My man introduced me to a guy i was previously intimate with. Help!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Getting drunk and giving head to men you just met at a sporting event is now considered "intimate."

You have no morals and you are a bad person. You should feel ashamed of yourself. Being drunk is no excuse.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:You probably would not have done this if you had not been drinking.

I always love when people erroneously blame alcohol for their poor decision making.

I guess we should feel lucky that she didn't accuse them of sexual assault, which is, unfortunately, what a lot of women are doing now when that have drunken sexual encounters.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:
I guess we should feel lucky that she didn't accuse them of sexual assault, which is, unfortunately, what a lot of women are doing now when that have drunken sexual encounters.

Yeah, well it's harder to get away with that when you're blowing four guys publicly as opposed to one behind closed doors.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:
I guess we should feel lucky that she didn't accuse them of sexual assault, which is, unfortunately, what a lot of women are doing now when that have drunken sexual encounters.

Yeah, well it's harder to get away with that when you're blowing four guys publicly as opposed to one behind closed doors.

She could have claimed that she was coerced and overpowered by a group of predatory men because she was too drunk to resist. These sorts of accusations do happen. So, I give her credit for at least not blaming others for her sexual choices.*

That being said, I really don't feel like what she did is wrong. If "Ted" has a problem with it, then f*ck him. If she wants to blow some dudes, that's her prerogative.

* sorry for the digression, but I was just reading about how flimsy sexual assault allegations are a common problem on college campuses these days, where two people get drunk, have sex, and then male is expelled for "sexual misconduct." I think this has the unfortunate effect of making people take these allegations less seriously. It just happened to be on my mind.

http://reason.com/blog/2014/06/04/occidental-expels-student-for-rape-under

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:
She could have claimed that she was coerced and overpowered by a group of predatory men because she was too drunk to resist. These sorts of accusations do happen. So, I give her credit for at least not blaming others for her sexual choices.*

That being said, I really don't feel like what she did is wrong. If "Ted" has a problem with it, then f*ck him. If she wants to blow some dudes, that's her prerogative.

* sorry for the digression, but I was just reading about how flimsy sexual assault allegations are a common problem on college campuses these days, where two people get drunk, have sex, and then male is expelled for "sexual misconduct." I think this has the unfortunate effect of making people take these allegations less seriously. It just happened to be on my mind.

http://reason.com/blog/2014/06/04/occidental-expels-student-for-rape-under

While true, your post will not be well-received here.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:
I guess we should feel lucky that she didn't accuse them of sexual assault, which is, unfortunately, what a lot of women are doing now when that have drunken sexual encounters.

Yeah, well it's harder to get away with that when you're blowing four guys publicly as opposed to one behind closed doors.

She could have claimed that she was coerced and overpowered by a group of predatory men because she was too drunk to resist. These sorts of accusations do happen. So, I give her credit for at least not blaming others for her sexual choices.*

That being said, I really don't feel like what she did is wrong. If "Ted" has a problem with it, then f*ck him. If she wants to blow some dudes, that's her prerogative.

* sorry for the digression, but I was just reading about how flimsy sexual assault allegations are a common problem on college campuses these days, where two people get drunk, have sex, and then male is expelled for "sexual misconduct." I think this has the unfortunate effect of making people take these allegations less seriously. It just happened to be on my mind.

http://reason.com/blog/2014/06/04/occidental-expels-student-for-rape-under

is that she's given guys/exes bjs before or blowing a bunch of guys in one night, maybe in the same room, going back and forth between cocks. you know, what a whore would do. and the biggest question not asked/answered - did she swallow, back-to-back-to-back-to-back, each guy's cum? or was it a bukkake sort of thing?

[Anonymous]

Don't be an idiot. Keep your mouth shut (this time). No one will know it was you unless you tell them so.

[Anonymous]

I don't understand why other men actively demean people who liberally give oral sex. Shouldn't be celebrating people like the OP? Do you not like BJs?

[Anonymous]

I love giving a blow job, but it seems so sad to me how younger women do this casually, like shaking hands. These men don't give you any oral in return, right? I can only see doing it if you're getting it back.

How did the women's movement go so far backwards? This isn't sexual freedom, it's being made a fool of and letting yourself be used.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I don't understand why other men actively demean people who liberally give oral sex. Shouldn't be celebrating people like the OP? Do you not like BJs?

if OP can celebrate her past exploits then that changes everything, no? but she's the one with the hang up and wasn't entirely truthful with 'Ted'. I would assume any woman I'm sleeping with has had a past and in that past, she's fucked and sucked her exes. I would accept her past if she told me (and I've had exGFs with crazy pasts).

On the other hand, I don't assume she's been part of a BJ-train with a bunch of guys she just met that day. The sad truth is that women are very hypocritical towards men just as men are hypocritical towards women. so this is where we are.

[Anonymous]

I'm just amazed that men would brag about this sort of thing. What those men did is no different than what Op did - they are proud of that?

What if it was a group of 3 or 4 women getting oral from one guy - would they have bragging rights, too?

[Anonymous]

I really don't think ANY normal guy is going to want to marry a chick who gives BJ's to 3 well . . . .maaaybe 4 guys she JUST met. Call me crazy. Will he want to sleep with her, sure. But a walk down the aisle. Doubtful. Unless it's Hef.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I really don't think ANY normal guy is going to want to marry a chick who gives BJ's to 3 well . . . .maaaybe 4 guys she JUST met. Call me crazy. Will he want to sleep with her, sure. But a walk down the aisle. Doubtful. Unless it's Hef.

Agreed because (guy here) I'd assume she was incapable of long-term monogamy, esp. if she gets drunk at a girls' night out.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I don't understand why other men actively demean people who liberally give oral sex. Shouldn't be celebrating people like the OP? Do you not like BJs?

This woman would be celebrated if she would take responsibility for her behavior and just OWN IT. But she refuses.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I'm just amazed that men would brag about this sort of thing. What those men did is no different than what Op did - they are proud of that?

What if it was a group of 3 or 4 women getting oral from one guy - would they have bragging rights, too?

men bragging about wild sexual escapades - that surprises you???? to say the men in the cock ring were the same as OP, well no. they weren't blowing each other nor did they play the part of the cum dumster.

only a woman could answer if they (a) would want to be part of a pussy eating train (b) actually admit it and (c) brag about it.