| Imagine the title of this post "I hate the wife" posted by the other woman. I wonder what that would be like? |
| Would it be things like the wife saying " I'm sorry he couldn't divorce me when he wanted so you could move on with your new life. I didn't start out thinking i was going to ruin your relationship. I just got involved working, paying bills, parenting, chauffeuring kids, cleaning his dirty underwear, taking care of the house, cooking meals. And then there was the weight gain after pregnancy. One of our kids was autistic and I just couldn't hit the gym like I used to to keep up my sports illustrated swim suit model bod. Glad you were there for him. You really picked him up after all this pressure at home. I really wish you two the best. You deserve it." Love his ex wife. |
They are desperate and purposely don't ask any questions. I find it even more interesting that they start affairs with these men without being introduced to the man's friends, colleagues, and family. It just shows that they don't care about being valued. Any decent guy would introduce them to friends pretty early. He would have them to his home. He would Facebook friend them. Otherwise, they're just fuck buddies. And then the women express disbelief when they find out that they're married? It's really very sad. Destructive and self-destructive, and thus the anger on this thread by both sides. |
| I feel for you OP. The early days are the toughest. It will get better. |
| Hatred is never the answer. I think you should forgive your husband and the OW. Sometimes we suffer because of other people's choices. There is nothing we can do because we cannot control them or make them choose the right thing. We can only choose for ourselves. |
How many busy successful men have facebooks? OW here I have my own busy career. I don't have time to hang around his job meeting everyone. Many people in this area are implants. And I was at his other home. When I found out about the wife I cut it off with the married man. Until the wife came after my llivelihood. Now I'm fucking him and letting him pay my bills! |
Wow, I take it back, OW, you were the victim... Lied to, taken advantage of, poor dear. I had you completely misread. How could someone do that to you? |
It's just a phase. You've never been through this have you? |
It wasn't enough that you participated in destroying the marriage. Wife gets upsets and legitimately questions your reputation - I don't know how she became powerful enough to come after your livelihood. But instead of dealing with the wife, you take resources from the man, which are used to take care of the children, support his family ...... as part of your revenge ...... and take their father out of their lives too. I don't know what to say, except at this point it sounds very intentional. Weren't you the one crying "you never set out to hurt anyone."? Cheers. You sound like a gem. The. Human race is much better off with people such as yourself leading us to a higher spiritual state of being. Oh btw people are not implants. Teeth are implants. People who move to another area are transplants. Moron. |
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How did she come after your livelihood? Alienation of affection? |
Not PP but Jesus lady. Calm the eff down. |
She tried to get me fired from my job. The funny thing is I cut off all contact with him. I answered all of her questions for weeks. I figured she needed this because she said he wouldnt answer her questions. I was apologetic. I felt very badly at the time. I explained that I had no idea. I travel for work. I tried to move on and then boom she starts doing things... I am not going to go into specifics. When she went after my livelihood and started doing other things all bets were off. Fuck her and her feelings. |
Before you call someone a moron read what you wrote. Put the wine down Cunty Von Cuntington |
I don't blame you; what more did she want from you? It wasn't your fault and you tried to help her out. If she's too stupid to recognize that oh well. She's only hurting herself. |