What Men Think About Older Women

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:43 y.o. divorced guy here - dated "younger " and "older" women for the last 2 years and have found the "older" women are hands down so much sexier and hotter than the younger 30 year olds.

The confidence more mature women have is one attribute that I value highly. I have also found that older women are much more comfortable with their bodies and in general, are much more open to new things in the bedroom. They can actually have real conversations and if you are an intelligent, cosmopolitan guy, you can find so many more things with which you can connect with a woman - and you know that if you connect via brain, your cock can connect with her pussy.

as for women hitting their peak external attractiveness in their 20s, well, no doubt I love a finely toned ass in yoga pants but I find "older" women so much more physically attractive - and they know how to wear that sexiness and sensuality comfortably and confidently.

so thanks for your post - and leave the "older" women to guys like me.

I do not understand the vitriol and bitterness. The OP was complimentary to older women, and IMO dead on.

I have been involved with a woman is 12 years older than for 2 years now. Obviously her physical attractiveness is not the same as it was when she was younger (she is 63) or that of younger women. But I think she is beautiful and she works hard to keep fit. She is very open sexually and enjoys it very much. Internally she is gorgeous and I love talking with her and spending time with her. However, I would not marry her or have a serious commitment for the same reasons as elucidated by the OP. I think woman I am with understands this deep down.

Wait . . . dude, you are are FIFTY-ONE! Who are you waiting around for? You are pretty much too old to have kids yourself (never mind increased autism risks, but you'd be in your seventies by the time any future kids graduated from high school, which is so not optimal for you or them).

[Anonymous]

LOL. The 51 year old probably enjoys the common male delusion that he's attractive and can have his pick of the laydeeeees.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Why do I feel like OP is....not that physically attractive himself?

I just think he's emotionally missed up.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:43 y.o. divorced guy here - dated "younger " and "older" women for the last 2 years and have found the "older" women are hands down so much sexier and hotter than the younger 30 year olds.

The confidence more mature women have is one attribute that I value highly. I have also found that older women are much more comfortable with their bodies and in general, are much more open to new things in the bedroom. They can actually have real conversations and if you are an intelligent, cosmopolitan guy, you can find so many more things with which you can connect with a woman - and you know that if you connect via brain, your cock can connect with her pussy.

as for women hitting their peak external attractiveness in their 20s, well, no doubt I love a finely toned ass in yoga pants but I find "older" women so much more physically attractive - and they know how to wear that sexiness and sensuality comfortably and confidently.

so thanks for your post - and leave the "older" women to guys like me.

I do not understand the vitriol and bitterness. The OP was complimentary to older women, and IMO dead on.

I have been involved with a woman is 12 years older than for 2 years now. Obviously her physical attractiveness is not the same as it was when she was younger (she is 63) or that of younger women. But I think she is beautiful and she works hard to keep fit. She is very open sexually and enjoys it very much. Internally she is gorgeous and I love talking with her and spending time with her. However, I would not marry her or have a serious commitment for the same reasons as elucidated by the OP. I think woman I am with understands this deep down.

I'm sorry, but if you love talking, spending time and having sex with this woman, why wouldn't you commit? You're not a young man anymore. The both of you men were complimentary until the whole commitment thing. How do you think these women will feel when you dump them after years together? You're users.

I'm 49, my SO is 42, we've been together for five years and our commitment is for life. He's happy to have an intelligent, sexual older lady and isn't so shallow to want a younger lady long term. I suppose I just got lucky.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:43 y.o. divorced guy here - dated "younger " and "older" women for the last 2 years and have found the "older" women are hands down so much sexier and hotter than the younger 30 year olds.

The confidence more mature women have is one attribute that I value highly. I have also found that older women are much more comfortable with their bodies and in general, are much more open to new things in the bedroom. They can actually have real conversations and if you are an intelligent, cosmopolitan guy, you can find so many more things with which you can connect with a woman - and you know that if you connect via brain, your cock can connect with her pussy.

as for women hitting their peak external attractiveness in their 20s, well, no doubt I love a finely toned ass in yoga pants but I find "older" women so much more physically attractive - and they know how to wear that sexiness and sensuality comfortably and confidently.

so thanks for your post - and leave the "older" women to guys like me.

I do not understand the vitriol and bitterness. The OP was complimentary to older women, and IMO dead on.

I have been involved with a woman is 12 years older than for 2 years now. Obviously her physical attractiveness is not the same as it was when she was younger (she is 63) or that of younger women. But I think she is beautiful and she works hard to keep fit. She is very open sexually and enjoys it very much. Internally she is gorgeous and I love talking with her and spending time with her. However, I would not marry her or have a serious commitment for the same reasons as elucidated by the OP. I think woman I am with understands this deep down.

I'm sorry, but if you love talking, spending time and having sex with this woman, why wouldn't you commit? You're not a young man anymore. The both of you men were complimentary until the whole commitment thing. How do you think these women will feel when you dump them after years together? You're users.

I'm 49, my SO is 42, we've been together for five years and our commitment is for life. He's happy to have an intelligent, sexual older lady and isn't so shallow to want a younger lady long term. I suppose I just got lucky.

You know, I think you are right. I will not continue the relationship and let her find someone else. It is not fair to her.

[Anonymous]

Hot older women are just laughing at you losers.

41 years old

[Anonymous]

40 years old.

[Anonymous]

39 years old

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:
39 years old

[Anonymous]

And all those women looked better at 25. -A hetero man

[Anonymous]

Those women are hot young things to me!! LOL

[Anonymous]

All those women are not going to date you, hon.

[Anonymous]

I'm always amazed at how older guys think that younger women are going to be attracted to them. Do they have a special mirror, in which they look like their 20 year old self?

Why would a hot 20 something want a saggy 40 something when she can have a naturally gorgeous 20 something guy? People will always look at you and assume she is dating your wallet or that you might be her dad.

At some point, you will need to actually talk to her and her friends. Thats where the wheels might fall off the bus...

[Anonymous]

I found the post odd, in that older women are described from a distance as if they are zoo animals, or another species entirely. Thankfully my DH isn't studying me and assessing my value at a remove. Very strange.

[Anonymous]

Dudes with big cocks don't write psycho-sexual books on a moms forum.