My man introduced me to a guy i was previously intimate with. Help!

[Anonymous]

Guy here: if I were Ted and found out about it or if you told me about it, you'd be history.

It is not that I am a prude but I would not want a wife who had given a blow job to multiple men who she hardly knew whatever the circumstances.

And yes, men are hypocritical about this sort of thing. We don't expect women who don't have a past but we do expect women who have not blown multiple men who she hardly knows.

[Anonymous]

Most women would probably be pretty horrified to learn that their bf/husband had sat around in a circle with his buddies getting a group BJ. That could very easily be a deal breaker, too. So maybe there isn't as much of a double standard as one might think, kwim?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Guy here... Listen to me. Deny it to the death. Say they must have you mixed up with someone else. Actually convince yourself it didn't happen. There is absolutely no upside to admitting it. Once you hypnotize yourself it didn't happen you will feel much better.

I'm an old married woman, and I absolutely agree with this advice!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I'm just amazed that men would brag about this sort of thing. What those men did is no different than what Op did - they are proud of that?

What if it was a group of 3 or 4 women getting oral from one guy - would they have bragging rights, too?

men bragging about wild sexual escapades - that surprises you???? to say the men in the cock ring were the same as OP, well no. they weren't blowing each other nor did they play the part of the cum dumster.

only a woman could answer if they (a) would want to be part of a pussy eating train (b) actually admit it and (c) brag about it.

No No and Hell NO

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:
And yes, men are hypocritical about this sort of thing. We don't expect women who don't have a past but we do expect women who have not blown multiple men who she hardly knows.

There's nothing hypocritical about it. Sure, I'd date and have sex with such a woman, but I'd never marry her.

[Anonymous]

Know why I think the OP is a troll? I know all kinds of guys and 99% of them would not want a woman to give them a bj right after her mouth was sucking off another man.

[Anonymous]

Agree with 20:18 although I am a woman. And I would never want to be with a guy that participated in the kind of behavior that OP described. All of you that are screaming deny, deny, deny! Shame on you.

[Anonymous]

I don't know if OP is a troll but I totally believe this could have happened because I have been at a couple of parties where something on the same lines has happened.

And this were just regular parties where things became wild with booze flowing liberally.

[Anonymous]

"this" s/b "these"

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Guy here... Listen to me. Deny it to the death. Say they must have you mixed up with someone else. Actually convince yourself it didn't happen. There is absolutely no upside to admitting it. Once you hypnotize yourself it didn't happen you will feel much better.

I'm an old married woman, and I absolutely agree with this advice!

[Anonymous]

what kind of hoe bag gets drunk and decides to start sucking every dick with in 25 feet. I would consider this a warning and she is like an attack dpg with alcohol her trigger and dicks her target.

[Anonymous]

hehe - you wish bucko

[Anonymous]

OP, do you act like this often? What you did was way over the top, drunk or not, so i suspect you do or did this type of thing often. That said, you should tell Ted. Some guys won't care and others will think you are a ho. If he's a good match for you he'll stay. But let's be honest, this was not a one time thing

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:what kind of hoe bag gets drunk and decides to start sucking every dick with in 25 feet. I would consider this a warning and she is like an attack dpg with alcohol her trigger and dicks her target.

+1

[Anonymous]

i think this is why sexual histories should be honestly shared and people should get together primarily with others who have similar histories.

otherwise it just gets messy IMO