What Men Think About Older Women

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:43 y.o. divorced guy here - dated "younger " and "older" women for the last 2 years and have found the "older" women are hands down so much sexier and hotter than the younger 30 year olds.

The confidence more mature women have is one attribute that I value highly. I have also found that older women are much more comfortable with their bodies and in general, are much more open to new things in the bedroom. They can actually have real conversations and if you are an intelligent, cosmopolitan guy, you can find so many more things with which you can connect with a woman - and you know that if you connect via brain, your cock can connect with her pussy.

as for women hitting their peak external attractiveness in their 20s, well, no doubt I love a finely toned ass in yoga pants but I find "older" women so much more physically attractive - and they know how to wear that sexiness and sensuality comfortably and confidently.

so thanks for your post - and leave the "older" women to guys like me.

I do not understand the vitriol and bitterness. The OP was complimentary to older women, and IMO dead on.

I have been involved with a woman is 12 years older than for 2 years now. Obviously her physical attractiveness is not the same as it was when she was younger (she is 63) or that of younger women. But I think she is beautiful and she works hard to keep fit. She is very open sexually and enjoys it very much. Internally she is gorgeous and I love talking with her and spending time with her. However, I would not marry her or have a serious commitment for the same reasons as elucidated by the OP. I think woman I am with understands this deep down.

Agree with above and OP 1000%

[Anonymous]

As an older woman (forties) here is my perspective.

One, yes, I am more confident than when I was younger. I also get a lot more attention from men now than when I was younger, probably due to the confidence.

Two, dating younger men might be fun, but I've never tried it. I have yet to meet a younger guy who held my interest. They're cute and sweet but they seem like kids.

If I did date a younger guy I would not consider it to be leading to marriage, especially if he didn't already have children. In fact, that's one reason I avoid younger men on dating sites, because I feel like they are looking ultimately for someone to marry and have kids with, and I don't want to take up their eligible years when I don't have that same goal.

I've done the marriage thing, I have my kids and I like my single life. If I were to remarry it would be with someone in my age range. Younger guys are out for the reasons stated, and older guys would move into their frail years while I'm still active.

[Anonymous]

My 43 year old bride blows away the 25 year old version of herself when we were dating. Body, face, sexiness I would not even look twice at that "girl" from all those years ago with this current one on my arm. I workout, eat right and do anything I can to keep up. Crazy thing is i see no cracks in the armor either should look this way in her 50s

[Anonymous]

So basically when youreder, men don't want to date you seriously because you can't bear children?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Omg! OP, you are a loser. I think you have a small dick.

Well then, we know what you thinkyou know about me... But based on your response we all know one thing about you: you lack elementary debating skills. No substance to your reply. All personal attack. Try taking down my arguments in the post. You resort to food fight language.

NP

Talking down your arguments? You related your personal experiences as well as your opinions based on same. You are entitled to your opinion within your own experience based on your ability to understand. Said ability, IMHO, being limited due to your apparent, and considerable, immaturity.

As for me...the size of your central appendage is of no import and impossible to speculate on based on what you related. However, your words do reveal a small mind, condescending attitude and a fair amount of narcissism.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Omg! OP, you are a loser. I think you have a small dick.

Well then, we know what you thinkyou know about me... But based on your response we all know one thing about you: you lack elementary debating skills. No substance to your reply. All personal attack. Try taking down my arguments in the post. You resort to food fight language.

NP

Talking down your arguments? You related your personal experiences as well as your opinions based on same. You are entitled to your opinion within your own experience based on your ability to understand. Said ability, IMHO, being limited due to your apparent, and considerable, immaturity.

As for me...the size of your central appendage is of no import and impossible to speculate on based on what you related. However, your words do reveal a small mind, condescending attitude and a fair amount of narcissism.

That will be $175. You're welcome

-therapist

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Hugh Jackman is hotter, sexier, and smarter than you. His wife is also 59, and he is 46. So there!

I hope the hotter younger wife you eventually marry never gets ill or loses her looks.

What happened? Are you regretting cutting off contact with a hot older woman?

Beard arrangement.

[Anonymous]

How old is "older"?

[Anonymous]

In a nutshell, youth and physical attractiveness matter more than anything to this kind of guy. He appreciates the other qualities, but he's stating his deal breaker in becoming serious/committed. This kind of man shouldn't marry at all, since committing to one person for life means being able to stick with them when they get older and lose physical attractiveness. If you marry a woman and then dump her when she gets older and loses physical attractiveness, you've really screwed her over, since most people marry with a lifetime commitment in mind.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:In a nutshell, youth and physical attractiveness matter more than anything to this kind of guy. He appreciates the other qualities, but he's stating his deal breaker in becoming serious/committed. This kind of man shouldn't marry at all, since committing to one person for life means being able to stick with them when they get older and lose physical attractiveness. If you marry a woman and then dump her when she gets older and loses physical attractiveness, you've really screwed her over, since most people marry with a lifetime commitment in mind.

Lesson learned don't let yourself go

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:In a nutshell, youth and physical attractiveness matter more than anything to this kind of guy. He appreciates the other qualities, but he's stating his deal breaker in becoming serious/committed. This kind of man shouldn't marry at all, since committing to one person for life means being able to stick with them when they get older and lose physical attractiveness. If you marry a woman and then dump her when she gets older and loses physical attractiveness, you've really screwed her over, since most people marry with a lifetime commitment in mind.

+1 unfortunately, if this kind of shallow narcissist does manage to convince someone to marry, they will likely be cheated on in a serial cheating manner which also screws her over (not literally).

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:In a nutshell, youth and physical attractiveness matter more than anything to this kind of guy. He appreciates the other qualities, but he's stating his deal breaker in becoming serious/committed. This kind of man shouldn't marry at all, since committing to one person for life means being able to stick with them when they get older and lose physical attractiveness. If you marry a woman and then dump her when she gets older and loses physical attractiveness, you've really screwed her over, since most people marry with a lifetime commitment in mind.

Lesson learned don't let yourself go

Lesson learned don't marry a complete douchebag.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:In a nutshell, youth and physical attractiveness matter more than anything to this kind of guy. He appreciates the other qualities, but he's stating his deal breaker in becoming serious/committed. This kind of man shouldn't marry at all, since committing to one person for life means being able to stick with them when they get older and lose physical attractiveness. If you marry a woman and then dump her when she gets older and loses physical attractiveness, you've really screwed her over, since most people marry with a lifetime commitment in mind.

Lesson learned don't let yourself go

Lesson to be learned: you can't stay young forever. Let go of that.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:In a nutshell, youth and physical attractiveness matter more than anything to this kind of guy. He appreciates the other qualities, but he's stating his deal breaker in becoming serious/committed. This kind of man shouldn't marry at all, since committing to one person for life means being able to stick with them when they get older and lose physical attractiveness. If you marry a woman and then dump her when she gets older and loses physical attractiveness, you've really screwed her over, since most people marry with a lifetime commitment in mind.

Lesson learned don't let yourself go

Lesson to be learned: you can't stay young forever. Let go of that.

Tell that to the skirt chasers driving sports cars in my neighborhood. Mid-life hits everyone hard I suppose.

[Anonymous]

Why do I feel like OP is....not that physically attractive himself?