Weird moment with DIL

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Is OP really the DIL?

I wondered the same thing, since it's so clearly in favor of the DIL (and/or clueless)

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Plus OP hasn't been back to protest more. I think it's DIL and she's gleefully showing this to her DH as a rare DCUM consensus.

I hope she is.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Is OP really the DIL?

I wondered the same thing, since it's so clearly in favor of the DIL (and/or clueless)

+1
Plus OP hasn't been back to protest more. I think it's DIL and she's gleefully showing this to her DH as a rare DCUM consensus.

I hope she is.

Doubtful, this is typical “old rump” bad behavior.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Yeah, you ruined her afternoon. She had a busy day of work and volunteering, AND hosting. She probably left work early to finish up a chore or two and get something to eat in peace before the busy show weekend started. And then you’re there and she can’t even relax in her own home for one measly hour.

You’re beyond rude.

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Not sure why you didn't just divert to the TJs first instead of sitting in her driveway 2-hours early with your thumbs up your butt figuring something out with your single brain cell.

Agree with ALL of this.

What on earth does she need to greet you for OP, when she knows you’re the kind of people who will go ahead and let yourselves in two hours early using the garage code. You are completely in the wrong. Like seriously not hard to just stop at a coffee shop and pick at a scone or whatever until you can arrive at a more appropriate time. If anyone owes an apology, it is YOU, YOU, YOU.

[Anonymous]

So completely rude that you would just show up two hours early without even bothering to send a two second text to let them know.

[Anonymous]

^**AFTER YOU SAW HER DRIVE AWAY**

[Anonymous]

OP did you expect to hit two hours of traffic? Your drive was a few hours long. Why wouldn't you let your adult kids know you were arriving early??

[Anonymous]

OP, I am not sure how familiar you are with this site, but it is extraordinarily rare to have consensus

[Anonymous]

They gave you the garage code in case they were running late, not so you could arrive hours early and make yourself at home in their house.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP here, OK, I guess I’ll let it go. I don’t understand what would be so disruptive about guests they invited. But I guess it would have been unexpected. That being said, yes, we did enter with the code we were given. I mean, we were given the code in case we arrived before DS!

I can explain it very easily. You were not “invited”. Not at that time. Not the day before. Or the day after. Or at 9am that morning. You were invited to arrive between 4 and 430.

She was obviously shocked to see you and figuring out how she can get her code back from you without you being offended.

[Anonymous]

At the very least, expect the garage code to be changed.

At the most, which your rude and entitled, boorish, complaining, and lack of boundaries behavior deserves....I hope you enjoyed the musical. I doubt you will be invited again

Who do you think you are ma'am? You were rude and inappropriate and you are complaining.

[Anonymous]

As a MIL myself, I would have reached out to your son and DIL to let them know of your early arrival. I would have stopped somewhere for coffee and texted to see if there was anything I could pick up for the weekend. When you are given a time, respect it.

[Anonymous]

I think it’s very rude that you didn’t tell her you were early. Were you unable to text her?

[Anonymous]

“Old Rump” is now a certified DCUM Classic.

Go sit your Old Rump on the back porch, eat a piece of fruit, and leave my pristine kitchen in peace! Have some Boring Water. Use a Burgundy Washcloth to freshen your Old Rump and enjoy some Lightly Fried Tuna.

[Anonymous]

So instead of leaving at 1pm and arriving at 4 you say you “unexpectedly got on the road earlier”. That means you left at 11:30 to arrive at 2:30. How does one “unexpectedly” leave that early and not own up to it? Ridiculous to make it sound accidental on your part. Also, from the time you left GPS was telling you what time you’d arrive. I feel so sorry for you DIL who couldn’t even access her home for a few minutes on a very busy afternoon. Bet they never invite you to school events again.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:So instead of leaving at 1pm and arriving at 4 you say you “unexpectedly got on the road earlier”. That means you left at 11:30 to arrive at 2:30. How does one “unexpectedly” leave that early and not own up to it? Ridiculous to make it sound accidental on your part. Also, from the time you left GPS was telling you what time you’d arrive. I feel so sorry for you DIL who couldn’t even access her home for a few minutes on a very busy afternoon. Bet they never invite you to school events again.

Yeah I don’t get this either. The first thing she said was that she was supposed to get there on “Friday night”. There was no hurry since the real event was in Saturday night. But then she leaves before lunch time on Friday for a short trip there??

It sounds like she got the garage code and then decided that she could snoop for a couple of hours. It’s the only possible explanation for deliberately arriving so early without so much as a text when she already knew that nobody would be home.