Mom Remarried- New Guy And Shoes

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:They are married. Please do not disrespect her or her new husband. Take your shoes off. It’s a lot easier to clean a shoeless house, and at their age after hosting a big get together it’s the least you can do to minimize their work.

No. If this is the house OP grew up in then OP can do what she likes. It is her house as much as the Mothers. I do think you have to bring it up to her though. The whole concept is stupid.

[Anonymous]

Ok you should boycott. Losing your shoes is just the start of your problems.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:They are married. Please do not disrespect her or her new husband. Take your shoes off. It’s a lot easier to clean a shoeless house, and at their age after hosting a big get together it’s the least you can do to minimize their work.

No. If this is the house OP grew up in then OP can do what she likes. It is her house as much as the Mothers. I do think you have to bring it up to her though. The whole concept is stupid.

TIL I'm a real estate millionaire!! I own every property I ever lived in, even if I didn't pay mortgage or rent!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:No, you can't ignore it. It's his house (and hers too now)-- but it's not yours and that's the key point. If it bothers you, bring slippers.

When your parent marries, you have to make compromises and accept changes. Welcome to being an adult stepchild!

Dude, stepchild infers a parental relationship. Use a different phrase.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:He is not the 'new man' of the house. What a bizarre idea. He's been in th ehouse for 2 months, OP has been in it her entire life. If there are growing pain concessions to make, they are his to burden.

I find it odd that he would do this. You'd think he would read the room and go with the flow.

I hope your mom is safe OP

<hugs>

Just because OP acts like a child doesn't mean she still lives with her mom.

[Anonymous]

You wear shoes inside? Animals.

[Anonymous]

Ya'll must be under 40. Most 40 year olds have to wear shoes with special inserts for knee and foot health and to prevent knee and foot pain.

No way can I walk around on hard wood floor or tile floor or even carpet with only slippers on.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:You wear shoes inside? Animals.

Yes, we aren't germophobe sociopaths.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:They are married. Please do not disrespect her or her new husband. Take your shoes off. It’s a lot easier to clean a shoeless house, and at their age after hosting a big get together it’s the least you can do to minimize their work.

No. If this is the house OP grew up in then OP can do what she likes. It is her house as much as the Mothers. I do think you have to bring it up to her though. The whole concept is stupid.

No it is her mother’s house and it was never her house. My mom can change anything she wants in her house. I grew up there but I never owned any part of it though one day will. I have my own home and I make the rules and changes I want.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:No, you can't ignore it. It's his house (and hers too now)-- but it's not yours and that's the key point. If it bothers you, bring slippers.

When your parent marries, you have to make compromises and accept changes. Welcome to being an adult stepchild!

What? No, you do not have to accept changes. He can accept that people wear shoes in the house that they have been wearing shoes in for the last 4 decades!

You can take your shoes off, or you can stay home alone. It's up to you. You sound like a brat.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:No, you can't ignore it. It's his house (and hers too now)-- but it's not yours and that's the key point. If it bothers you, bring slippers.

When your parent marries, you have to make compromises and accept changes. Welcome to being an adult stepchild!

What? No, you do not have to accept changes. He can accept that people wear shoes in the house that they have been wearing shoes in for the last 4 decades!

You can take your shoes off, or you can stay home alone. It's up to you. You sound like a brat.

OP stole the party and now all her sibs are supposedly having Thanksgiving dinner at hers, snubbing her mother.

[Anonymous]

NP. My heart actually aches for your mom.

Why did you lie in your opening post about being happy she's happy?

[Anonymous]

Would you generally ignore people's instructions about shoes in their house? This isn't that different, although I get that it can be upsetting to see your childhood home evolve esp with a new person. Also , Unless they are married but living separaetly, it's also his house.

[Anonymous]

1. Your mom is now in her mid to late 60s. Shoes are gross and messy, maybe she’s not able to clean up after that any more.
2. I’m Canadian, so maybe I don’t get the American thing about wearing shoes in houses. Taking your shoes off for 6 hours is really minor, and not indicative of any trauma in your life.
3. I have a friend who does need to wear shoes all the time as she had polio as a child. She has indoor shoes.
4. I’m overlap
Ing feelings regarding if you’re just a annoying and self Center jerk or a bad troll

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Ya'll must be under 40. Most 40 year olds have to wear shoes with special inserts for knee and foot health and to prevent knee and foot pain.

No way can I walk around on hard wood floor or tile floor or even carpet with only slippers on.

Sorry you’re so unfit. Get some indoor shoes, or work on strengthening and flexibility. 40 is young to be having these issues.