What Men Think About Older Women

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Dudes with big cocks don't write psycho-sexual books on a moms forum.

+1 nailed it. I sense some insecurity about their own age.

It's OK to have a mid-life crisis.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I'm always amazed at how older guys think that younger women are going to be attracted to them. Do they have a special mirror, in which they look like their 20 year old self?

Why would a hot 20 something want a saggy 40 something when she can have a naturally gorgeous 20 something guy? People will always look at you and assume she is dating your wallet or that you might be her dad.

At some point, you will need to actually talk to her and her friends. Thats where the wheels might fall off the bus...

I don't, but I have had much younger women interested. At 52 and single, a 30 year old...attractive, nice figure...great smile and personality...who came to my business from time to time...asked me to dinner. We talked for a bit...it was an interesting conversation...but I turned her down.

If a man is relatively attractive he doesn't have to be a hunk...just in tune with women. Women can sense when a man is genuine and their attractions are confidence, humor, successful...and that doesn't mean rich...and more...and...it's about how that man makes them feel. Oh, don't forget...they are much more forgiving of the physical flaws than men are.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:LOL. The 51 year old probably enjoys the common male delusion that he's attractive and can have his pick of the laydeeeees.

if he has money it's no delusion

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Omg! OP, you are a loser. I think you have a small dick.

I feel sorry for the women he dates!

[Anonymous]

Older women:

Infertile, unattractive, flabby, lots of emotional baggage.

NEXT!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I found the post odd, in that older women are described from a distance as if they are zoo animals, or another species entirely. Thankfully my DH isn't studying me and assessing my value at a remove. Very strange.

Yes, it's the tone that is strange - OP apparently thinks he's a prize and that he should just be able to pick and choose women as he pleases depending on whether they have the appropriate combination of qualities along with the potential for long-lasting good looks. Serious loser.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Older women:

Infertile, unattractive, flabby, lots of emotional baggage.

NEXT!

Talk about emotional baggage; anyone who would write this has baggage of their own, or are remarkably shallow.

Growing old is a privilege, not a personal failing; I imagine that you wish this for your daughter, or your mother -- to grow old.

[Anonymous]

I agree that the way a woman handles the aging process speaks volumes on how beautiful she truly is. Aging is a losing battle, no one wins here but Mother Time. To accept it vs. fighting it is the "normal" way to deal with it. Going from one extreme to the next is just going to showcase a woman's insecurities which totally goes against anything that would make her even a tad desirable to any man.

I do not necessarily agree that women's looks take a dip after a certain age. A perfect textbook example of this is to remember the nineties. Mariah Carey was absolutely beautiful while Jennifer Lopez was pretty at best. Twenty yrs later and Mariah has gained a lot of extra lbs. plus she has plumped up her cheeks or something. In a nutshell she has not aged well at all.

J Lo looks 50x better than she has ever looked. She could give all the girls in their 20's a huge run for their money.

Have you seen the Iggy Azalea/J Lo music video a few months back?? Smoking hot. And there is a twenty yrs age difference there. Yes,....J Lo could well have been Iggy's mother by numbers alone.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Omg! OP, you are a loser. I think you have a small dick.

Ditto. Signed - forty-something Mom who is hot, and has absolutely no interest in your immature ass. My husband is my age, he's hot, and that's all I need. Could any woman young or old honestly stand your pontificating. Oh, you're the expert, eh?

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[Anonymous]

Lol. This post is a joke.


At least it gave DCUMs resident MRA something to do for the evening, since we all know he doesn't seem to get out much...

[Anonymous]

Chris Hemsworth married a woman 7 year older than him. Armie Hammer married a woman 4 years older than him.
I know a lot of hot successful guys who married a woman a couple of years older than them.
I know 20 somethings who look like shit and i know 30 somethings who don't look a day older than mid 20s.
You can't generalize these things.

[Anonymous]

There's a gorgeous well-known musician (if a bit of a fading star) in a passionate affair with a woman twelve years his senior. She is more gorgeous than almost everyone.

It's stupid to generalize these kinds of things.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I spent about a year dating almost exclusively women older than myself. What follows are my observations from that time in my life. For the purpose of this post, by "older women" I do not mean old women or women of any certain age or age range; I mainly mean women who are older than the man in question.

Older women are easier to have sex with.
Older women are more confident and comfortable around men - especially younger men, since they know that their experience cancels out some of his natural power over her. This translates into sexual openness. Some men know that older women are easier to nail, which is often why they pursue them. Older women should be cynical about younger men who claim they want to date seriously, or remain silent about commitment.

Older women are not as physically attractive as younger women.
This is obvious. Women peak somewhere in their twenties for external attractiveness. All honest men acknowledge this, as do most women. In general, men disagree about the age at which women "peak" - partially because it varies depending on the woman and partially because guys have different taste. But I think it also has to do with the difficulty that a men have distinguishing between external and internal attractiveness; often the latter is confused for the former.

Older women are still pretty hot. A woman's attractiveness doesn't take a swan dive after 30. It tapers out slowly and often quite gracefully - far more slowly than it arises in a girl's late teens. The rate of the decline is obviously affected by her genetics and lifestyle, but it is also largely a function of how willing she is to accept that decline gracefully. I think the women who become ugliest due to age are the ones that recognize they are getting older, wrongly assume that they are no longer beautiful, and therefore stop their gym membership, cut their hair short and give up. Some women go instead to the opposite extreme, getting plastic surgery or increasing their make up until they over-compensate. Neither of these is the appropriate or confident response to the onset of aging (in the same way that wearing a toupee is a poor response to the onset of male baldness, for example). An acceptance of reality is the best response, and the reality is not nearly as bad as so many women believe. Although most men of course prefer the looks or bodies of women in their twenties, we would still love to fuck those same women well into their forties - assuming they take care of themselves.

Guys interested in long term relationships will not consider older women seriously.
On a few occasions I was dating women who were older by six to ten years, and really enjoyed their beauty and company. However, when it came time to cut it off or have a relationship, I cut it off. Reconsidering my motivations for those decisions now, I recognize one that dominated the others: despite my attraction for those women at the time, I didn't want to look around myself ten years later and see a hotter, younger girl - closer to my own age - and think "I could have been with a girl like that instead." When my wife starts aging, I want the other girls I could have had (i.e. those in my age-range) to be aging with her, so that I won't be constantly reminded of the sacrifice I made to be with her - even if it was one I know was worth it. The grass is already always greener on the other side, and a man doesn't need an age disparity contributing to that effect when his woman starts losing her initial shine.

Older women are more internally attractive than younger women.
Older women have miles more personality than younger women. Since the time when I dated older women (a couple years ago now), I've found one, maybe two girls younger than me that I was attracted to and able to connect with - out of all the women I've encountered or even dated. Older women are simply more interesting to be around. This is because of the natural accumulation of experiences over time. Older women are more confident than younger women, because they know themselves and the world better. Their words carry more weight because they have experienced what they are talking about. They are comfortable in their own skin. They are relaxed in social settings. Perhaps most importantly, they are not afraid of men, so their inhibitions in a man's presence are less severe. All of this allows for an openness that makes a date or casual interaction much more enjoyable.

Some of the PP sound defensive and jealous. I thought the OP wrote his opinions in a balanced and fair way. To me, he was very complimentary to older women. After thinking carefully about what he wrote, I agree with most of it.

[Anonymous]

I am 50 and was with a 33 year old guy last weekend. 'Nuff said.