Men do you care if your wives are average looking after babies and many years of marriage?

[Anonymous]

It doesn't matter what "men" prefer, it just matters what your husband prefers. If you care, that is.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:My husband put on a lot of weight during Covid and I do not like it. I would never, ever tell this to his face. But I definitely find him less attractive now, though we have an active and healthy sex life.

I even tell him I don't mind and that I think he looks great.
(He doesn't look great.)
I'm sure the same thing is happening in the houses of all the women out there who have put on 30lbs since they got married.
Men aren't going to say anything, and they are going to continue to sleep with you, but probably out of comfort and love, not desire.

I don’t know. Is it really necessary to have your spouse desire your body after a decade and a half and multiple children together? Is there ever a point where being as attractive as possible to your spouse doesn’t have to be on your radar, and comfort, love, and an active sex life are enough? Do you have to be beautiful too?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:My husband put on a lot of weight during Covid and I do not like it. I would never, ever tell this to his face. But I definitely find him less attractive now, though we have an active and healthy sex life.

I even tell him I don't mind and that I think he looks great.
(He doesn't look great.)
I'm sure the same thing is happening in the houses of all the women out there who have put on 30lbs since they got married.
Men aren't going to say anything, and they are going to continue to sleep with you, but probably out of comfort and love, not desire.

I don’t know. Is it really necessary to have your spouse desire your body after a decade and a half and multiple children together? Is there ever a point where being as attractive as possible to your spouse doesn’t have to be on your radar, and comfort, love, and an active sex life are enough? Do you have to be beautiful too?

That's part of my point. The other part of my point is that all the women who are claiming that "their husbands love their..." or that they are still "hot" are more than a little delusional.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:My husband put on a lot of weight during Covid and I do not like it. I would never, ever tell this to his face. But I definitely find him less attractive now, though we have an active and healthy sex life.

I even tell him I don't mind and that I think he looks great.
(He doesn't look great.)
I'm sure the same thing is happening in the houses of all the women out there who have put on 30lbs since they got married.
Men aren't going to say anything, and they are going to continue to sleep with you, but probably out of comfort and love, not desire.

I don’t know. Is it really necessary to have your spouse desire your body after a decade and a half and multiple children together? Is there ever a point where being as attractive as possible to your spouse doesn’t have to be on your radar, and comfort, love, and an active sex life are enough? Do you have to be beautiful too?

That's part of my point. The other part of my point is that all the women who are claiming that "their husbands love their..." or that they are still "hot" are more than a little delusional.

Basically, just dealing with the body of your current spouse is just a heck of a lot easier way to get laid than getting a divorce and finding someone hotter. So, stop pretending that your husband is really into your droopy boobs, cellulite, and muffin top....

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:My husband put on a lot of weight during Covid and I do not like it. I would never, ever tell this to his face. But I definitely find him less attractive now, though we have an active and healthy sex life.

I even tell him I don't mind and that I think he looks great.
(He doesn't look great.)
I'm sure the same thing is happening in the houses of all the women out there who have put on 30lbs since they got married.
Men aren't going to say anything, and they are going to continue to sleep with you, but probably out of comfort and love, not desire.

I don’t know. Is it really necessary to have your spouse desire your body after a decade and a half and multiple children together? Is there ever a point where being as attractive as possible to your spouse doesn’t have to be on your radar, and comfort, love, and an active sex life are enough? Do you have to be beautiful too?

That's part of my point. The other part of my point is that all the women who are claiming that "their husbands love their..." or that they are still "hot" are more than a little delusional.

Basically, just dealing with the body of your current spouse is just a heck of a lot easier way to get laid than getting a divorce and finding someone hotter. So, stop pretending that your husband is really into your droopy boobs, cellulite, and muffin top....

I mean sure.. I don't find DH's droopy moobs and big belly hot, but, I think men have a lower bar than women do.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:My husband put on a lot of weight during Covid and I do not like it. I would never, ever tell this to his face. But I definitely find him less attractive now, though we have an active and healthy sex life.

I even tell him I don't mind and that I think he looks great.
(He doesn't look great.)
I'm sure the same thing is happening in the houses of all the women out there who have put on 30lbs since they got married.
Men aren't going to say anything, and they are going to continue to sleep with you, but probably out of comfort and love, not desire.

I don’t know. Is it really necessary to have your spouse desire your body after a decade and a half and multiple children together? Is there ever a point where being as attractive as possible to your spouse doesn’t have to be on your radar, and comfort, love, and an active sex life are enough? Do you have to be beautiful too?

That's part of my point. The other part of my point is that all the women who are claiming that "their husbands love their..." or that they are still "hot" are more than a little delusional.

Basically, just dealing with the body of your current spouse is just a heck of a lot easier way to get laid than getting a divorce and finding someone hotter. So, stop pretending that your husband is really into your droopy boobs, cellulite, and muffin top....

I mean sure.. I don't find DH's droopy moobs and big belly hot, but, I think men have a lower bar than women do.

If they are poor, definitely...