What is the purpose of "negging" someone?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Women "s--ttest" men due to evolution. In the caveman days, women needed a strong man to protect them. Women evolved to repeatedly test men to make sure the men were strong enough to offer sufficient protection. Because women haven't undergone selective pressure in millennia, these caveman habits persist. When a man "negs" a woman, he is communicating that he is strong. I will add that negging should be playful and not rude.

As a man, I remember the moment I learned that negging women worked and never looked back. I treated women poorly, and they rewarded me with more attention than ever before. If you want further proof, think of the women who ask, "Why are all men a--holes?" The answer, of course, it that women only notice the a--holes, not that all men exhibit such bad bheavior.

If you treat women poorly, and they reward you, you’re getting attention from unhealthy women. Good luck to your poor children if you’re an abuser who treats women poorly and you partnered up with a woman who puts up with it.

Flirting is a different thing, teasing should be playful and introduce humorous tension into the relationship, and it works both ways. Putting women (or men) down is NOT that.

The most charismatic men I’ve met don’t put anyone down.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I cannot with these new, made up, dumb words.

Is negging the same as "shook"? or "triggered"?

No, it's not.

HOWEVER:

I have noticed that many people use it interchangeably with "nagging", just as many people use "based" interchangeably with "biased." My theory is that the majority of people using these stupid terms truly don't know what they mean, but have really poor vocabularies and don't ever read: they don't realize they are using a new word at all because they never knew how to spell or use the word the new term resembles. It is exasperating. Thus, I also hate the new, made-up, dumb words.

But I also remain "shook" at how many teenagers don't understand that "legit" is derived from "legitimate", or that "cringe" was originally (and still is also) a verb, and that "cringeworthy" might be a more "legit" choice in formal writing than the (new, dumb, only really works informally) adjective "cringe." Don't even get me started on kids who try to write that Othello is jealous because he suspects Desdemona may be a "hoe" (a garden tool? Really, you don't mean "ho"?).

I will see myself out now.

I love you.

[Anonymous]

Purpose is to find women with low self esteem. It works on them. Use your own imagination why would one seek women like that.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I cannot with these new, made up, dumb words.

Oh this is not a new word. It's been going on since forever and the term negging has been around since the late 1990s. Evidenced by the fact that I know the term.

[Anonymous]

I think I’d immediately ask to be shown their magic tricks since no joke that’s part of this same “pickup artist” manifesto (thank you for reporting on it Caitlin Moran!). It cannot be taken seriously be women with self esteem which is why it works on those without it.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I cannot with these new, made up, dumb words.

It’s the stupid social media and gamer new fake words.
Good way to quickly ID an idiot.

[Anonymous]

If you’re a women and responding to this, congratulations! You have because successfully negged.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:If you’re a women and responding to this, congratulations! You have because successfully negged.

No, we are explaining how things actually work to women who may not have as much experience with healthy, respectful men.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Women "s--ttest" men due to evolution. In the caveman days, women needed a strong man to protect them. Women evolved to repeatedly test men to make sure the men were strong enough to offer sufficient protection. Because women haven't undergone selective pressure in millennia, these caveman habits persist. When a man "negs" a woman, he is communicating that he is strong. I will add that negging should be playful and not rude.

As a man, I remember the moment I learned that negging women worked and never looked back. I treated women poorly, and they rewarded me with more attention than ever before. If you want further proof, think of the women who ask, "Why are all men a--holes?" The answer, of course, it that women only notice the a--holes, not that all men exhibit such bad bheavior.

It's really sad that you can only get insecure needy women that you can manipulate. I'm not sure why you think this is a badge of honour.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Women "s--ttest" men due to evolution. In the caveman days, women needed a strong man to protect them. Women evolved to repeatedly test men to make sure the men were strong enough to offer sufficient protection. Because women haven't undergone selective pressure in millennia, these caveman habits persist. When a man "negs" a woman, he is communicating that he is strong. I will add that negging should be playful and not rude.

As a man, I remember the moment I learned that negging women worked and never looked back. I treated women poorly, and they rewarded me with more attention than ever before. If you want further proof, think of the women who ask, "Why are all men a--holes?" The answer, of course, it that women only notice the a--holes, not that all men exhibit such bad bheavior.

It's really sad that you can only get insecure needy women that you can manipulate. I'm not sure why you think this is a badge of honour.

Right? This is NOT the flex you seem to see it as, bro.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Women "s--ttest" men due to evolution. In the caveman days, women needed a strong man to protect them. Women evolved to repeatedly test men to make sure the men were strong enough to offer sufficient protection. Because women haven't undergone selective pressure in millennia, these caveman habits persist. When a man "negs" a woman, he is communicating that he is strong. I will add that negging should be playful and not rude.

As a man, I remember the moment I learned that negging women worked and never looked back. I treated women poorly, and they rewarded me with more attention than ever before. If you want further proof, think of the women who ask, "Why are all men a--holes?" The answer, of course, it that women only notice the a--holes, not that all men exhibit such bad bheavior.

It's really sad that you can only get insecure needy women that you can manipulate. I'm not sure why you think this is a badge of honour.

Happily married for many decades at this point. What you call manipulation, I call giving women what they need. I don't "neg" my wife, but I have consistently provided her male leadership throughout our marriage, and she's the happiest woman I know.

Look at all the unhappy women on DCUM. It's sad to see them wishing for things to be different. The truth is they know what they want but they don't know what they need. Every adult should understand that men and women need completely different things in a relationship and be able to provide those to build a stable, loving relationship.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Women "s--ttest" men due to evolution. In the caveman days, women needed a strong man to protect them. Women evolved to repeatedly test men to make sure the men were strong enough to offer sufficient protection. Because women haven't undergone selective pressure in millennia, these caveman habits persist. When a man "negs" a woman, he is communicating that he is strong. I will add that negging should be playful and not rude.

As a man, I remember the moment I learned that negging women worked and never looked back. I treated women poorly, and they rewarded me with more attention than ever before. If you want further proof, think of the women who ask, "Why are all men a--holes?" The answer, of course, it that women only notice the a--holes, not that all men exhibit such bad bheavior.

It's really sad that you can only get insecure needy women that you can manipulate. I'm not sure why you think this is a badge of honour.

Happily married for many decades at this point. What you call manipulation, I call giving women what they need. I don't "neg" my wife, but I have consistently provided her male leadership throughout our marriage, and she's the happiest woman I know.

Look at all the unhappy women on DCUM. It's sad to see them wishing for things to be different. The truth is they know what they want but they don't know what they need. Every adult should understand that men and women need completely different things in a relationship and be able to provide those to build a stable, loving relationship.

Any tips on how to implement this in your daily life?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Women "s--ttest" men due to evolution. In the caveman days, women needed a strong man to protect them. Women evolved to repeatedly test men to make sure the men were strong enough to offer sufficient protection. Because women haven't undergone selective pressure in millennia, these caveman habits persist. When a man "negs" a woman, he is communicating that he is strong. I will add that negging should be playful and not rude.

As a man, I remember the moment I learned that negging women worked and never looked back. I treated women poorly, and they rewarded me with more attention than ever before. If you want further proof, think of the women who ask, "Why are all men a--holes?" The answer, of course, it that women only notice the a--holes, not that all men exhibit such bad bheavior.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Women "s--ttest" men due to evolution. In the caveman days, women needed a strong man to protect them. Women evolved to repeatedly test men to make sure the men were strong enough to offer sufficient protection. Because women haven't undergone selective pressure in millennia, these caveman habits persist. When a man "negs" a woman, he is communicating that he is strong. I will add that negging should be playful and not rude.

As a man, I remember the moment I learned that negging women worked and never looked back. I treated women poorly, and they rewarded me with more attention than ever before. If you want further proof, think of the women who ask, "Why are all men a--holes?" The answer, of course, it that women only notice the a--holes, not that all men exhibit such bad bheavior.

It's really sad that you can only get insecure needy women that you can manipulate. I'm not sure why you think this is a badge of honour.

Happily married for many decades at this point. What you call manipulation, I call giving women what they need. I don't "neg" my wife, but I have consistently provided her male leadership throughout our marriage, and she's the happiest woman I know.

Look at all the unhappy women on DCUM. It's sad to see them wishing for things to be different. The truth is they know what they want but they don't know what they need. Every adult should understand that men and women need completely different things in a relationship and be able to provide those to build a stable, loving relationship.

Red Pill Alert

Big on theory, small on healthy interactions.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Women "s--ttest" men due to evolution. In the caveman days, women needed a strong man to protect them. Women evolved to repeatedly test men to make sure the men were strong enough to offer sufficient protection. Because women haven't undergone selective pressure in millennia, these caveman habits persist. When a man "negs" a woman, he is communicating that he is strong. I will add that negging should be playful and not rude.

As a man, I remember the moment I learned that negging women worked and never looked back. I treated women poorly, and they rewarded me with more attention than ever before. If you want further proof, think of the women who ask, "Why are all men a--holes?" The answer, of course, it that women only notice the a--holes, not that all men exhibit such bad bheavior.

It's really sad that you can only get insecure needy women that you can manipulate. I'm not sure why you think this is a badge of honour.

Happily married for many decades at this point. What you call manipulation, I call giving women what they need. I don't "neg" my wife, but I have consistently provided her male leadership throughout our marriage, and she's the happiest woman I know.

Look at all the unhappy women on DCUM. It's sad to see them wishing for things to be different. The truth is they know what they want but they don't know what they need. Every adult should understand that men and women need completely different things in a relationship and be able to provide those to build a stable, loving relationship.

Show us your magic tricks.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Women "s--ttest" men due to evolution. In the caveman days, women needed a strong man to protect them. Women evolved to repeatedly test men to make sure the men were strong enough to offer sufficient protection. Because women haven't undergone selective pressure in millennia, these caveman habits persist. When a man "negs" a woman, he is communicating that he is strong. I will add that negging should be playful and not rude.

As a man, I remember the moment I learned that negging women worked and never looked back. I treated women poorly, and they rewarded me with more attention than ever before. If you want further proof, think of the women who ask, "Why are all men a--holes?" The answer, of course, it that women only notice the a--holes, not that all men exhibit such bad bheavior.

It's really sad that you can only get insecure needy women that you can manipulate. I'm not sure why you think this is a badge of honour.

Happily married for many decades at this point. What you call manipulation, I call giving women what they need. I don't "neg" my wife, but I have consistently provided her male leadership throughout our marriage, and she's the happiest woman I know.

Look at all the unhappy women on DCUM. It's sad to see them wishing for things to be different. The truth is they know what they want but they don't know what they need. Every adult should understand that men and women need completely different things in a relationship and be able to provide those to build a stable, loving relationship.

Show us your magic tricks.

*snerk*

Also? "She's the happiest woman I know" -knows exactly one woman

Any time men talk about how women don't know what they want/need, but some dude does, my clit retracts and I go desert dry.