What Men Think About Older Women

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Ah, men. (Men like the Op, I mean). Wrapping up your insecurity in veiled misogyny doesn't really heal the pain, does it? I know, vulnerability is scary. Don't worry, there's nothing wrong with being an older man, never married, no kids. My generation calls this a confirmed bachelor. It's okay. Women my age know your story within five minutes of talking to you. If we wanted to get married, we wouldn't date you.

Single older women must scare you. We have jobs, kids, our own income, our own friends, our own lives. We don't need you, and if we're with you it's because we want to be.

When I was 19, I could hardly get a date. Now that I'm past 40, I could sleep with a different man every night if I wanted to. I had two of them in one week recently. I've lost none of my sexual power. In fact, it seems I've gained quite a bit.

So, the Op's post really doesn't bother me at all. I can get laid every day of the month with a different person if I want. Can the Op say that? I could have sex within two hours of deciding I felt like it, with someone young, fun and full of...you know

Signed,
Woman in Her Sexual Prime

PS - If you see an older woman with a younger man, it's because his dick still works. Chew on that thought as you age...

Trust us, nobody believes you for a second.

[Anonymous]

Isn't it easy for women of any age to get sex anytime? I don't think its something worth bragging about as that's been the case since we all hit puberty. A 60yo woman can get sex anytime. Big effin deal.

I date younger and older guys who are within 5 years either way. Not for sex, dominance, money, etc but because I find them interesting.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Ah, men. (Men like the Op, I mean). Wrapping up your insecurity in veiled misogyny doesn't really heal the pain, does it? I know, vulnerability is scary. Don't worry, there's nothing wrong with being an older man, never married, no kids. My generation calls this a confirmed bachelor. It's okay. Women my age know your story within five minutes of talking to you. If we wanted to get married, we wouldn't date you.

Single older women must scare you. We have jobs, kids, our own income, our own friends, our own lives. We don't need you, and if we're with you it's because we want to be.

When I was 19, I could hardly get a date. Now that I'm past 40, I could sleep with a different man every night if I wanted to. I had two of them in one week recently. I've lost none of my sexual power. In fact, it seems I've gained quite a bit.

So, the Op's post really doesn't bother me at all. I can get laid every day of the month with a different person if I want. Can the Op say that? I could have sex within two hours of deciding I felt like it, with someone young, fun and full of...you know

Signed,
Woman in Her Sexual Prime

PS - If you see an older woman with a younger man, it's because his dick still works. Chew on that thought as you age...

Yes! Love this!

As much as men may resent the fact, women will NEVER lack for choice of partners. We will always have more than men. Sucks for the dudes, but great for us!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Post-divorce, I never dated/slept with a younger woman.

Wasn't interested.

These days, in my early 50's, I would be happy to find any woman to do either with me.

How quick things can go from feast to famine.

Are you aging well? As a 48 year old female, I'd love a guy in his early 50s who knew his way around the bedroom.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Ah, men. (Men like the Op, I mean). Wrapping up your insecurity in veiled misogyny doesn't really heal the pain, does it? I know, vulnerability is scary. Don't worry, there's nothing wrong with being an older man, never married, no kids. My generation calls this a confirmed bachelor. It's okay. Women my age know your story within five minutes of talking to you. If we wanted to get married, we wouldn't date you.

Single older women must scare you. We have jobs, kids, our own income, our own friends, our own lives. We don't need you, and if we're with you it's because we want to be.

When I was 19, I could hardly get a date. Now that I'm past 40, I could sleep with a different man every night if I wanted to. I had two of them in one week recently. I've lost none of my sexual power. In fact, it seems I've gained quite a bit.

So, the Op's post really doesn't bother me at all. I can get laid every day of the month with a different person if I want. Can the Op say that? I could have sex within two hours of deciding I felt like it, with someone young, fun and full of...you know

Signed,
Woman in Her Sexual Prime

PS - If you see an older woman with a younger man, it's because his dick still works. Chew on that thought as you age...

Trust us, nobody believes you for a second.

You sound fat and like you never once got the woman you wanted. Not once.

[Anonymous]

To 13:14, I'm 09:28: I have no idea how to respond to your question in a way that 1. won't make me sound full of myself, and/or 2. make me sound like a sad-sack loser.

Isn't all beauty/good looks in the eye of the beholder?

So, I'll just say that I'm glad there are women like you, who love the sort of guy you have described.

I just haven't met you yet.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Ah, men. (Men like the Op, I mean). Wrapping up your insecurity in veiled misogyny doesn't really heal the pain, does it? I know, vulnerability is scary. Don't worry, there's nothing wrong with being an older man, never married, no kids. My generation calls this a confirmed bachelor. It's okay. Women my age know your story within five minutes of talking to you. If we wanted to get married, we wouldn't date you.

Single older women must scare you. We have jobs, kids, our own income, our own friends, our own lives. We don't need you, and if we're with you it's because we want to be.

When I was 19, I could hardly get a date. Now that I'm past 40, I could sleep with a different man every night if I wanted to. I had two of them in one week recently. I've lost none of my sexual power. In fact, it seems I've gained quite a bit.

So, the Op's post really doesn't bother me at all. I can get laid every day of the month with a different person if I want. Can the Op say that? I could have sex within two hours of deciding I felt like it, with someone young, fun and full of...you know

Signed,
Woman in Her Sexual Prime

PS - If you see an older woman with a younger man, it's because his dick still works. Chew on that thought as you age...

Trust us, nobody believes you for a second.

You sound fat and like you never once got the woman you wanted. Not once.

Agreed.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Single older women must scare you. We have jobs, kids, our own income, our own friends, our own lives. We don't need you, and if we're with you it's because we want to be.

Excuse me? YOU'RE the ones banging down doors begging to get married.

You are obviously single and terrible at online dating or picking up women in person. You have no game, no success with women, and don't attract them on any level. So this is your dating equivalent, trolling on a mommy board. It's so pathetic. I genuinely feel sorry for you. I am wanted, loved, desired, married, and know I have a lot to offer as a friend, wife, mother and colleague, and even as a beautiful woman. I'm positive you can't make parallel claims.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Single older women must scare you. We have jobs, kids, our own income, our own friends, our own lives. We don't need you, and if we're with you it's because we want to be.

Excuse me? YOU'RE the ones banging down doors begging to get married.

You are obviously single and terrible at online dating or picking up women in person. You have no game, no success with women, and don't attract them on any level. So this is your dating equivalent, trolling on a mommy board. It's so pathetic. I genuinely feel sorry for you. I am wanted, loved, desired, married, and know I have a lot to offer as a friend, wife, mother and colleague, and even as a beautiful woman. I'm positive you can't make parallel claims.

x2

And he always comes around and trolls. It's genuinely sad.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:43 y.o. divorced guy here - dated "younger " and "older" women for the last 2 years and have found the "older" women are hands down so much sexier and hotter than the younger 30 year olds.

The confidence more mature women have is one attribute that I value highly. I have also found that older women are much more comfortable with their bodies and in general, are much more open to new things in the bedroom. They can actually have real conversations and if you are an intelligent, cosmopolitan guy, you can find so many more things with which you can connect with a woman - and you know that if you connect via brain, your cock can connect with her pussy.

as for women hitting their peak external attractiveness in their 20s, well, no doubt I love a finely toned ass in yoga pants but I find "older" women so much more physically attractive - and they know how to wear that sexiness and sensuality comfortably and confidently.

so thanks for your post - and leave the "older" women to guys like me.

...so women in their 30s -- often in the prime of their careers, jetting around the world and living their dream lives -- aren't able to 'connect' with an intelligent guy? Say wha? I think your data sample may be skewed here.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Single older women must scare you. We have jobs, kids, our own income, our own friends, our own lives. We don't need you, and if we're with you it's because we want to be.

Excuse me? YOU'RE the ones banging down doors begging to get married.

NP. I'm not looking to get married. Divorced, kid is grown, I'm 50, bf is 43. Together for five years and it gets better every year. But, marriage isn't in the cards. We'll do the appropriate paperwork in case of illness or death, because it's a very serious relationship, but why marry when all of our children are grown? I'm loving having my own space and so is he. Many older people never marry again, but certainly love again.

[Anonymous]

Dima wrote:Older women are fine as a young guy when you are striking out with people your own age.

I'm guessing that happens to you a lot. With people from all age groups.

[Anonymous]

Dima wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Dima wrote:Older women are fine as a young guy when you are striking out with people your own age.

I'm guessing that happens to you a lot. With people from all age groups.

Of course I used to strike out all the time when I was single and unmarried,its part of the dating game.No woman is valuable enough to care if she rejects you there's billions more.Its a simple numbers game probabilistically you are more likely to get laid with older women that doesn't make it a mathematical law just a greater chance of getting what you want as a young horny single guy on the make.Just like a freshly divorced guy in his 40's is easier to get to commit to you as a woman,life has taught him some rough lessons.

Keep telling yourself that. You sound like a very sad person who is very well acquainted with the feeling of being rejected... and it's obvious why....

[Anonymous]

Dima wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Dima wrote:Older women are fine as a young guy when you are striking out with people your own age.

I'm guessing that happens to you a lot. With people from all age groups.

Of course I used to strike out all the time when I was single and unmarried,its part of the dating game.No woman is valuable enough to care if she rejects you there's billions more.Its a simple numbers game probabilistically you are more likely to get laid with older women that doesn't make it a mathematical law just a greater chance of getting what you want as a young horny single guy on the make.Just like a freshly divorced guy in his 40's is easier to get to commit to you as a woman,life has taught him some rough lessons.

Holy lack of punctuation!

I do not understand the first post in the quoted part above. You realize that older women's confidence means they don't have to play the games of younger women, right? She can see what she wants, get it, and move on. Maybe that commonality is why some young men and older women find an equally beneficial arrangement.

[Anonymous]

I think most men are only good for one thing.