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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Women "s--ttest" men due to evolution.  In the caveman days, women needed a strong man to protect them.  Women evolved to repeatedly test men to make sure the men were strong enough to offer sufficient protection.  Because women haven't undergone selective pressure in millennia, these caveman habits persist.  When a man "negs" a woman, he is communicating that he is strong.  I will add that negging should be playful and not rude.

[b]As a man, I remember the moment I learned that negging women worked and never looked back.  I treated women poorly, and they rewarded me with more attention than ever before[/b].  If you want further proof, think of the women who ask, "Why are all men a--holes?"  The answer, of course, it that women only notice the a--holes, not that all men exhibit such bad bheavior.  
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It's really sad that you can only get insecure needy women that you can manipulate. I'm not sure why you think this is a badge of honour. [/quote]

Happily married for many decades at this point.  What you call manipulation, I call giving women what they need.  I don't "neg" my wife, but I have consistently provided her male leadership throughout our marriage, and she's the happiest woman I know.

Look at all the unhappy women on DCUM.  It's sad to see them wishing for things to be different.  The truth is they know what they want but they don't know what they need.  Every adult should understand that men and women need completely different things in a relationship and be able to provide those to build a stable, loving relationship.[/quote]

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