I thought we were mutually exclusive

[Anonymous]

You are probably dating my ex. He had several FWB and exclusivity didn't stop his activities. Dump him and move on. If he can't keep his pants zipped in 8 weeks he certainly won't over 10 years.

[Anonymous]

Here's the view of her boyfriend:

We've been seeing each other 2-3 times a week for almost 2 months now, and she still doesn't want to sleep with me. Maybe she doesnt' like me, if it's been that long and she cant decide. Now it's 2am and I'm drunk, so I'll call up my FWB.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Here's the view of her boyfriend:

We've been seeing each other 2-3 times a week for almost 2 months now, and she still doesn't want to sleep with me. Maybe she doesnt' like me, if it's been that long and she cant decide. Now it's 2am and I'm drunk, so I'll call up my FWB.

Please. She discussed mutual exclusivity with him and he called her her BF. And apologized profusely for what he did, so he knew he was wrong.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Here's the view of her boyfriend:

We've been seeing each other 2-3 times a week for almost 2 months now, and she still doesn't want to sleep with me. Maybe she doesnt' like me, if it's been that long and she cant decide. Now it's 2am and I'm drunk, so I'll call up my FWB.

You left part of that out:

But I'll keep letting her give me BJs, and not tell her about the fact I'm going to call my FWB even though I've called her my girlfriend and told her I'm not seeing anyone else.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Here's the view of her boyfriend:

We've been seeing each other 2-3 times a week for almost 2 months now, and she still doesn't want to sleep with me. Maybe she doesnt' like me, if it's been that long and she cant decide. Now it's 2am and I'm drunk, so I'll call up my FWB.

You left part of that out:

But I'll keep letting her give me BJs, and not tell her about the fact I'm going to call my FWB even though I've called her my girlfriend and told her I'm not seeing anyone else.

Exactly.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Here's the view of her boyfriend:

We've been seeing each other 2-3 times a week for almost 2 months now, and she still doesn't want to sleep with me. Maybe she doesnt' like me, if it's been that long and she cant decide. Now it's 2am and I'm drunk, so I'll call up my FWB.

You left part of that out:

But I'll keep letting her give me BJs, and not tell her about the fact I'm going to call my FWB even though I've called her my girlfriend and told her I'm not seeing anyone else.

Exactly.

Yep. And in the meantime I'll also keep talking about how I want a serious, grown-up relationship. But I won't let her see former boyfriends with whom she's still friendly. And I'll badger her relentlessly and threaten her with "this is the last time I'll contact you" when she shows spine enough to stick up for herself.

OP - I think he's a barely closeted asshole and if you get out now you'll be saving yourself potentially years of heartache.