1st Grader - Multiple Kissing Incidents by Other Student

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:This is sick

Relax Gladys. They are in 1st grade, and he is autistic.

OP. I'm sorry this is happening to your child. Absolutely demand a safety plan from the school. It's their job to keep your child safe while in their care.

Shame on you for telling someone to relax in this situation. His disability does not trump her (or any other child’s) ability to learn in a safe environment. Non-disabled students have rights too.

I didn't say it did, you idiot. If you only read the rest of my post.

Don’t backtrack you loser

Learn how to read, idiot!!!!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:This is sick

Relax Gladys. They are in 1st grade, and he is autistic.

OP. I'm sorry this is happening to your child. Absolutely demand a safety plan from the school. It's their job to keep your child safe while in their care.

Parents like Relax Gladys are the ones whose sons turn out like the Alexander brothers.

Parents like you are the reason we have Trump in office. Incapable of reading. Incapable of sympathy. Calling a 6 year old autistic child sick is beoyod disgusting as are you. Now go back and read the rest of my post.

Yeah, yeah. Saw your fake sympathy.

[Anonymous]

When you email, include each specific date, the school's response, etc. Be very specific and copy the principal, AP, and teacher. Ask for a meeting to discuss what the school will be doing to address this. Squeaky wheel and all that.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:This is sick

Relax Gladys. They are in 1st grade, and he is autistic.

OP. I'm sorry this is happening to your child. Absolutely demand a safety plan from the school. It's their job to keep your child safe while in their care.

Parents like Relax Gladys are the ones whose sons turn out like the Alexander brothers.

Parents like you are the reason we have Trump in office. Incapable of reading. Incapable of sympathy. Calling a 6 year old autistic child sick is beoyod disgusting as are you. Now go back and read the rest of my post.

Yeah, yeah. Saw your fake sympathy.

Once again, eff off you insurafable fool. People like you are the worst.

[Anonymous]

god, im sorry.
i'd be personally less worried about my kid's actual physical safety and more worried she would get the impression that it's okay when there is a lack of action

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:This is sick

Relax Gladys. They are in 1st grade, and he is autistic.

OP. I'm sorry this is happening to your child. Absolutely demand a safety plan from the school. It's their job to keep your child safe while in their care.

Parents like Relax Gladys are the ones whose sons turn out like the Alexander brothers.

Parents like you are the reason we have Trump in office. Incapable of reading. Incapable of sympathy. Calling a 6 year old autistic child sick is beoyod disgusting as are you. Now go back and read the rest of my post.

Yeah, yeah. Saw your fake sympathy.

Once again, eff off you insurafable fool. People like you are the worst.

learn how to spell neurotic nancy

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:This is sick

Relax Gladys. They are in 1st grade, and he is autistic.

OP. I'm sorry this is happening to your child. Absolutely demand a safety plan from the school. It's their job to keep your child safe while in their care.

Parents like Relax Gladys are the ones whose sons turn out like the Alexander brothers.

Parents like you are the reason we have Trump in office. Incapable of reading. Incapable of sympathy. Calling a 6 year old autistic child sick is beoyod disgusting as are you. Now go back and read the rest of my post.

Yeah, yeah. Saw your fake sympathy.

Once again, eff off you insurafable fool. People like you are the worst.

learn how to spell neurotic nancy

Oh, the irony!

[Anonymous]

The school is not going to do the least they can. That is so aggravating to hear. We are teachers because we want to help kids. It’s not a rewarding job otherwise.

The child with autism needs a 1:1 for recess along with pro social specific instruction about recess behavior. He also needs to be limited to a certain area of the playground and the other child can be assured she can play on the other side without being bothered.

The child with autism needs immediate consequences for his negative behavior so that he understands this is not allowed.

The girl should also be assigned to a playground supervising teacher to keep an eye on her and make her feel safe.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:The school is not going to do the least they can. That is so aggravating to hear. We are teachers because we want to help kids. It’s not a rewarding job otherwise.

The child with autism needs a 1:1 for recess along with pro social specific instruction about recess behavior. He also needs to be limited to a certain area of the playground and the other child can be assured she can play on the other side without being bothered.

The child with autism needs immediate consequences for his negative behavior so that he understands this is not allowed.

The girl should also be assigned to a playground supervising teacher to keep an eye on her and make her feel safe.

They absolutely WILL to the minimum on services that have a cost associated with them because they don't have an unlimited budget. And as far as I know teachers don't make the call about 1:1 aides or alternate placements (not saying this kids would need those kinds of supports under these facts).

[Anonymous]

The other child needs to be moved to a self-contained classroom.

[Anonymous]

Your child needs to learn self defense. Put her in a karate or jujitsu class.

[Anonymous]

Email the Teacher, principal, vice Principal and Counselor. Tell them that your daughter is very upset with the boy forcing himself on her. Insist that they provide a safety plan for your daughter.

They won’t tell you what they are doing with the other child. Teach your child to knee him in the groin. If he is forcing himself on her, not listening to no, not stopping when pushed away, then knee him in the groin.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Ok this thread is out of control.

OP no, do not call the police. Do not signal to your child that this is the “same as rape.” Do talk to the school to make sure they understand how upset your child is. They won’t be able to tell you exactly what they are doing but you can ask for a safety plan for your child. I would also suggest that if this is happening in the classroom, that you ask for your child to be switched to a new class. Forget fairness etc, you want to separate them.

On the other side of this, I do know SN parents who don’t take this kind of thing (unwanted kissing/hugging) seriously and think it is even cute. So you are well within your rights to make a big deal of it so they get better supports.

It is sexual harassment and it is physically forcing his affection on her. I don’t care that he is 6 or autistic, it is not acceptable and it should not be happening. Is it rape? No. Is it non-consensual physical touching. The young girl is being subjected to sexual harassment and the fact that it is 6 and autistic doesn’t change that fact.

This behavior isn’t acceptable and he should be removed from the class especially after the second attack. Autism might be an explanation but that doesn’t make it acceptable and it is needs to be addressed more then just a regular outburst in class.

[Anonymous]

We had that at the same age. The kid didn't understand but had a 1-1 para who should have been stopping it. We were stuck for the rest of the year and had to remove our child's IEP to get him out of that classroom (they put all IEP kids in one classroom per grade despite different needs and it being illegal).

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Email the Teacher, principal, vice Principal and Counselor. Tell them that your daughter is very upset with the boy forcing himself on her. Insist that they provide a safety plan for your daughter.

They won’t tell you what they are doing with the other child. Teach your child to knee him in the groin. If he is forcing himself on her, not listening to no, not stopping when pushed away, then knee him in the groin.

Problem is her child will get in trouble. My kid pushed another kid off him and he got sent to the office every day for a week (I didn't know till it was after the fact and I was pissed). I had no issue with my child protecting themselves after we complained repeatedly.