Wife’s Behavior Confirms I Should Divorce Her

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:The store closed at 9 pm. It was 9:15 when she went to pay. I had told her they were shutting down. But she had to keep shopping.

As to verbal abuse, let’s turn the tables and ask whether you would put up with being yelled at and called nasty names in public because your DH was having a fit over some stupid thing? I don’t think so. My W cannot regulate her emotional responses.

I’ll accept lifetime alimony from her. She made $230K last year. She doesn’t need it.

Woman FSO here. I don't know why everyone here is piling on. She sounds like a nightmare.

We've done unaccompanied posts (including right now). It may be the only way we can make it through - ha!

Anyway - go ahead and file. Don't let her come to post. Talk to Management/HR about dropping her from your orders.

Good luck.

You guys are gullible. We don't have the wife's side so I am skeptical of his version.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Your wife sounds like she is very ungrateful and even possibly depressed.

I agree w/you, that you two need to get a divorce.

Sounds like you are a much better person when she is not around.

Good luck.

Uh. What does she have to be grateful for, exactly? Sounds like she’s forged a good career and raised his children all on her own while he was elsewhere, whining.

1. Roof over her head
2. That I didby divorce her ten years ago after she was arrested and I found out she was cheating.
3. For keeping her out of jail - twice - when her bad behavior involved law enforcement.
4. For putting my children through college.
5. For supporting her through grass school.

We all have things we can be grateful for.

So your children are from your first marriage and she is from your second marriage.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I'd say divorce. Any women who HAS to have a $4000 purse on 400k HHI sounds like a piece of work.

Sounds like she could afford it herself.

Yep. And I hope for her sake he does divorce her. He can live off his meagre, pathetic foreign service salary and she can live in up with her successful/wealthy income, and wont have a whining nag of a loser husband following her around. Get it girl!

[Anonymous]

I love DCUM. If a man is alone in a forest, with no women around is he still wrong?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Your wife sounds like she is very ungrateful and even possibly depressed.

I agree w/you, that you two need to get a divorce.

Sounds like you are a much better person when she is not around.

Good luck.

Uh. What does she have to be grateful for, exactly? Sounds like she’s forged a good career and raised his children all on her own while he was elsewhere, whining.

1. Roof over her head
2. That I didby divorce her ten years ago after she was arrested and I found out she was cheating.
3. For keeping her out of jail - twice - when her bad behavior involved law enforcement.
4. For putting my children through college.
5. For supporting her through grass school.

We all have things we can be grateful for.

Dude, seriously, you are so pathetic. Why do you seemingly love this dynamic so much? Pull the effing trigger on the divorce already. God I'm so sick of your whining.

[Anonymous]

How are there 7 pages when the original post didn’t have a question?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Why would you assume that? I pay the mortgage. So, she’s living rent free in the house, which, by the way, I don’t want. She can keep it.

I’ll take have if $4 million. She’ll be ok, as will I.

You have 4 million and she makes the bulk of the money and you don’t want her to have a designer bag? You’re an a$$.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Your wife sounds like she is very ungrateful and even possibly depressed.

I agree w/you, that you two need to get a divorce.

Sounds like you are a much better person when she is not around.

Good luck.

Uh. What does she have to be grateful for, exactly? Sounds like she’s forged a good career and raised his children all on her own while he was elsewhere, whining.

1. Roof over her head
2. That I didby divorce her ten years ago after she was arrested and I found out she was cheating.
3. For keeping her out of jail - twice - when her bad behavior involved law enforcement.
4. For putting my children through college.
5. For supporting her through grass school.

We all have things we can be grateful for.

In Virginia, I think a felony record, during the marriage, is a bar to alimony.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Your wife sounds like she is very ungrateful and even possibly depressed.

I agree w/you, that you two need to get a divorce.

Sounds like you are a much better person when she is not around.

Good luck.

Uh. What does she have to be grateful for, exactly? Sounds like she’s forged a good career and raised his children all on her own while he was elsewhere, whining.

1. Roof over her head
2. That I didby divorce her ten years ago after she was arrested and I found out she was cheating.
3. For keeping her out of jail - twice - when her bad behavior involved law enforcement.
4. For putting my children through college.
5. For supporting her through grass school.

We all have things we can be grateful for.

Dude, seriously, you are so pathetic. Why do you seemingly love this dynamic so much? Pull the effing trigger on the divorce already. God I'm so sick of your whining.

Geez, kick a dog when it's down why don't you. Obviously, the BPD, criminal, cheater, 4000 handbag whining wife is the bad guy here.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I'd say divorce. Any women who HAS to have a $4000 purse on 400k HHI sounds like a piece of work.

Sounds like she could afford it herself.

Yep. And I hope for her sake he does divorce her. He can live off his meagre, pathetic foreign service salary and she can live in up with her successful/wealthy income, and wont have a whining nag of a loser husband following her around. Get it girl!

This! I'm excited for her new life!

[Anonymous]

What is a pathetic, meagre salary? You have no idea what OP earns more whether he has other sources of income. If he’s at the 01 or SFS level he’s not doing too bad.

Likewise, I guess the salaries of our senior military officers are “pathetic and meagre.” Obviously, no one here has served or is serving in a military or civilian capacity to treat the people keeping us safe from harm with disrespect.

Success is not measured by the size of your wallet.

[Anonymous]

Signed FSO, and son of a career military officer and brother to another.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:What is a pathetic, meagre salary? You have no idea what OP earns more whether he has other sources of income. If he’s at the 01 or SFS level he’s not doing too bad.

Likewise, I guess the salaries of our senior military officers are “pathetic and meagre.” Obviously, no one here has served or is serving in a military or civilian capacity to treat the people keeping us safe from harm with disrespect.

Success is not measured by the size of your wallet.

if he's whining and crying over a $4k purse, and we already know his wife is bringing 230k to the equation and making more than him, then it aint much. He's a total loser.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Your wife sounds like she is very ungrateful and even possibly depressed.

I agree w/you, that you two need to get a divorce.

Sounds like you are a much better person when she is not around.

Good luck.

Uh. What does she have to be grateful for, exactly? Sounds like she’s forged a good career and raised his children all on her own while he was elsewhere, whining.

1. Roof over her head
2. That I didby divorce her ten years ago after she was arrested and I found out she was cheating.
3. For keeping her out of jail - twice - when her bad behavior involved law enforcement.
4. For putting my children through college.
5. For supporting her through grass school.

We all have things we can be grateful for.

OP, what is your educational background because you make zero sense.

[Anonymous]

You have posted before. In all honesty, YOU sound awful. Some introspection might be in order.