Nephew thinks our house is an Airbnb

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:You're family. Be glad they are staying with you. Jeez.

Go away. We're all sick of your crap. You never care about the impositions others make. These people are clearly taking advantage.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Why do you have to clean the bathroom after they leave? Clean the bathroom in the normal cleaning schedule. Same for the room and their sheets.

Ditto for dinner. Feed them what you feed yourself. You are creating drama because you seem to be a penny pincher. I see no problems with anyone coming to our house. You are family and I have a normal casual lifestyle.

The more people come to my house the better it is. We welcome people coming to our house and staying over. We do not go crazy trying to entertain them and host them if they are family. Mi casa is su casa.

You don't get to dictate that op live your way. I don't know anyone who would put up with this. Most of us are too busy.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP, you obviously don't like your nephew much. You have followed up multiple times filling us in on how much he actually sucks. He must be truly clueless to think he is welcome, and not to notice how much you dislike him. Poor guy.

No one ever wants to visit you, do they? The people attacking op are, without a doubt, leeches.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:You're family. Be glad they are staying with you. Jeez.

I really dislike people like you. What sort of abusive household were you raised in where adults can’t speak up when they are being taken advantage of?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Yuck! I cannot believe the low class and low bred advice on this board. No wonder y'all are so lonely and hated. Nasty, nasty culture.

You should be ashamed. What a bunch of beetches.

Great, Shakespeare has joined the chat. Get thee to school, “beetch.”

[Anonymous]

If he thought that, he would be paying you.

Op, any chance you are SE Asian? Because some of the things you mention about you DH being scared of his sister ring true (as someone from that group).

Anyway, you got some good advice here before the thread went off the rails.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Yuck! I cannot believe the low class and low bred advice on this board. No wonder y'all are so lonely and hated. Nasty, nasty culture.

You should be ashamed. What a bunch of beetches.

Ah, here the epitome of high class has spoken.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:You're family. Be glad they are staying with you. Jeez.

Go away. We're all sick of your crap. You never care about the impositions others make. These people are clearly taking advantage.

We're all sick of your crap? You and all the people in your head?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:You're family. Be glad they are staying with you. Jeez.

I really dislike people like you. What sort of abusive household were you raised in where adults can’t speak up when they are being taken advantage of?

And I feel sorry for people like you, who don't value their own relatives. Very sad shriveled hearts on display.

[Anonymous]

To be fair, Airbnb isn't free and tgey don't provide food or pick n drop.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP, you obviously don't like your nephew much. You have followed up multiple times filling us in on how much he actually sucks. He must be truly clueless to think he is welcome, and not to notice how much you dislike him. Poor guy.

No one ever wants to visit you, do they? The people attacking op are, without a doubt, leeches.

It's already clear you are on the a-hold side of this argument, PP. No need to randomly display the trait.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Why do you have to clean the bathroom after they leave? Clean the bathroom in the normal cleaning schedule. Same for the room and their sheets.

Ditto for dinner. Feed them what you feed yourself. You are creating drama because you seem to be a penny pincher. I see no problems with anyone coming to our house. You are family and I have a normal casual lifestyle.

The more people come to my house the better it is. We welcome people coming to our house and staying over. We do not go crazy trying to entertain them and host them if they are family. Mi casa is su casa.

You don't get to dictate that op live your way. I don't know anyone who would put up with this. Most of us are too busy.

This. Between work, household, social life, kids and hobbies, who has time to host same people every month for several days?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Will you really be happier when no one comes to visit you anymore? Because once you make them feel awkward, they won't come just once or twice a year. They'll know they're not welcome and won't come at all. Is that really what you want? Lots of mean spirited shrews on this thread, but personally I'd rather mop the floor several times a year for relatives who visit me than just be me and my DH, getting older alone, like Ma and Pa Kettle. That's just me.

Np. We are not Shrews if we want our own space. How very sexist of you. And yes if they choose ti be offended that is on them. Not me. If op has kids who visit than they don't need freeloaders nephew.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:You're family. Be glad they are staying with you. Jeez.

I really dislike people like you. What sort of abusive household were you raised in where adults can’t speak up when they are being taken advantage of?

And I feel sorry for people like you, who don't value their own relatives. Very sad shriveled hearts on display.

Why doesn't the nephew value his uncle and aunt? My husband has a cousin who is a taker and will stay with his mom in Florida for weeks! We would never do that to her parents!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Will you really be happier when no one comes to visit you anymore? Because once you make them feel awkward, they won't come just once or twice a year. They'll know they're not welcome and won't come at all. Is that really what you want? Lots of mean spirited shrews on this thread, but personally I'd rather mop the floor several times a year for relatives who visit me than just be me and my DH, getting older alone, like Ma and Pa Kettle. That's just me.

Np. We are not Shrews if we want our own space. How very sexist of you. And yes if they choose ti be offended that is on them. Not me. If op has kids who visit than they don't need freeloaders nephew.

Wanting your own space is not a warm and loving trait.