbands, and the previous posters: the stupid "yours truly, a 40+ y.o. man" and the brainless wife, aka "my husband would be showing me."

She sent the photo to him. Don't do that if you don't want it shared.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I'd be very bothered by him saying 'send more'... mostly because you can be reasonably certain that the woman did not consent to having her pic shared. That's a dick move on the friend's part. I'd be bothered if my DH didn't put the kibosh on that.

And 40 year old men have no business acting like sex-crazed teenagers. Grow the fuck up already.

chill the fuck out already

You've got to be kidding. You're not so completely depraved that you don't see there's a serious problem with her husband's behavior, are you? This isn't a "chill" issue, it's a basic "humanity" issue.

At least half the people in this thread think it's not something to make a stink over, so you're kind of calling half of humanity completely depraved.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:is your marriage strong? is your sex life good or better? if yes to both those questions, let it go.

men, even in their 40s, still behave like sex-crazed teenagers. you DH is just getting caught up in the hoopla around his current friend's fuck buddy.

your truly, a 40+ y.o man

Agreed. My husband would be showing me and commenting about whether he thought she was hot or not.

Well aren't you cool?

Cool? No. This just doesn't make my head spin. It's creeps sharing shit. It happens.

Fixed that for you. And by "creeps," of course, we're talking about the husbands, and the previous posters: the stupid "yours truly, a 40+ y.o. man" and the brainless wife, aka "my husband would be showing me."

She sent the photo to him. Don't do that if you don't want it shared.

Did op say she sent them to her DH? Maybe the friend took them of her while she was sleeping. And then we have pp who is bragging about how her husband would show her as well! Even if she did share them with the guy, that doesn't give him
consent to further share them. It's a violation of her privacy.

[Anonymous]

No.

Most likely the woman did not give consent to having her photo shared. Your husband is participating in voyeurism, which can be illegal.


And no, just because a woman gives a specific person consent to see a nude photo, doesn't mean she's given everyone and anyone that consent. Stop being gross, people.