I was a Corporate Bankruptcy lawyer and the running joke was that children who inherit daddy's company are the reason that Corp Bk lawyers have houses in the Hamptons. Second generation wealthy children are almost invariably fuc*-ups. |
Well, many third generation Asian kids are half Asian and half white so they are not perceived the same as immigrant Asian kids who are 100 percent Asian. |
+1. Top SLACs have tons of strivers and not just the Asian kids. |
this! yes! I am a first gen white kid doctor married to a formerly poor white doc, both went to ivies, met at a top med school, ie all strivers there. Many of our ivy and med classmates were the generational wealth type, and many were like us: none of them ever looked down on fellow smart kids. It is a particular subset of wealthy who do this: namely the non-smart entitled ones. Our kids' private has tons of generational wealth entitled people who get mad when others do better. Our first is at an ivy no hooks--different ivy than ours. Our second is at a non-ivy top10, third has yet to apply. They are just really smart kids who work hard and are lucky we can afford a top school we did not get to go to. The uber rich parents in the private all have average kids. The kids are not in the top classes and they seem unaware that other kids are much smarter than theirs until they are told theirs have no chance at UVA in state. Suddenly the world is unfair because of all the "try-hards" who are pushing their kids out and there is always some favoritsm they presume. One even asked us if we donated a lot to the high school to get them the top academic awards., or called in a favor at the ivy. Uh not our ivy we do not know anyone to call, and it is not the 80s. Our $ is all in 529s for college or goes to our favorite local charity. These people are really out of touch. They get so annoyed when their money does not buy them top grades and their kids have to settle for fancy non-elite privates like SMU and Elon. |
It’s a term often used by mediocre, talentless and jealous white people to justify their own incompetence and failure. It’s a mental illness.
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Most likely lazy too. |
You just proved that you can do some basic searches on the internet but you only looked at half the equation. Why not check HYPSM for the Asian count? All you managed to do is point out that the Asian striver crowd doesn't succeed at Brown and Dartmouth; they still applied because they are Ivies and that is what matters to so many. Regarding Williams; when you confuse the pre-professional boarding school kids with 'striver' you just demonstrate a lack of intellect. They aren't striving, they are just preparing for the jobs that they believe are theirs. Your community college education is failing you, pack it in and pick up your kids from violin parctice. |
To be fair, even Maryland and UVA have strivers because they didn’t get in |
Can’t look down on people unless you’re above them. |
+100 Post of the day I worked at Google for years and you are spot on. Sundar is the anthesis of striver. |
Wealthy are the families you want your student to go to school with because their dad is going to fund your startup. Or he started Boston consulting group and he’s going to get you a job. Nobody’s worried about rich people who have nice houses, nobody cares about them nobody’s trying to get invited to your house or your party or your country club. Big deal if you can’t get me anything why would a striver wanna hang out with you? |
This is quite the bit of fiction. |
Same with Sergey Brin, went to Maryland started Google |
Nobody’s getting denied from UVA and then having their parents call an Ivy League school to get in. Omg why do you guys make this stuff up? |
It’s not about looking down. It’s mental sickness. Wannabes have no problem pretending to be superior even though they actually suck. |