1st Grader - Multiple Kissing Incidents by Other Student

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Anonymous wrote:I'd have my daughter punch him very hard in the face and then run. The school will act swiftly then.

I was going to say this too, then changed my mind, but since you posted - I'm with you on this!

This is one example of why this country is becoming so trashy.

My comment is that mentioning involving the police is overkill and they aren't going to do anything in OP's situation. Don't start throwing around the idea of police involvement casually. Maybe CPS or the superintendent if you want more authority figures. The police are for addressing crimes.

I wouldn’t, this is a behavior problem not a crime. But I wouldn’t never tell a kid that young to use violence.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:We received a phone call from the principal and vice principal today. They moved the child to a different classroom, and are sending him to recess and with an aide and he will not be allowed to be in the same playground zone as our daughter or on the same side of the lunchroom.

They offered school psychological services to our daughter, to have the psychologist talk to her about her feelings, and how she did the right thing telling adults and it’s never okay for someone to kiss you or touch you when you say no.

It sounds like the boy’s parents are horrified. The school wouldn’t have been able to get a new placement so quickly without their support.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:The woke crowd probably thinks this is cute

Oh. You’re dumb. That’s sad.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:This is sick

Relax Gladys. They are in 1st grade, and he is autistic.

OP. I'm sorry this is happening to your child. Absolutely demand a safety plan from the school. It's their job to keep your child safe while in their care.

Parents like Relax Gladys are the ones whose sons turn out like the Alexander brothers.

Parents like you are the reason we have Trump in office. Incapable of reading. Incapable of sympathy. Calling a 6 year old autistic child sick is beoyod disgusting as are you. Now go back and read the rest of my post.

Yeah, yeah. Saw your fake sympathy.

Once again, eff off you insurafable fool. People like you are the worst.

“Insurafable?”

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:We received a phone call from the principal and vice principal today. They moved the child to a different classroom, and are sending him to recess and with an aide and he will not be allowed to be in the same playground zone as our daughter or on the same side of the lunchroom.

They offered school psychological services to our daughter, to have the psychologist talk to her about her feelings, and how she did the right thing telling adults and it’s never okay for someone to kiss you or touch you when you say no.

That is great. I think it is important that your daughter see that it was taken seriously and that the child was moved and she was protected.

So now he can harass girls in a different Gen Ed (because yes, you know it’s Gen Ed) classroom.

Ridiculous.

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Anonymous wrote:The other child absolutely needs to be moved to another classroom.

This will never happen. OP's child will be moved.

OP, you need to ask where the child's aide is in all of this. I assume s/he has a full time aide?

Did you read the update? The problematic child was moved, as he should have been.

No I didn’t fool

Sounds like you’re the “fool.” 🤷‍♀️

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I'd have my daughter punch him very hard in the face and then run. The school will act swiftly then.

I was going to say this too, then changed my mind, but since you posted - I'm with you on this!

This is one example of why this country is becoming so trashy.

My comment is that mentioning involving the police is overkill and they aren't going to do anything in OP's situation. Don't start throwing around the idea of police involvement casually. Maybe CPS or the superintendent if you want more authority figures. The police are for addressing crimes.

I wouldn’t, this is a behavior problem not a crime. But I wouldn’t never tell a kid that young to use violence.

Times definitely change. The exact same scenario described by OP was happening to me in first grade, except the boy was a 2nd grader and it was always recess. Teachers didn't do anything (or care). My father, a former boxer, finally taught me how to throw a good punch. One bloody nose later, he left me alone. (1975 or so)

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:autists have rights too

STFU with the “autists” nonsense. You sound like an imbecile.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I'd have my daughter punch him very hard in the face and then run. The school will act swiftly then.

I was going to say this too, then changed my mind, but since you posted - I'm with you on this!

This is one example of why this country is becoming so trashy.

My comment is that mentioning involving the police is overkill and they aren't going to do anything in OP's situation. Don't start throwing around the idea of police involvement casually. Maybe CPS or the superintendent if you want more authority figures. The police are for addressing crimes.

I wouldn’t, this is a behavior problem not a crime. But I wouldn’t never tell a kid that young to use violence.

Times definitely change. The exact same scenario described by OP was happening to me in first grade, except the boy was a 2nd grader and it was always recess. Teachers didn't do anything (or care). My father, a former boxer, finally taught me how to throw a good punch. One bloody nose later, he left me alone. (1975 or so)

Yes, times do change. My son was suspended from public middle school for saying "I'm gonna kill you" to a frenemy who was harassing him. He'd had a warning for some other mouthing off. So 2nd time "terroristic threat" and he got sent home. We also had to be interviewed by the counselor to fill out the threat protocol questionnaire.

My district is extremely conservative since we are geographically close to a famous high school shooting incident.

My son hated middle school.

[Anonymous]

Wow one crazy dolt resurrected this

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Ok this thread is out of control.

OP no, do not call the police. Do not signal to your child that this is the “same as rape.” Do talk to the school to make sure they understand how upset your child is. They won’t be able to tell you exactly what they are doing but you can ask for a safety plan for your child. I would also suggest that if this is happening in the classroom, that you ask for your child to be switched to a new class. Forget fairness etc, you want to separate them.

On the other side of this, I do know SN parents who don’t take this kind of thing (unwanted kissing/hugging) seriously and think it is even cute. So you are well within your rights to make a big deal of it so they get better supports.

And I know SN parents who DO take it incredibly seriously - please don’t lump us all together. The other kids’ parents may well BEGGING for more support for their kid or a more restrictive placement and getting the brush off.

Definitely report every time. To the principal’s boss. Demand a safety plan and if a classroom switch would help and your kid is on board, do that. It doesn’t solve the problem but it solves your problem.

There are a ton of parents who ask for a more restricted environment for their child… but the schools use LRE to limit money spent on the student.