Spouse asks you to come home from later

[Anonymous]

I know this is a bit of an inane question, but I'm curious. If your spouse asked you (ONE night) to come home a bit later from work because of an extended playdate and dinner, would you be upset? Spouse was non-specific about why - merely explained that it would make things a little easier for the playdate.

[Anonymous]

OP here - "come home from *work* later"

[Anonymous]

Yikes yes I would be upset

[Anonymous]

Yes I would be upset. I can't think of any scenario where this is an ok scenario.

[Anonymous]

Yes. It's an odd request and I would want to know exactly why my presence is an issue.

[Anonymous]

I would be a bit annoyed. I would like to think I was always welcome in out home. Plus after work, I'm done and ready to head home.

[Anonymous]

OP again - spouse also suggested grabbing a beer at the neighborhood bar before coming home or stopping by the shops for some christmas shopping.

[Anonymous]

I'd ask why. Duh.

[Anonymous]

I always ask my spouse to come home a little later if they were going to come home in the middle of bedtime routine. Either come home before bedtime routine or after they’re in bed but not in the middle.

[Anonymous]

Do you have a birthday coming up? Surprise party?

[Anonymous]

All the old bitter skeptical and suspicious folks grumbling about how annoying and odd the request is.

What happened to your optimism?
What happened to your faith in the one you love?
Any of you even stop to think your spouse could be setting things up for a surprise romantic evening for you two?

Sheesh.

[Anonymous]

Are there any of your spouse's friends or family members that you don't like?

[Anonymous]

I’d assume the kids we’re doing some sort of Xmas gift project or something.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I always ask my spouse to come home a little later if they were going to come home in the middle of bedtime routine. Either come home before bedtime routine or after they’re in bed but not in the middle.

[Anonymous]

I’d be offended.