What Men Think About Older Women

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Ah, men. (Men like the Op, I mean). Wrapping up your insecurity in veiled misogyny doesn't really heal the pain, does it? I know, vulnerability is scary. Don't worry, there's nothing wrong with being an older man, never married, no kids. My generation calls this a confirmed bachelor. It's okay. Women my age know your story within five minutes of talking to you. If we wanted to get married, we wouldn't date you.

Single older women must scare you. We have jobs, kids, our own income, our own friends, our own lives. We don't need you, and if we're with you it's because we want to be.

When I was 19, I could hardly get a date. Now that I'm past 40, I could sleep with a different man every night if I wanted to. I had two of them in one week recently. I've lost none of my sexual power. In fact, it seems I've gained quite a bit.

So, the Op's post really doesn't bother me at all. I can get laid every day of the month with a different person if I want. Can the Op say that? I could have sex within two hours of deciding I felt like it, with someone young, fun and full of...you know

Signed,
Woman in Her Sexual Prime

PS - If you see an older woman with a younger man, it's because his dick still works. Chew on that thought as you age...

Trust us, nobody believes you for a second.

I know, and it drives me nuts. On the other hand, I can safely sell my memoirs as fiction with none the wiser.

[Anonymous]

Early 50-something divorced male here.

This thread has been a load of crap, clearly intended only to be provocative.

Via my online dating life (going on 13 years), I have not met a single woman, who has not had her own story of being inundated with e-mail come-ons from men (claiming to be) in their 20's.

I believe it.

Many men have the "older woman/cougar" fantasy.

So, now, we have a whole thread devoted to demeaning the "worth" of "older women?"

No, i don't think so.

And, to all you beautiful, vital, smart, sexual women of a "certain age," here I am, and I would love to hear from you (via the screen handle, which I'm not posting under; sarcasm).

Go ahead my younger compadrés, flame me with insults about being bald, fat, having no game, wishing I could land much younger women, and being impotent.

None of it is true, although I'll never sport your washboard abs.

[Anonymous]

Dima wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Dima wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Dima wrote:Older women are fine as a young guy when you are striking out with people your own age.

I'm guessing that happens to you a lot. With people from all age groups.

Of course I used to strike out all the time when I was single and unmarried,its part of the dating game.No woman is valuable enough to care if she rejects you there's billions more.Its a simple numbers game probabilistically you are more likely to get laid with older women that doesn't make it a mathematical law just a greater chance of getting what you want as a young horny single guy on the make.Just like a freshly divorced guy in his 40's is easier to get to commit to you as a woman,life has taught him some rough lessons.

Holy lack of punctuation!

I do not understand the first post in the quoted part above. You realize that older women's confidence means they don't have to play the games of younger women, right? She can see what she wants, get it, and move on. Maybe that commonality is why some young men and older women find an equally beneficial arrangement.

No her sexual market value is lower because men value youth and women value status embrace the brutal reality.

Spoken like someone who hasn't lived much in San Francisco.

[Anonymous]

Dima wrote:
No her sexual market value is lower because men value youth and women value status embrace the brutal reality.

BUT BUT BUT THIS IS FALSE! HOW DARE YOU SPREAD THIS LIE!

Sincerely,

DCUM harpies

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I think most men are only good for one thing.

Our wallets, right?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I think most men are only good for one thing.

Fine with me, as long as you leave afterward.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Early 50-something divorced male here.

This thread has been a load of crap, clearly intended only to be provocative.

Via my online dating life (going on 13 years), I have not met a single woman, who has not had her own story of being inundated with e-mail come-ons from men (claiming to be) in their 20's.

I believe it.

Many men have the "older woman/cougar" fantasy.

So, now, we have a whole thread devoted to demeaning the "worth" of "older women?"

No, i don't think so.

And, to all you beautiful, vital, smart, sexual women of a "certain age," here I am, and I would love to hear from you (via the screen handle, which I'm not posting under; sarcasm).

Go ahead my younger compadrés, flame me with insults about being bald, fat, having no game, wishing I could land much younger women, and being impotent.

None of it is true, although I'll never sport your washboard abs.

Women aren't attracted to desperate men, you were supposed to learn this years ago.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Ah, men. (Men like the Op, I mean). Wrapping up your insecurity in veiled misogyny doesn't really heal the pain, does it? I know, vulnerability is scary. Don't worry, there's nothing wrong with being an older man, never married, no kids. My generation calls this a confirmed bachelor. It's okay. Women my age know your story within five minutes of talking to you. If we wanted to get married, we wouldn't date you.

Single older women must scare you. We have jobs, kids, our own income, our own friends, our own lives. We don't need you, and if we're with you it's because we want to be.

When I was 19, I could hardly get a date. Now that I'm past 40, I could sleep with a different man every night if I wanted to. I had two of them in one week recently. I've lost none of my sexual power. In fact, it seems I've gained quite a bit.

So, the Op's post really doesn't bother me at all. I can get laid every day of the month with a different person if I want. Can the Op say that? I could have sex within two hours of deciding I felt like it, with someone young, fun and full of...you know

Signed,
Woman in Her Sexual Prime

PS - If you see an older woman with a younger man, it's because his dick still works. Chew on that thought as you age...

Yes! Love this!

As much as men may resent the fact, women will NEVER lack for choice of partners. We will always have more than men. Sucks for the dudes, but great for us!

By having the ability to easily have sex with older and younger women, I do not feel that I have a restriction in choice. I enjoy older women, and respect the men who could settle down with them. I could not because I fear the difference in attractiveness as we both get older. I do not feel this way with younger women (although I enjoy the sex with older women more.)

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:
As much as men may resent the fact, women will NEVER lack for choice of partners. We will always have more than men. Sucks for the dudes, but great for us!

Never? I'd take that bet. Your clock is ticking.

[Anonymous]

Women can be very arrogant about all this because cats.

[Anonymous]

Even studies show that women become invisible to men at a certain age, a man who could have a young attractive woman would always go for her it is a matter of biology and i say that as a woman. I don't get why some people try to deny the truth.

No younger guy with value would go for an older woman, it is just what it is, but it is the same for men too, the average middle aged man doesn't get much attention either if he isn't rich.

[Anonymous]

There is one very angry troll posting right now. Someone please pass me the popcorn

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Even studies show that women become invisible to men at a certain age, a man who could have a young attractive woman would always go for her it is a matter of biology and i say that as a woman. I don't get why some people try to deny the truth.

No younger guy with value would go for an older woman, it is just what it is, but it is the same for men too, the average middle aged man doesn't get much attention either if he isn't rich.

Or, once in a million, you meet someone who is so attractive to you mentally and physically, the age difference is irrelevant. This person understands and sees the beautiful younger ladies, but finds you irresistible and falls in love because you fit together so well. This man doesn't run with societal norms, has suffered incredible loss and sees the deeper reason for partnership and love. We honestly don't notice any age difference, tho as a divorced man in his 40's, he could be chasing young women.

Signed, older, plain but smart lady with a man 7 years younger.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Even studies show that women become invisible to men at a certain age, a man who could have a young attractive woman would always go for her it is a matter of biology and i say that as a woman. I don't get why some people try to deny the truth.

No younger guy with value would go for an older woman, it is just what it is, but it is the same for men too, the average middle aged man doesn't get much attention either if he isn't rich.

Or, once in a million, you meet someone who is so attractive to you mentally and physically, the age difference is irrelevant. This person understands and sees the beautiful younger ladies, but finds you irresistible and falls in love because you fit together so well. This man doesn't run with societal norms, has suffered incredible loss and sees the deeper reason for partnership and love. We honestly don't notice any age difference, tho as a divorced man in his 40's, he could be chasing young women.

Signed, older, plain but smart lady with a man 7 years younger.

Of course there is always the exception to the rule but most men are rather shallow. You sound like you found your soulmate but most people aren't that lucky.
And no need to bring the popcorn i'm not a troll, i'm a middle aged mom who looks fairly attractive for her age, at least i hope so. But i'm not delusional, if my hubby and i would divorce i couldn't compete with a woman in her 20s or in her 30s.

Why should a young man, and this thread was about younger men and older women, go for me when he could easily date a woman his own age or younger.
Like i said, it's the same with older man, why should a young woman go for an older man if it isn't for money, most people like to date in their own age range.
There are exceptions of course but these are exactly that; exceptions.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Even studies show that women become invisible to men at a certain age, a man who could have a young attractive woman would always go for her it is a matter of biology and i say that as a woman. I don't get why some people try to deny the truth.

No younger guy with value would go for an older woman, it is just what it is, but it is the same for men too, the average middle aged man doesn't get much attention either if he isn't rich.

Or, once in a million, you meet someone who is so attractive to you mentally and physically, the age difference is irrelevant. This person understands and sees the beautiful younger ladies, but finds you irresistible and falls in love because you fit together so well. This man doesn't run with societal norms, has suffered incredible loss and sees the deeper reason for partnership and love. We honestly don't notice any age difference, tho as a divorced man in his 40's, he could be chasing young women.

Signed, older, plain but smart lady with a man 7 years younger.

Even a broken clock is right twice a day.